Why Gals Nowadays So Dependent?
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Not all... but most...
When i was together wif my ex... dun expect him to do anithing for mi... not even drive me back fr sch even if hes own hes way home... the reason he gave mi.. "i dun wanna pamper ya too much"... ok.. fine.. i understand... but i came realising hes doing soo much for hes current gf... Everything is sooo diff... maybe i shdnt compare...
aniwae... back to my topic... i find tt gals ard me very dependent on bfs... even if no bf come and look for mi to help them...
eg:
hp lost... call mi up check the price... how the hell i know the price... even have to log into website check for her... (dun say shes a internet idiot... shes been surfing net for at least 5 yrs)
and mani mani things...
sighz...
mummie always tell mi... if gals beri independent, they will always be made used by others... true???
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hmm.. wat i feel is ah... gals dependent in this society is VERY normal...
they always say gals and guys are equal...
eh i dunno wat i saying also leh... u can rephrase and say wat r u trying to say?
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe -
aiyo.. what i mean is...
Gals are soooo dependent on their partner....
as a gal, i see liow damn buay song... LOL
cos no one pamper mi
i dunno to cry or luff wor -
haha.. frankly speaking, i also dun really get wat u are trying to tell us.. keke..
but then, i am not a v dependent person as i can do chores and cook for myself etc, so i dun need ppl to look after me.. but coming to r/s, i admit i am v dependant on my bf, and i would seek his advice before proceeding to do other things etc.
but i noe, there is no such thing as "i will die if i dun haf u.." u live for urself and not for anyone else.. -
mike is willing to pamper u!!!~Originally posted by RuthBaby:aiyo.. what i mean is...
Gals are soooo dependent on their partner....
as a gal, i see liow damn buay song... LOL
cos no one pamper mi
i dunno to cry or luff wor -
Dun Make Mi Cry
hahahahaha!
all im trying to say is Gals are too dependent on their bf
beri true wor...
sianz -
Girls dependent on bf then can show bf capable mah... To satisfy their ego. Hahaha
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I suppose that's only true at maybe early bf and gf stage. After that, they are kind of like got married together liaoz and not so dependent. For instance, I doubt your parents are so dependent on each other.
This one got sociology theory one, which is similar to why women are willing to leave abused families. when the woman has equal or more than the guy in terms of wealth, she is less going to be dependent. For example, you parents if both your parents are working, they are likely to be less dependent on each other right?
Still got others but don't havemy soci notes with me now... will post again...
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i see Bear always post serious stuffs..
>clap< >clap<
hmm.. how abt guys so dependent on gals..?
i used to have a sec sch classmate who very dependent on his gf... cuz gf rich...
bottomline... u rich, u got r/s... u not rich u go "ho gao gan"...
so... love sucks
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe -
i jus wan someone to pamper mi
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I want somebody to share
Share the rest of my life
Share my innermost thoughts
Know my intimate details
Someone who'll stand by my side
And give me support
And in return
She'll get my support
She will listen to me
When I want to speak
About the world we live in
And life in general
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted
She'll hear me out
And won't easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact she'll often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me
Aaaahhhhh....
I want somebody who cares
For me passionately
With every thought and
With every breath
Someone who'll help me see things
In a different light
All the things I detest
I will almost like
I don't want to be tied
To anyone's strings
I'm carefully trying to steer clear of
Those things
But when I'm asleep
I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me
And kiss me tenderly
Though things like this
Make me sick
In a case like this
I'll get away with it -
i can apply or not?Originally posted by RuthBaby:i jus wan someone to pamper mi
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to live is evil...=) -
doko ni yukeba ii
anata to hanarete
ima wa sugisatta
toki ni toikakete
naga sugita yoru ni
tabidachi o yume mita
ikoku no sora mitsumete
kodoku o dakishimeta
nagareru namida o
toki no kaze ni kasanete
owaranai anata no
toiki o kanjite
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
LONELINESS YOUR SILENT WHISPER
FILLS A RIVER OF TEARS THROUGH THE NIGHT
MEMORY YOU NEVER LET ME CRY
AND YOU, YOU NEVER SAID GOOD-BYE
SOMETIMES OUR TEARS BLINDED THE LOVE
WE LOST OUR DREAMS ALONG THE WAY
BUT I NEVER THOUGHT YOU'D TRADE YOUR SOUL TO THE FATES
NEVER THOUGHT YOU'D LEAVE ME ALONE
TIME THROUGH THE RAIN HAS SET ME FREE
SANDS OF TIME WILL KEEP YOUR MEMORY
LOVE EVERLASTING FADES AWAY
ALIVE WITHIN YOUR BEATLESS HEART
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
nagareru namida o
toki no kaze ni kasanete
owaranai kanashimi o
aoi bara ni kaete
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
nagareru namida o toki no kaze ni kasanete
owaranai anata no toiki o kanjite
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE
DRY YOUR TEARS WITH LOVE -
got tissue paper for wat use love rite?
