Sorry Feow Feow, i'm going to hijack this thread for awhile.
22 December 2004 · 12:02 PM
haih..this guy is super dense one lor...last time I gave out so many hints but he din realize it until like a month later when I was already boiling mad...
but if i just tell him to call me when
we are not even officially bf-gf yet, seems like I am being a control freak and being too demanding lor...
i.c.y
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22 December 2004 · 03:10 PM
u forgot one thing...
i m not officially his gf yet.thanks for the early wishes
i.c.y
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24 December 2004 · 11:28 AM
well,
me and the current guy is not official yet, but he really does treat me way better. prolly cos he is naturally a very nice guy to begin with, and he really gives a lot to me and cares for me. He knows I am hurting (tho he doesn't know who hurt me) and told me that he will always wait until I heal before we really get into a relationship. I dun wan to be unfair to someone who has treated me so good all along. I have already told my ex crush that we are nothing but frens, and so far I have managed to do dat until these few days, I kept being reminded of the time I used to spend with him last time and it is making me feel guilty towards the guy I am seeing now...
i.c.y
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22 January 2005 · 12:20 PM
Can you be frens with someone you just broke up wif?________________________________________________________________
FRankly, i'm kinda disappointed. But who am i to be disappointed anyway. Since you don't even know it's offical or not. Let me present my point.
22Dec 2004 - He might be back in three weeks time.
12Jan 2005 - He's back. (presumingly)
So during the three weeks of his absence...you guys confirmed? Or from 12Jan to 22Jan you guys went offical.
If you understand what i'm trying to say. Gosh i wonder. All you do is to defend yourself and assumed that i accused you.
Your POST DONT MAKE SENSE.........
Originally posted by icyprincess:
I still think you need to get your facts straight before you start to make assumptions. I dunno what you mean by official, but he did ask me to become his girlfren and I did agree to it. If only I didn't ask his reasons for wanting me to become his gf, maybe we will still be together now. But I asked him and he gave me those answers that then caused me to decided to break up with him shortly afterwards.
You said I need to ask questions to avoid being led on. Didn't I do just that? If I didn't ask that question, do you think I will be in this situation now? I might still be in happy delusion. So please get your facts straight the next time. It is not that I dun wan to listen to you, but it is hard to when you misunderstand me.
Okie, fair enuff, now I am cynical towards relationship, but if you have been through this before, wouldn't you be until someone prove to you otherwise? So far, that hasn't happened yet.
Being cynical is nothing wrong. But you don't have to have someone to prove it. Let your state of mind one day enlighten you. It hasn't happen because you refuse to rise above your circumstance. Even if you denied and said you did. I can tell you why you didn't but only when i meet you in person.
Sorry, I really dun wan to rebut you and bring this up again, but I can't stand it when someone assumed something that is not right about me.
i.c.y
Trust me dear. I didn't misunderstand you. There are Somethings i understand more then you do.
I believe you are right about yourself. And i don't need to hear anymore that could make things more right.
I'm sick of this. I'll leave you alone and bless your life.
Enough.
Cheers