Will time really heals a broken heart?
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interested to know ur views.
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wat happened
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wounds heal but scars still remain.Originally posted by SnowFlag:interested to know ur views. -
Take it as a learning lesson and try not to replicate the event.
But if you are a young woman... you must watch out for yourself as young girls tend to seek out guys who best represent their ex... and all the mistakes will come in again if not kept in check -
Given enough time, any broken heart will heal lah.
In fact, from personal experience, given enough time, you'll even forget what he/she looked like. -
Once broken,It will never be the same again as before.
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Originally posted by SnowFlag:interested to know ur views.
It will, but then people usually think it doesn't.
When you believe and realise that it works - you have already gotten over it.
Scar remains, but it always happen when you gotten a cut isn't it?
Time crystalize and break-down - it doesn't heal.
Cheers -
Maybe its more a matter of taking a longer or shorter time to heal.
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how do you do it? you can't possibly stop others from hurtin you if they want to rite?Originally posted by greengoblin:Take it as a learning lesson and try not to replicate the event.
unless you build walls around yourself? -
Well the analogy I give will be... virus and bacteria can infect you all the time...but you can do something about it right?Originally posted by devoid05:how do you do it? you can't possibly stop others from hurtin you if they want to rite?
unless you build walls around yourself?
Hurt is not one way. Often, the person will make himself or herself in a situation that allows hurt to come in although I allow for circumstances where one party deliberately hurts the other. However in life, we will forever be receiving and giving hurt. So what matters is how you react to the hurt. If you are going to lose your sense of living and your reponsibility to others and yourself just because of a hurt received, then I will say the hurt is justified as you don't deserve to live on this Earth.
We humans are made of stronger stuff than this. True, we will feel down and out for awhile...but ultimately we must stand up and continue living. -
very well-said, esp the last paragraphOriginally posted by greengoblin:Well the analogy I give will be... virus and bacteria can infect you all the time...but you can do something about it right?
Hurt is not one way. Often, the person will make himself or herself in a situation that allows hurt to come in although I allow for circumstances where one party deliberately hurts the other. However in life, we will forever be receiving and giving hurt. So what matters is how you react to the hurt. If you are going to lose your sense of living and your reponsibility to others and yourself just because of a hurt received, then I will say the hurt is justified as you don't deserve to live on this Earth.
We humans are made of stronger stuff than this. True, we will feel down and out for awhile...but ultimately we must stand up and continue living.
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Only if you allow it to.Originally posted by SnowFlag:interested to know ur views. -
wait long long?Originally posted by SnowFlag:interested to know ur views. -
if you really love that person i cant say it will really heal. It gets better with time and you might start to see other people but you'll always have him or her at the back of your mind
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True, It takes time to heal but you will never forget the period of time where the wound is still fresh.
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time can heal but its still up to individual to decide when is the most suitable time for the expiry date....
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agrees w Master YunOriginally posted by Yunhaier: It will, but then people usually think it doesn't.
When you believe and realise that it works - you have already gotten over it.
Scar remains, but it always happen when you gotten a cut isn't it?
Time crystalize and break-down - it doesn't heal.
Cheers
But i feel there are more factors to if a heart will recover
Depends on how much the person felt to you
How much you loved her and the way she left you can make a great difference how time is goin to affect you
Lastly, it also boils down to how the person reacts after the break off had happened...
From my personal experience,
time made me used to the pain, thou i cant say it healed, i`ve gotten used to the life, and the scar is imprinted in my heart.. it`ll never leave me -
time will ease the pain..time will also make u feel numb to it..
but memories stay..scar remains..and the scar is there to remind you that you survived.. -
*applause*Originally posted by browniebaobao:time will ease the pain..time will also make u feel numb to it..
but memories stay..scar remains..and the scar is there to remind you that you survived.. -
it heals but a scar will remain
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Passing of time will heal the heart!!
But the soul need the will of the person hurted in order to heal.
If u can't put it down, u will always feel sad.
memories are good, that meant that u have a gd experience with him/her. -
Time will not heal a broken heart. Healthy decisions will heal it.
- S.H.I.N.
Never let any bad circumstances overwhelm you. We are deeply hurt for ages because we chose to let these hurts rule our hearts. Be victorious! We will be victorious if we rule our hearts ourselves!
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it all boils down to your mentality. if you allow yourself to move on or to stay in the past? everyone in every stages of lives do experience ups & downs. good or bad, we learn something fr our experience. always remember if you choose to stay in the past, there will be no future.
it's never easy to make the first move to step out of your devastation. strength, courage, will power, fighting spirit. possession of these attributes, you'll emerge stronger than ever & you'll see the world in a different light. -
i believe it will heal lah, although the scar sometimes will remind you of what happen.
it's only a matter of time... -
Time will not heal anything. In fact, you might get more affected because you will start to beautify the person. It's only belief or thought that will stop your emotions to spiral downwards.
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