Will guys mind if the girl has an ex bf?
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It is everyone wish to get into a good and lasting relationship. Sometimes it is just not possible...Divorce rates are rising, many broken marriages and relationships, increase need of counsellorsOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:Only got one heart. Must invest carefully.
what's the point of getting into so many 'failed' relationships?
If there is a course on relationship foresight, i would gladly sign up for it. But there isn't. All relationships seems pure, happy and compatible initially but as times goes....it is very tiring. Guys changes after 3 months of relationship. -
those who do not want a girlfriend with a past, should go to the local nunnery...
sheesh.. -
suddenly long queue outside nunnery....Originally posted by the Bear:those who do not want a girlfriend with a past, should go to the local nunnery...
sheesh..
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Some nuns have past too..Originally posted by the Bear:those who do not want a girlfriend with a past, should go to the local nunnery...
sheesh..
Try babies..
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cannot.. some babies have past life experiencesOriginally posted by Nelstar:Some nuns have past too..
Try babies.. 
.. try virtual reality -
When babies grow up, they too would have a past. Try dolls.Originally posted by the Bear:those who do not want a girlfriend with a past, should go to the local nunnery...
sheesh..
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I think guys better go monastries and become monk...Originally posted by Waterapple:When babies grow up, they too would have a past. Try dolls. -
I mean seriously, if the guy is so pea-brained and selfish without the girl antagonizing him with things like "My ex used to be like this...My ex used to do that for me", just hand him a kite and give him a map to Marina Bay.
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Personal opinion here,
in today`s morderns society,
we`ll be deluding oneself if we always keep on pinning for a 1st timer bf/gf at marriagable age
honestly,
i wouldnt mind if the gal had a few ex bfs in the past
even if she`s lost her big V..
cuz Love make us open our eyes from the heart and see beyond others
what i`m trying to day here is that even thou many here are open hearted to gals who had a past
it doesnt mean that we`ll simply accept anyone..
if there`s an excessive amount of bfs then it only shows one things:
the gals is simply toying out other`s feeliings ( personal detest for this )
not all guys are really that open hearted either
really depends on how much love is cultivated in the 1st place
juz my 2 cents -
well...sgp is so small now...even sometime shopping at orchard can run into ex...the 'world' is so well-connected now almost every young boy or girl will have a ex..so it's either you accept it or guys seek Mrs Palm and gals meet Mr slippery fingers to reach our much sought after big O..
i mean the worst for me is not about acceptance, everyone has choices - unless you are desperate - otherwise, take it or leave it....hahaha..
The worst is when the gal lied about the truth and one day if i found the skeleton in the closet..that's IT lor...BYE BYE baby...
it's my 2cents worth..
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Well the gal is farking immatured to do this to... like the ex so much go back to the exOriginally posted by elindra:I mean seriously, if the guy is so pea-brained and selfish without the girl antagonizing him with things like "My ex used to be like this...My ex used to do that for me", just hand him a kite and give him a map to Marina Bay. -
My guy & I hor, when we tok abt exes....... *shakez head*
Guy's response: See? U'd better be nice to me cosh I love u so extra much!
My response: U ain't gd enuff for her, but u're gd enuff for me. See? U'd better be nice to me!
Anywayz, we dun really tok abt exes, cosh wat for get depressed? We oredi noe enuff of wat there is to noe. Most imptly, the exes, r exes. He's wif me now, Not juz physically, but heart & soul, & vice versa.
Much more pleasant to focus on each other, haf fun, make thgs exciting
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:some ppl.... wanna noe everything about ur EX..den when u tell, they throw a tantrum... so she's better than me lar? go find her lor! den u'd be.. har? hey, u're the one who asked ok? -
I believe there is a phrase saying "A guy wants to be the girl's first, but the girl wants to be the guy's last"Originally posted by Honeybunz:I know this is a silly question for all guys and u will probably say No.
But many of my girlfriends have been telling me that guys will mind. They are different from girls. We accept the guys' past but not the other way round.
Many of them try to give the guy impression that the guy is the first bf. And they all tell me to do the same. I asked them how to. If I am a teenager, still can bluff. But not now. They still insist and say "Really lah. Guys are very petty one. They say don't mind. But in their heart, they will always think about it. One day if you quarrel with him, he's going to bring it out"
At first I ignored this kind of advice. This kind of thing, cannot bluff one what. But to date, so many of my girlfriends tell me the same thing which makes me think that they must have their reasons for saying that.
What do you think?
haha. Personally, i don't mind, really. but if she has like 100 ex bf, or slept with 100 other guys, it would bother me. honestly. -
really dont mind... but just dont do comparison can liao...Originally posted by Honeybunz:I know this is a silly question for all guys and u will probably say No.
But many of my girlfriends have been telling me that guys will mind. They are different from girls. We accept the guys' past but not the other way round.
Many of them try to give the guy impression that the guy is the first bf. And they all tell me to do the same. I asked them how to. If I am a teenager, still can bluff. But not now. They still insist and say "Really lah. Guys are very petty one. They say don't mind. But in their heart, they will always think about it. One day if you quarrel with him, he's going to bring it out"
At first I ignored this kind of advice. This kind of thing, cannot bluff one what. But to date, so many of my girlfriends tell me the same thing which makes me think that they must have their reasons for saying that.
What do you think?