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Girls are girls.Ha!They are so plain annoying and troublesome,can't stand it!Originally posted by RuthBaby:Not all... but most...
When i was together wif my ex... dun expect him to do anithing for mi... not even drive me back fr sch even if hes own hes way home... the reason he gave mi.. "i dun wanna pamper ya too much"... ok.. fine.. i understand... but i came realising hes doing soo much for hes current gf... Everything is sooo diff... maybe i shdnt compare...
aniwae... back to my topic... i find tt gals ard me very dependent on bfs... even if no bf come and look for mi to help them...
eg:
hp lost... call mi up check the price... how the hell i know the price... even have to log into website check for her... (dun say shes a internet idiot... shes been surfing net for at least 5 yrs)
and mani mani things...
sighz...
mummie always tell mi... if gals beri independent, they will always be made used by others... true???
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[This message has been edited by JacK84 (edited 30 April 2002).] -
MIKE!!!! where are U???Originally posted by RuthBaby:i jus wan someone to pamper mi -
Dun Worrie... He jus pampered mi on sms y/dOriginally posted by joanne:MIKE!!!! where are U??? -
You want PAMPERS? AVAILABLE at all leading supermarkets and departmental stores....Originally posted by RuthBaby:i jus wan someone to pamper mi -
Originally posted by RuthBaby:Dun Worrie... He jus pampered mi on sms y/d Met him before...?
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But dun you think that even when there is some1 to pamper you, you might not appreciate it coz he/she's not THE ONE?
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Actually, I'm not so serious one.. if you had checked my history, you will know that I crap a lot, but that time I was in NS, very engz, coz was given an admin job, even when I was Pes A. Got my own computer, got my own network, and my workload is really easy.. Can complete them in 2 mornings every week. Supervisor also don't bother much about me, coz I always turn in my work in time. Thus, I had a lot of time. Now studying, not much of time to spare esp for this semester when I'm taking like 6 modules. Hardly can even catch my breath from the pile of work, let alone the problems that are thrown to me by my friends. Where to find time to crap, so most of the time talk serious lorz...
Alamakz... my image in this forum have changed liaoz... =(... hehhhe~
Well tell you lahz.. not rich horz.. what can you do?? Aim to be rich, and really work your way there lorz... If you think hard work at your company cannot get there, think of something that will help you. Like getting higher qualifications, or let your interest be freed from it's captivity. Like it or not.. society is like this.. Might as well embrace the facts and work your way... Rather than resent and be stagnant there, hoping that some day miracle will befall on you...
Dare to dream, but realize your dream...
------------------Originally posted by bigdeal:i see Bear always post serious stuffs..
>clap< >clap<
hmm.. how abt guys so dependent on gals..?
i used to have a sec sch classmate who very dependent on his gf... cuz gf rich...
bottomline... u rich, u got r/s... u not rich u go "ho gao gan"...
so... love sucks
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( 'o' ) Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear
(,) (,) =======================
(.)_(.) Beary Bear *Huggiez*...
~.~.~. For you, I care and love. -
Hmm, you been thinkg about the past again, must have met your ex somewhere, huh? No wonder you been suffering these few weeks, you must let go and not be clinging on the thought that only a bf can pamper you, try looking it from another angle, ok? I really not very good at advising others, but I can tell you that bygones are bygones and there's so many pple bsides bf who can pamper you, be brave, Ruthie...Originally posted by RuthBaby:Not all... but most...
When i was together wif my ex... dun expect him to do anithing for mi... not even drive me back fr sch even if hes own hes way home... the reason he gave mi.. "i dun wanna pamper ya too much"... ok.. fine.. i understand... but i came realising hes doing soo much for hes current gf... Everything is sooo diff... maybe i shdnt compare...
aniwae... back to my topic... i find tt gals ard me very dependent on bfs... even if no bf come and look for mi to help them...
eg:
hp lost... call mi up check the price... how the hell i know the price... even have to log into website check for her... (dun say shes a internet idiot... shes been surfing net for at least 5 yrs)
and mani mani things...
sighz...
mummie always tell mi... if gals beri independent, they will always be made used by others... true???
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Fyi, no, we haven't met yet, but I really cares about her...Originally posted by Devil1976: Met him before...?
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
So mushy... my fur all stand up liaoz lahz...
------------------Originally posted by mikegk_76:Fyi, no, we haven't met yet, but I really cares about her...
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( 'o' ) Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear
(,) (,) =======================
(.)_(.) Beary Bear *Huggiez*...
~.~.~. For you, I care and love. -
is this bear that bear?