[b]Advice......[/b]

• ptw

  6 Mar 05, 19:13

  Thanks Project_D and everyone,
  
  Things has move quite smoothly so far, dont know why, dont really think much abt her and the past, but I never forget how I go through all these events. I know there are people out there who suffer much worst than me. Quite numb somehow but why, I just dont know, maybe like what tan_william and icepole has said previously, forgive her......
• Magnus

  6 Mar 05, 22:16

  Just a reminder..
  
  Sometimes 'hope' can be a dangerous thing.
  it can hold u in limbo for years..
  
  
• icepole

  7 Mar 05, 09:06

  ptw,
  
  you'll bounce back again.. perhaps u already have..
  
  remember : it's easier to get older than to get wiser. make sure you ain't just growing older.
• ptw

  7 Mar 05, 18:14

  Hi Icepole,
  
  I dont really understand? Bounce back?
• icepole

  7 Mar 05, 18:37

  oh ptw, what i meant is bounce back to the stage of happiness!!!
• ptw

  7 Mar 05, 18:39

  Quite somehow, but not as to go after another girl but rather to stay single for a while. How I wish someone can tell me when I can bounce back to happiness.
• icepole

  7 Mar 05, 18:56

  ptw,
  
  Happiness lies in your own hands. You'll have to pursue it. Meanwhile, enjoy the freedom of singlehood. Broaden your social circles.
  
• ptw

  7 Mar 05, 23:22

  Dont know why, when she is gone, started to fill up my emptiness with activities with my friend. Although I must admit I sometimes still miss the wonderful times with her but the hurt isnt there anymore. Times flies, she has also drifted further away from me. I still need time to build myself up and move on to my next dream.
  
  I really hope that I can meet up with a girl I like and of course, not going through the same thing again. I really dont want to post similar thread again.
• tan_william

  8 Mar 05, 02:43

  you wouldn't post a similar thread again..have some faith in yourself k??its normal to miss the wonderful times you both had before..just now overheard my bro discussing marriage stuff with his gf and my mum..then my mind also went back to the times when my ex and me were talking of how we wanna our wedding to be..still feeling abit ke xi..
  dun be afriad of a new r/s k??remember every person is different..your ex might treat you as nothing..but me believe there will be a girl that will love you as much or even more than herself..you just have to turn and you will see her already..go know more friends..who knows..your 'right' girl might just be a sis/friend of your friends..good luck..
• icepole

  8 Mar 05, 10:29

  Let nature takes it course.. Be more positive and you'll be happier.
  
  Surely you can do it. In fact, you've already done it!
  
  
• Project-D

  8 Mar 05, 16:37

  finally ptw, u 'see' the light in the tunnel ahead.... i will say no more..... u know wat to do now.
• ptw

  8 Mar 05, 23:36

  Hi everyone,
  
  yah, can really see the light but I will not rush into things yet, still no feeling for her, or maybe, I still need lots of time to recover and move on, let the time show. At least, after all the past few months of sorrow and misery, really learnt alot, suffer alot, isolate myself quite abit. I really hope that my future r/s will be as smooth as possible.
  
  Really really hope time pass fast enough and a nice girl can appear in my live soon.