What would you do if your gf is pregnant?
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what would you do and what is your gf and your age range?
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i be delighted...i going to be daddy loh.....
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i think abortion would be top of the list...
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make sure the child is yours
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may not be able to advise much if this thread is serious....
but i do get very good advices as in the point of view when suspecting of pregnancy in this thread:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=104827 -
i'll be 36 this year and i'd be over the moon, and i'd go on bended knee with a band of gold and formally ask for her hand!
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yeh rite...if u never f before wif her okay....but ppl now givin reason that se x is okay before marriages and most steadies do that but in the end who knows....are the babies yours? better check first if you can afford the medical feesOriginally posted by bratpig:make sure the child is yours -
Whose baby is it?
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marry her who ask you to be careless
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eh...if financial allows then i will get prepared to get married lor...if not....haiz...say bye bye to the baby~
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alternatively you can look att hings on the brighter side:-
kiong kiong kiong
slaughter pig pray roast duck -
take responsibility?
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Hey gal, wait till u are at tt situation. then u'll understand tt taking away the flesh and blood of urs will be such a difficult thing to do. And it's also murdering the most innocent lifeform in this world.Originally posted by juz_A_gal:i think abortion would be top of the list...
Can't u just learn to take responsibility? -
Taking responsibility is the only way to handle this situation.
But before this thing ever happen, make bloody sure you are married, financially capable and stable enough to start a damn family. Other wise, stick to contraceptives!
Abortion is gross and the most heartless deed on earth! -
not to mention that when the ger goes thru abortion, she might never get to have her own babies again...Originally posted by keuriseudo:Taking responsibility is the only way to handle this situation.
But before this thing ever happen, make bloody sure you are married, financially capable and stable enough to start a damn family. Other wise, stick to contraceptives!
Abortion is gross and the most heartless deed on earth!
they have to scrape the foetus out (i heard)
when they scrape too much, the woman may never get to have her own baby.. cos it would be difficult to conceive
when they scrape too little, she might have tumours later in her life... that's wat i read..
(scrape wat i can't rmb.. think the uterus.. ) -
If its mine I will marry her immediately. If not I will try to help her get the person responsible to marry her.
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how would u get teh guy to marry her?Originally posted by pete98:If its mine I will marry her immediately. If not I will try to help her get the person responsible to marry her.
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Good question. I'll try to think of what to do.
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Originally posted by shinta:how would u get teh guy to marry her?
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Hopefully with words from my mouth or a very big stick in my handOriginally posted by shinta:how would u get teh guy to marry her? -
er...duress doesn stand wor..Originally posted by pete98:Hopefully with words from my mouth or a very big stick in my hand -
Where is it written that you have to marry someone when they become the parent of your child?? She's got as much responisbility as you. Remember, it takes 2 hands to clap.
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marry her lor
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So does that means if she willing to bear responsiblity, you will do so too? You willing to support her and your child until she manage to find someone else?Originally posted by Guest_111:Where is it written that you have to marry someone when they become the parent of your child?? She's got as much responisbility as you. Remember, it takes 2 hands to clap. -
not that i object marriage...but hor..must think abt whether u really love her or not. Don't just marry because of the baby....
Almost all the marriages I have seen whereby both parties get married because of the "child" and end up getting a divorce after. The main person that is suffering is not the parents but it's the child having to go thru the emotional issues that both sides have.
It's rather sad....
If both parties actually do love each other, then it's a different issue.