How do you react when girls hit on ur bf in a club?
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So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
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woooo lucky guy!
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I dun go clubbing in the first place.
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Hmm..you better marry your bf fast
He will bring you riches and happiness -
you guys seem so excited by it. i don't know whether to be happy or upset.
And well, marrying him? prob not until he can control his temper. Haha. good to look outside. but temper so hot. haha.
and u noe, when girls go up to him, really INFLATE his ego big time. haha. -
i'll say it again...
woooooooooo lucky guy -
How handsome is your bf?
can lemme take a look?
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Insomia.... okay..out of point...
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no, never exp this... how to cope? u must ask yourself this.... do u trust him? u cant lock him up at home can u.... if he will stray, theres no way u can prevent it... so jz naturally be da fang and trust him... if u catch him straying, leave him... if it was me, will jz chat up n just be friends only lor, but will specify that i got gf...Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?[/img] -
I have friends who are exactly like that. (Maybe it is the same person?Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?[/img]
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And the thing is that their gf are good looking as well.
How their gf control them? Not too sure about how their exact balancing deal goes, but the guys knew and was told directly/indirectly that if they are ever caught by them like ONS and such, they will do the same. And the ladies attractive powers has no problem with flirts or whatsoever.
*** Scorpio-tic traits. Very revengeful way of dealing with relationship, however under AOS, it will likely to work if you have excellent emotional control and ample experience will help greatly, against flirting bf with looks. Few component are essential:
I) You are someone who excel using the mind against the heart. Overwhelming emotions will not be sufficient for you to do ANYTHING. Basically under AOS, you are calculative about your moves and decision. Having planets in Mercury/Venus in Virgo do help greatly. Usually, strong self confidence is inclusive.
II) Your image portray to your bf in overall MUST be the 'good woman' type. (It would be so much better if you didn't became his gf through clubbing/similar. Locality brew impression - first impression equation) Confidence will make you stand beside him and earn the respect of your man. However, if he has already psychologically classify you as a flirting or anything similar, there is little effect at all.
III) Can try with guys belonging to either one of these signs: Capricorn, Pisces, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio.
P.S: I do NOT recommend this at all. Basically you wouldn't know if you are the first two points or not. And if you have strong Mars or affliction in signs of Scorpio or with planets transiting against you, it will generate greater problems.
Cheers -
If your boyrfriend really loves you a lot or as much as he think he does.Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?[/img]
He would simply just ignore the other girls because she should only have space for you in his heart.
But it also depends a lot of his personal point of view or perception of life and what he wants or wishes to have. -
yi ya huan ya
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Thanks man, well dat night was the first time i saw his 'power' with attracting girls. N his elder sister told me when he was slightly younger, (26) now, he is darn handsome and he has no problems getting girls to him. So you know.. and well, haha, never tried yi ya huan ya jus take one step and see see look look lor.
hehe.. Oh, if next time i got lobang for boozing, will tell you people. Got a deal that day. 25 bucks, free flow from 830-1030 (Guys+ girls all drinks), take a bum boat to next pub, (girls free flow vodka, guys + girls one free drink). Seriously it was quite a good deal. -
i think i betta try it out while i'm still single........Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?[/img] -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Does that i mean i dun stand a chance???
I have friends who are exactly like that. (Maybe it is the same person? ) And the thing is that their gf are good looking as well.
How their gf control them? Not too sure about how their exact balancing deal goes, but the guys knew and was told directly/indirectly that if they are ever caught by them like ONS and such, they [b]will do the same. And the ladies attractive powers has no problem with flirts or whatsoever.
*** Scorpio-tic traits. Very revengeful way of dealing with relationship, however under AOS, it will likely to work if you have excellent emotional control and ample experience will help greatly, against flirting bf with looks. Few component are essential:
I) You are someone who excel using the mind against the heart. Overwhelming emotions will not be sufficient for you to do ANYTHING. Basically under AOS, you are calculative about your moves and decision. Having planets in Mercury/Venus in Virgo do help greatly. Usually, strong self confidence is inclusive.
II) Your image portray to your bf in overall MUST be the 'good woman' type. (It would be so much better if you didn't became his gf through clubbing/similar. Locality brew impression - first impression equation) Confidence will make you stand beside him and earn the respect of your man. However, if he has already psychologically classify you as a flirting or anything similar, there is little effect at all.
