You have to remember the class and age group of Singaporean men that go overseas to look for a wife. They are mostly low class wage earners in their 40's to 50's earning less than 1.8k a month. They just dunch have the time and money to court a singaporean girl of child bearing age that is late 20's to 30s. Hence, the demand for cheap overseas wivies from vietnam or indonesia!Originally posted by caramon:I grew up in an era that has bought the feminist lie that men and women are identical.. In our culture, women are encouraged to do everything men do, and vice versa.. I believe in equal opportunity but I mistook "equal" with "identical", and this retarded my personal development by 30 years.. I doubt if I am alone..
Femininity is defined by "loving relationships." Feminine psychology is founded on nurturing and loving husbands and children, and thereby being needed and loved.. Women are the engines of love, acting much like the heart in the body.. They create the family that is the fundamental building block of society and the foundry of the future..
But, singaporean females refuse to acknowledge the fact that THEY are the ones who've become unattractive & unfeminine to local men..
So what does today's singaporean woman bring to the marriage table? So she has her own career, her own car, her own business.. So what? A man also has his own career, his own car, his own business.. So where's the difference.. For a man, it's just like marrying another man..
Nature had intended men to be masculine & women to be feminine.. That's why there's a ying & a yang.. Opposites attract & complement each other.. If a woman has qualities that are the same as a man, where's the attraction? It's just like being with another man...
I believe THAT'S the real reason why singaporean Men are marrying foreign women.. It's because these women haven't forgotten how to be feminine unlike their counter-parts in singapore...
Correction: Even in Vietnam. Why else would the women grow up to dream of coming here?Originally posted by elindra:It is a problem which is common in ANY developed country, not only Singapore!
By the way caramon, it'd be good to quote your source, You've already infringed on countless copyrights (except the one where the sun is the biggest star in the universe) It's like, blindingly obvious whever you plagiarise, because there are words and sentence structures being used that we're all sure that you don't know of.Originally posted by caramon:I grew up in an era that has bought the feminist lie that men and women are identical.. In our culture, women are encouraged to do everything men do, and vice versa.. I believe in equal opportunity but I mistook "equal" with "identical", and this retarded my personal development by 30 years.. I doubt if I am alone..
Femininity is defined by "loving relationships" Feminine psychology is founded on nurturing and loving husbands and children, and thereby being needed and loved.. Women are the engines of love, acting much like the heart in the body.. They create the family that is the fundamental building block of society and the foundry of the future..
But, singaporean females refuse to acknowledge the fact that THEY are the ones who've become unattractive & unfeminine to local men..
So what does today's singaporean woman bring to the marriage table? So she has her own career, her own car, her own business.. So what? A man also has his own career, his own car, his own business.. So where's the difference.. For a man, it's just like marrying another man..
Nature had intended men to be masculine & women to be feminine.. That's why there's a ying & a yang.. Opposites attract & complement each other.. If a woman has qualities that are the same as a man, where's the attraction? It's just like being with another man...
I believe THAT'S the real reason why singaporean Men are marrying foreign women.. It's because these women haven't forgotten how to be feminine unlike their counter-parts in singapore...
I was talking about focusing on career bit and the expectations they have.Originally posted by foxwalk:Correction: Even in Vietnam. Why else would the women grow up to dream of coming here?
Originally posted by caramon:Femininity is defined by "loving relationships" Feminine psychology is founded on nurturing and loving husbands and children, and thereby being needed and loved.. Women are the engines of love, acting much like the heart in the body.. They create the family that is the fundamental building block of society and the foundry of the future..
They still are, it jus tat they have to juggle wif work commitments also, so give them a break
But, singaporean females refuse to acknowledge the fact that THEY are the ones who've become unattractive & unfeminine to local men..
Have they? Dun seems 2 tink so
So what does today's singaporean woman bring to the marriage table? So she has her own career, her own car, her own business.. So what? A man also has his own career, his own car, his own business.. So where's the difference.. For a man, it's just like marrying another man..
So, if a woman who loves u (n u love her) has all these, y complained. U have some1 who can lessen/share yr financial burdens in life, provide a good n comfortable life 2 yr children
Nature had intended men to be masculine & women to be feminine.. That's why there's a ying & a yang.. Opposites attract & complement each other.. If a woman has qualities that are the same as a man, where's the attraction? It's just like being with another man...
