My Sad Story...
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Never ever SEND 1 sentence sms...it puts off the girl seriously..from a love expert like me...
i never send 1 sentence..
always send sentence not only which shows how much u care...but makes the girl interested to reply u back
1 sentence messages..keep it for msn...
its like..im always chatting and smsing about the future..what we gonna do and how many babies we're gonna have and kinda like to joke and have fun..
Remember..ur gf can be ur friend too.. -
Its not really a 'confrontation'. More like a 'meeting', or a 'chat session' to find out what's holding her back.Originally posted by James1:i think this point is out as because i have been already her 3 years of friend and also include a god bro & sis relationbship b4 and then couples. I'm a emotional guy, i could be hurt easily, and from what you nice people comments abt is more on to confront and sit down to have a nice chat wif her. I really afraid she might think that i dont trust her or giving her no freedom or wad. All right, i would prepare to face both positive & negative at all cost.
Here, we can only speculate and think what exactly is the problem. But by asking, you will Know what the problem is. It'll be easier to tackle it then..
You're worried about not trusting her and giving her no freedom..? huh..?
The relationship isn't moving forward, and only by removing the obstacles that stands in the way, will you be able to progress..
Don't take a confrontational tone. Remember to be calm and kind to her during the 'chat session'..
You may end up with some surprising facts you don't know about. Or not. -
declare asexuality. remove a source of potential disppointment from your life.Originally posted by James1:3 years ago, i got to know this girl, "J". she was my friend de friend. During that past 3 years, we have been a very good friend, joke and tease with one another, and we often go out with a group of friend and majority i with her.
And in the late last year, i beginning to develop feelings for her and tell her that i like her and wondering should we give it a try on the relationship. And she agrees immediately after the message i send her. And now, it has been already 2 weeks i've been with her liao, and i dont feel her love 4 me, i ask her friend about her and they all say she like dont know how 2 express herself wan, and is more 2 a shy type. But that couldnt be wad, for already 3 years of friend and still shy? And each time i message her with lots of sentence like, "what are you doing now", "have you taken your dinner", "what time your lecture begin tml", "what time you sleeping tonight" and she always answer me the last sentence and only a short phrase like, "i sleep tonight at 11pm." that's all. the feelin is like very sianz. You guys have any idea on my problems? I really likes her but i'm afraid to hurt her in the meantime by confronting her. And everytime i send her sms, she can replied me with a snail crawling from north to west. Sigh~~ -
In bgr, not guys always have to take 100% initiative right? i'm indeed in that situation where my gf not only dont take initiative and also dont know how 2 express herself. In fact, she will message me only if i message her. sad right? I really had no idea on the outcome, dont wish 2 hurt her by suggesting a break up. And i did message her several times in sms mentioning that "we should improve our bgr somehow." and i failed 2 recieve her message ultimately.
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And i heard ppl mentioning that, girls will take quite some time to develop a stronger love for a guy. is it true?
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Girls don't send boring messages unless ...you send them.....
where's ur pm?
i show u some examples of the smses which i send my gf der...
@ first abit not romantic..she give abit few sentences...but gradually..
its becoming a joy to sms her...
Always make sure that its a joy to send/receive her sms...
Due to popular public demand..ive decided to post the smses ive sent..
"Stars shining so brightly tonight at Choa chu kang..
My house is at lim chu kang...
your house is at yio chu kang...
wanna go eat ice ka-chang?"
2nd sms..
"The world is so small tonight, cause tonight its just you and me..
for this special v-day ...
ive decided to rekindle our love...
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Rest is too R(A) liao -
yo...
listen up boy...my ex was once like this also...
but she juz broke up wif mi....
1st few weeks ..is like tat one....
i asked my ex b4.....she said...she not used to the relationship yet..
but.....dun worry....she likes u.....juz tat...she need time to adjust....
my ex took 2-4weeks...b4 she finally show herself...
continue showering her wif ur love n concern..chat wif her everyday....n everything will be fine -
just have sex with her...
