How do you react when girls hit on ur bf in a club?
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wah.. if it was me i will pat myself on the back for having such an attractive boyfren. the gals i don't mind, but if he starts attracting guys, i would be worried
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No such luck, cos i dun go pubbing
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Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Does that i mean i dun stand a chance???
BTW i'm Leo.
Seriously, that depends on yourself. (or your birth chart, for that represent yourself) I am generalising.
P.S: As a Leo, if you have attractive mate, it would likely be a source to boost your ego more than a threat to security.
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there are 3 things you can do now..
1. dump him (but considering the fact that you have a good relationship so that is not going to be it)
2. kick a big fuss and ask him never to talk to other women (which will be difficult because he will still get to talk to other women in the pub or elsewhere since he is so good looking. moreover, men dont like to be controlled)
3. feel proud ... that he is your bf and at the end of the night, he is leaving the pub with you and not the other women
my suggestion is that you play along with him, comment about the women after they leave, as if he is playing a game and you are watching it. accept the fact that women will hit on good-looking men. meanwhile you are the chosen one. -
Option 1 is out. Option 2, can never resort to that cos he's the kind of guy, Chi Ruan bu chi Ying aka Don't take rubbish as a valid excuse.Originally posted by nuchio:there are 3 things you can do now..
1. dump him (but considering the fact that you have a good relationship so that is not going to be it)
2. kick a big fuss and ask him never to talk to other women (which will be difficult because he will still get to talk to other women in the pub or elsewhere since he is so good looking. moreover, men dont like to be controlled)
3. feel proud ... that he is your bf and at the end of the night, he is leaving the pub with you and not the other women
my suggestion is that you play along with him, comment about the women after they leave, as if he is playing a game and you are watching it. accept the fact that women will hit on good-looking men. meanwhile you are the chosen one.
Option 3. Feel proud? More like, 'Wow, people are still hitting on him.' And he tells me something really lame, people only hit on him at night, cos the lights are much dimmer and so, can't see well. But yes, he did tell me before it took a long time for him before he decides to commit to our relationship. Cos firstly, he will lose a lot of things (such as going out late and drinking etc) after he gets with me. But so far, he hasn't looked back since.
Well, i am glad i have his parents supporting me if he actually doesn't treat me right. haha. -
[quote]Originally posted by dezling:
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"people only hit on him at night, cos the lights are much dimmer and so, can't see well."
this i totally agree. i met a guy at the pub, found him nice to talk to and quite good looking. when he asked me out for coffee the next day, i agreed.
then i saw his face in the afternoon sun the next day at coffee... and changed my mind about his looks after that. lighting at night spots were designed to make everyone look good... like the hair saloon mirrors. also there is this saying "after a couple of beers... all the guys look good". that's why i never drink beer.
"Well, i am glad i have his parents supporting me if he actually doesn't treat me right. haha. "
no use if you ask me. he is the one in the relationship with you. not them. -
There are rights that you need to give up if you choose to be in a relationship. Same goes for your BF. There have to be certain sacrifices of freedom, limitation of choices and selective associations. It all binds to responsibility and commitment to each other. Remember you are going into a relationship that lasts and it may be a marriage. If any of you can't sacrifice anything for each other, you may not be in love, you are just enjoying each other presence.Originally posted by dezling:Option 1 is out. Option 2, can never resort to that cos he's the kind of guy, Chi Ruan bu chi Ying aka Don't take rubbish as a valid excuse.
Option 3. Feel proud? More like, 'Wow, people are still hitting on him.' And he tells me something really lame, people only hit on him at night, cos the lights are much dimmer and so, can't see well. But yes, he did tell me before it took a long time for him before he decides to commit to our relationship. Cos firstly, he will lose a lot of things (such as going out late and drinking etc) after he gets with me. But so far, he hasn't looked back since.
Well, i am glad i have his parents supporting me if he actually doesn't treat me right. haha.
Perharps you love him but for him, you need to find out. -
True.Originally posted by nuchio:no use if you ask me. he is the one in the relationship with you. not them.