Hello, this is the 21st century, time 2 throw away the old-fashion thoughts
I believe THAT'S the real reason why singaporean Men are marrying foreign women.. It's because these women haven't forgotten how to be feminine unlike their counter-parts in singapore...
Is it? Can't love b the reason, y must feminine b the reason
hahah that's a good one LOLOriginally posted by Canavaro:Before I start typing anything, I have to clarify I am a guy, not girl.
So, I am not siding guys, nor girls.
Local girls are GREAT! Those guys who seek for Vietnam/China girls to be their wife are just bunch of typical losers. Why say so? They want a pet more than a companion.
Well, if you love someone, what you expect from her? Listen to your orders?
To be feminine? You are the big man, and she is the little woman? Guys with this thought are sick and they sucks, no wonder local girl donÂ’t want them, local girls are just billion.
Our local girls are best, they are independent, and they can cope with their life very well.
I just love locals.
Think again, loser, you married a Vietnam girl, it's even hard for you to communicate with her, don't even mention about understand you. They will depend on you totally, if one day, you are not able to take care of her, so how does she survive? I rather married a local who understand me, at least what I talk, she understand, and what she talk I understand, plus we has same culture.
Losers are selfish. But loser, as long as you can afford, there are still lots of stock for you to choose, you want a pet, a virgin, be whatever, you can just buy one, and put it at your home. You just need to feed her, buy her some cheap clothes, and that's.
I question your neutrality.Originally posted by Canavaro:So, I am not siding guys, nor girls.
Local girls are GREAT!
I came out with this post, just so that i can 'see' you again.. hee.. how have you been ? I...I.........I miss you.. opps...Originally posted by elindra:I was talking about focusing on career bit and the expectations they have.
I agree that in less developed countries, the women have expectations too which their local men can't meet.
Actually, we should find out the views on Vietnam local guys on what they think of their girls going for SG guys. I BET that it will be exactly like what they say about us SG girls!!!!
Lady with low self esteem who cannot understand why more local guys marry abroad and condemn them as 'unwanted' . In denial !!Originally posted by fymk:Men with low self esteem who cannot compete with women in the careers department and condemn women for nothing. Pathetic !
Originally posted by caramon:Lady with low self esteem who cannot understand why more local guys marry abroad and condemn them as 'unwanted' . In denial !!
"More"? Perhaps there are just 0.0000001% of local guys population who admitted they are losers, where no local girl like them, thus seeking foreign girls.Originally posted by caramon:Lady with low self esteem who cannot understand why more local guys marry abroad and condemn them as 'unwanted' . In denial !!
Say, you are Gazelle aren't you???Originally posted by caramon:I came out with this post, just so that i can 'see' you again.. hee.. how have you been ? I...I.........I miss you.. opps...![]()
Now, being the 147th ranked papers, does one expect the running dog reporter to show the other possible combos like that of an ugly peasant with a pretty Viet girl OR that of a handsome peasant and a pretty viet girl?Originally posted by Canavaro:"More"? Perhaps there are just 0.0000001% of local guys population who admitted they are losers, where no local girl like them, thus seeking foreign girls.
I feel your sour, when you walk out to the street, how many husbands having a foreign wife? Majority of them are local, do you see any unhappiness on their face?
Put it simple, when you having a foreign wife and walking on the street, you just branded yourself as a losers, where no local girl like you, no one love you, so, you just pay some money to buy one from somewhere. You know, every time I saw such losers, I pity them, but.. I laugh behind them with my so-called local companion.
Don't complain our girls, they are great, as I said.
Anyway, I understand your frustration to be a loser. Pity you.
So, when you going to buy one for yourself?
No, I am not..Originally posted by elindra:Say, you are Gazelle aren't you???
Then why is it the both of you sound the sameOriginally posted by caramon:No, I am not..![]()
There's no way to quote.. just my humble opinion..Originally posted by foxwalk:By the way caramon, it'd be good to quote your source, You've already infringed on countless copyrights (except the one where the sun is the biggest star in the universe) It's like, blindingly obvious whever you plagiarise, because there are words and sentence structures being used that we're all sure that you don't know of.
hahah what low esteem?Originally posted by caramon:Lady with low self esteem who cannot understand why more local guys marry abroad and condemn them as 'unwanted' . In denial !!