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oh realli? ur situation is somehow similiar to mine? how do u ask her mind me askin? but i realli dont feel any presence love from her. is she always dont zhu dong ma? and will only message u if u make the start?Originally posted by beckboy:yo...
listen up boy...my ex was once like this also...
but she juz broke up wif mi....
1st few weeks ..is like tat one....
i asked my ex b4.....she said...she not used to the relationship yet..
but.....dun worry....she likes u.....juz tat...she need time to adjust....
my ex took 2-4weeks...b4 she finally show herself...
continue showering her wif ur love n concern..chat wif her everyday....n everything will be fine -
As you have mentioned , she is quiet, and shy...Originally posted by James1:oh realli? ur situation is somehow similiar to mine? how do u ask her mind me askin? but i realli dont feel any presence love from her. is she always dont zhu dong ma? and will only message u if u make the start?
How to express her love for you in the 1st place?
2nd thing...must slowly influence her la...
Thats your duty..not mine..i got my own gf to look after..unless u want me to look after ur gf too..(no problem for me)
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the higher the expectation, the bigger the disappointment. Sometimes we hope the other party can be more responsive or watsoever... But maybe thats just the way they are.... Maybe U expect her to tok to you end up...she did not or seems busy then u start feel disappointed such feeling i guess most ppl have. Just try not to let it bother U too much loh.Originally posted by James1:3 years ago, i got to know this girl, "J". she was my friend de friend. During that past 3 years, we have been a very good friend, joke and tease with one another, and we often go out with a group of friend and majority i with her.
And in the late last year, i beginning to develop feelings for her and tell her that i like her and wondering should we give it a try on the relationship. And she agrees immediately after the message i send her. And now, it has been already 2 weeks i've been with her liao, and i dont feel her love 4 me, i ask her friend about her and they all say she like dont know how 2 express herself wan, and is more 2 a shy type. But that couldnt be wad, for already 3 years of friend and still shy? And each time i message her with lots of sentence like, "what are you doing now", "have you taken your dinner", "what time your lecture begin tml", "what time you sleeping tonight" and she always answer me the last sentence and only a short phrase like, "i sleep tonight at 11pm." that's all. the feelin is like very sianz. You guys have any idea on my problems? I really likes her but i'm afraid to hurt her in the meantime by confronting her. And everytime i send her sms, she can replied me with a snail crawling from north to west. Sigh~~ -
Bahhhh........Originally posted by HeckKER:Never ever SEND 1 sentence sms...it puts off the girl seriously..from a love expert like me...
i never send 1 sentence..
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muahahahahahaOriginally posted by M©+square:Bahhhh........ 
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Originally posted by HeckKER:As you have mentioned , she is quiet, and shy...
How to express her love for you in the 1st place?
2nd thing...must slowly influence her la...
Thats your duty..not mine..i got my own gf to look after..unless u want me to look after ur gf too..(no problem for me) -
I reckon that guy a turn off.Originally posted by LilO gIrL:muahahahahaha -
great minds think alike.Originally posted by M©+square:I reckon that guy a turn off. 
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yo...dun just sms people...think what you all lack is meeting up and going out together...that will improve r/s and communication.
smsing is dull i think for the gal. -
i think you guys know each other 'too' well to be a couple...
as the saying goes... "yin1 liao2 jie3 er2 fen1 kai1"
get it?
maybe she's more used to you being a close friend?
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it's a Lycan!Originally posted by LyCaN:
*swings up my SIG P226 and starts firing silver nitrate bullets* -
i have to say that i am quite agree wif u. Perhaps her feelings for a friendship is much stronger than r/s. Or maybe, we'll take quite some time to develop and grow? perhaps a decade, centuries, i am willing to wait.Originally posted by Ayla:i think you guys know each other 'too' well to be a couple...
as the saying goes... "yin1 liao2 jie3 er2 fen1 kai1"
get it?
maybe she's more used to you being a close friend? -
*dodge and bite HENG@'s ass off*...Originally posted by HENG@:it's a Lycan!
*swings up my SIG P226 and starts firing silver nitrate bullets*