III) Can try with guys belonging to either one of these signs: Capricorn, Pisces, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio.
P.S: I do NOT recommend this at all. Basically you wouldn't know if you are the first two points or not. And if you have strong Mars or affliction in signs of Scorpio or with planets transiting against you, it will generate greater problems.
Cheers[/b]
BTW i'm Leo. -
Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Is he Tony Leung or some Jap-American idol?? seriously nv see a guy SO HANDSOME that gals jus flock to him in a club; i think even if an Andy Lau look alike enters a club, he may get a few stares & smiles, but hitting on him, buying drink etc... EXXAGERATE!!
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
The club is in Geylang & all the "gals" are actually china prostitues or Thai Ah GUA
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?
Disgure him, pour acid on his face, castrate him....
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CHallenging
Be confident of yourself. Act cool n see the situation, later then u decide to pull your bf's ears
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it depends a lot on how your bf reacted right? can't stop other gers from approaching him, but he should know his limits
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It's a perfect opportunity to stand back and observe his reaction... does he flirt along? if so, how outrageously? ... or does he reject all advances politely? ... Observe his response and it will give you a pretty accurate view of the man himself.
I seriously wouldn't bother to do anything in this case. Sure, I'll feel a tad... I don't know... threatened? jealous? It will be normal to experience those feelings. But I'd also welcome the great opportunity for him to be tested. Afterall, if he's gonna be a flirt, flitting from girl to girl, wrapping them around his fingers and all, with no respect at all for me, then I'd like to know as soon as possible so I can say goodbye and sashay off, kicking the dust off my stiletto heels as I do so!
A boyfriend should never pride himself on being able to pick just any girl he wanted, right in front of his girlfriend! I mean, what is he trying to prove? That he can still play the field and ditch her anytime because he's so very desired by other women? And a real gentleman, when he falls in love, would make sure his girl was so assured of his steadfast love and dedication to her that even when she knows he'll be thronged with sexy women, she KNOWS that he will remain faithful to her because he loves her and cherishes the relationship that they have. -
confirm he your bf boh? if yes hor, you should feel proud leh and be glad he did nothing as not talking to them.Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?[/img]
than bitch infront of those gal
how will guy react as in I am the bf or my gf been hit at? -
I'll act BLIND.
No point going over to make myself look silly being jealous or insecure. Gotta trust him rite? I mean if he's out wif his buddies, he can flirt like no 1 biz also. But of coz i'll b "monitoring" how he handle those extra "attention". If not happy wif his performance, on the way home den buy some durians to eat, & make him kneel on the shells! 
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i do feel honored in this sense dat girls come up to him. N yes, he does handle the situation quite well. Girls asked for his number, he jus rejected nicely with 'I have a gf'. So i guess dats something i should be happy abt. IT took a lot of time for me to make do with this fact. Cos he does get quite a lot of attention when he goes drinking. N yes, girls pay for his drinks and if some guys get jealous, blame yourself for not being as attractive. But at least i am not bothered by it now. LIke what some people in the forum said, 'If he wanna stray, would have done so.' N well, jus giving him the trust that i feel he should deserve for now. If anything happens, i will keep you people updated.
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x 2Originally posted by Camellias4me:I'll act BLIND. No point going over to make myself look silly being jealous or insecure. Gotta trust him rite? I mean if he's out wif his buddies, he can flirt like no 1 biz also. But of coz i'll b "monitoring" how he handle those extra "attention". If not happy wif his performance, on the way home den buy some durians to eat, & make him kneel on the shells! -
Don't think I'll have that chance...? <Originally posted by dezling:So, do any of you have any experience with a bf who's quite good-looking and can effortlessly attract girls no matter where.
Jus experienced this yesterday night. Asked my bf to join me n frens bar-hopping. Den when he went to get drinks, girls started hitting on him. Only after i saw him being surrounded by a few girls, whom he din talk to, did i go over to him n stood near him.
How do you cope with this? (i actually knew about that girls go up to him a few times b4 when he goes drinking with the guys and girls actually start paying for his drinks and starts chatting up. But it is worst when you are there and you see it for urself.)
Guys, how will you react in such a situation?[/img]>