Let me stay away from what most of them have said, and take on a practical view.
If you have been doing something for a long time, say 1 year, almost every day. And then one day you just stop doing it.
Initially the shock will be great, but as time passes by, other matters catches your attention, and you learn to 'shift' your 'timetable' again.
Eventually, what you have are but memories.
It happens for friends, it happens for love.
Some people who are more responsive to changes will cope with the loss better, while others may take a longer time, comparing the two extremes, 1 day to the rest of your life.
Especially when that 1 year is a time of many happy moments. We become trapped in the past, not moving on, only thinking and recalling about that past year in which we had...
But do not forget, Golden moments do not stay forever. They're meant to boost you up in times of sadness, and meant as a motivational force to live our lives...
People, do not live in the past... Continue to walk foward, a step at a time.
*guess i rambled again and lost myself somewhere in the middle* =_="
mushigen
I feel we tend to treasure what we cannot have (an oxymoron statement?).
If you really love that person (I'm talking about I'll-give-you-a-kidney type of love) you will never be able to heal the heart.
From time to time, you'll think about that person, wondering what she/he is doing right then, or whether he/she is thinking about you too.
After that, you are overcome by guilt - you feel guilty towards your current squeeze/spouse - and you'll try not to think about that person.
Looking 4 Trouble
"You're not a snake and I'm not an ocelot. We're men with names."
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I'm Looking 4 Trouble, where are you?
Looking 4 Trouble
So who did this? Headmaster or Roger? Or someone else?