Need some advice on affair issue

• Devil1976

  23 Mar 05, 12:05

  Originally posted by schui:

  Hi,
  
  Wish to hear from a man point of view for the following :
  
  As a man, if your wife left you with you children due to an affair, what will you do? Will you go and ask her for money if you have financial problem? Will you go and look for your children even if your wife refuse to see you?
  
  Hope to hear from you men. Thank you.

  Children and wife are separate issues. If you think you deserves to see them and genuinely want to see them, then FIGHT for it...
  
  You can ask for financial assistance from her, please note that she won't have any obligation to do you that favour.
• dzylim

  23 Mar 05, 12:09

  give that cheating bastar_d a big slap to wake him up.
• 'm back

  26 Mar 05, 12:33

  Originally posted by schui:

  My problem here is my husband is having an affiar with a China girl, and he is trying to maintain this relationship using phone call and sms as he has no money to fly over there to meet her. He is calling her everyday and night.
  
  So far they had only meet twice (1 week in Sep 04 and 1 week in Oct 04). I'm very loss as whether should I go for a divorce as we have two children. We both do not agree with a divorce as I know deep inside him, he still love the me and the children. But somehow, I cannot stand the way things are carry out.
  
  Therefore, I need some advise, if he carry on with phone call and sms, and this relationship dead off.

  this is terribly wrong...btw the china gal pretty or not coz NPNT......if prettier okay if not then instead of tellin ur hubby to quite, ttell him "the next time if you get an affair, got get someone prettier, smarter and sexier please!"...
  
  why ur hubby dun one to fly there often? why no money cannot afford a proerp "affair" issit?
  
  haha