i love him!!!
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Dun worry
I can understand ur confusion Mebbe u should go and have a good talk wif him and tell him how u feel. Bringing up the matter straight 2 him, will make both of u more aware and get the facts rite =o) Nobody will noe 4 sure if he really luvs u, doesn't luv u, treats u onli like a sister, likes u but does not dare 2 commit or etc...the onli tink is 2 really clarify wif him. Tell him 2 be honest and stuff. If he can't get over his ex-gf and u luv him, let him noe dat u wun gif him any pressure, and gif him ur fullest support (^_^) Dispel tis tinking in him dat all gals suck, which is really not vedi sensible 2 start wif. Shows dat he himself is abit confused. Cuz if all gals suck, he wun have bothered 2 treat u so well
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~*Luv & Huggies*~
BabyC|eFairy^ (^_^)
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High up in2 the sky I fly,
Upon the wings of luv,
Take mi & my heart wif u,
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U at least did something 2 communicate wif him. N tat's COURAGE!!! All u need 2 do is juz 2 muster more courage n juz tok 2 him face 2 face. Yes it may hurt 2 be rejected but it's definitely better than 2 suffer in silence. Clearing the air now will at least let u have time 2 cool off n focus on ur studies.Originally posted by [sAd_gEr]:well guys I've sent him an email liao..asking abt how he is now..juz a very short one..let's hope I get a reply
I still have no guts to confront him yet, but I'll do it soon enough!! as soon as I pluck up the courage to call him!
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Why? As a frd, ucan also call him mah, I know guys should take the iniatiative, but if he doesn't want a relationship rite now, juz ontinue to b frds and see how first loh. Surely he himself can see what how u feels towards him...Originally posted by [sAd_gEr]:i dun have the guts to talk to him!! i dun dare to call him either.....
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Better than me .... i don't even dare to call the girl i like ...~
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he said nothing is wrong mah..he's still the same M..tell me not to imagine things and start studying for exams liao....
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Care to reveal wad did u say in ur email ? Did u tell him how u felt??.. speaking to him thru email may not be the bez loh.. cos he can still hide certain things loh... email is juz to break the ice.. afterall u 2 haven spoken to each other for quite some time....u really need to get him out for a face to face, heart to heart tok.... kudos to u for ur courage.Originally posted by [sAd_gEr]:he said nothing is wrong mah..he's still the same M..tell me not to imagine things and start studying for exams liao....
maybe everything's alright?? dunno leh
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what i said was that I felt he was avoiding me in school, and juz wanted to ask how's everything for him..that's all..
he replied saying he doesnt think there's anything wrong with his behaviour and tell me not to imagine things.
but seriously...I really think he dodging me in school...maybe I was too sensitive?? But i really thot things were different from what he says -
haiz..itz better to do something about it right...as what you've said...Originally posted by aaron84z:Better than me .... i don't even dare to call the girl i like ...~ -
Yup, mayb u r really too sensitive, so u juz feel he was dodging u, rite? Since he's concentrating on the exams, dun disturb him first till exam's over loh, meanwhile u study hard too, ok?Originally posted by [sAd_gEr]:what i said was that I felt he was avoiding me in school, and juz wanted to ask how's everything for him..that's all..
he replied saying he doesnt think there's anything wrong with his behaviour and tell me not to imagine things.
but seriously...I really think he dodging me in school...maybe I was too sensitive?? But i really thot things were different from what he says
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Guess you're not used to the drastic change ... It's like coming out of a heavily air conditioned building into the hot sun, you think you can't take it at first, but eventually, you get used to it. That's something like that ...
Yes ... i agree with most that it would be best to wait until after the exams. You won't want him to start shooing you away do you ? So what i guess is best now ... is either to wait, or have a front to front talk.
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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ... -
actually I guess everything should be okay. Anyway, I've kinda sorted things out..with myself I mean...I guess I'm going to concentrate on my exams as well, cos tt's what he wants me to do also..guess I'll wait till we've both cleared our exams first, before I ask him anything again...
Anyway, thanks you all guys for the advices and POVs...all have helped me in one way or another...thanks -
