Falling in love with a man twice your age?
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uhh.. girl, the guy takes the risk if he's interested too you know?
Originally posted by harrow:nooo...... wayyyyy!!!!!!! so paiseh if my lurve is not reciprocrated!!
Then hw, I dig a hole, bury myself ar!!!! put brown paper bag ovr my face then walk off.... if he lives in the east, I go live west.... nv, nt ovr my dead/ decomposed body!! -
yahh.... but, not so embarassing for the guy right?Originally posted by the Bear:uhh.. girl, the guy takes the risk if he's interested too you know?
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girl, this is a time of the emancipated woman...
it is just as huge a blow to us dudes..
Originally posted by harrow:yahh.... but, not so embarassing for the guy right? -
maybe you just belongs to the minority that takes this more seriously? it seems to me that most pick up as easy as they started...
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ahh.. maybe so.. emotions are never to be toyed with...
it'll hurt just as much as a lady would if she was turned down, i'm thinking...
anyway, not every man goes around trying to "pick up"
there are those who would pursue only those whom they care forOriginally posted by harrow:maybe you just belongs to the minority that takes this more seriously? it seems to me that most pick up as easy as they started... -
These little gestures do make a woman feel special. But wat use r these gestures if ultimately, when it comes to the crunch, the guy can't stand up for her?
Little gestures make her feel special.
Standing up for her is a big gesture, makes her feel extra special.
Oh well, it's been q. awhile wif my guy, & he makes me feel special ev. single day still.
There're lessons guys will still hafta learn.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by the Bear:remember what you have written...
i've written this a few times, because a man is good to a lady, the lady feels special.. and he's nice and stuff.. and he keeps on doing this...
after a while, the feeling of being special becomes mundane as she become desensitised to it.. he's still nice, looking out for her, looking after her... but she stops seeing it that way as she starts to (like jOhO says) take him for granted.. take his care for granted...
and so, she cries bitterly saying he does not love her anymore, as he does not make her feel special anymore.. and leaves him...
strangely, i would think this is more common than is thought to be... why else people keep repeating the accursed litany of "nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai"? -
unfortunately, men are still human... and sometimes, they falter.. and when they do, and they want to get back up, it would be good if his girl allows him to do so, and gives him her support...
for ultimately, it is not a one-way street... as much as a man stands up for his lady, it would be good that the lady stands by him...
if he has stood up for her before, and falters somewhere along the line, especially when he has no idea that there was something going on, chances are, he's blur as all hell and didn't know.. and like Patsy Cline said, "After all, he's just a man"
when he knows, you can bet he would!
but then, we all are human... sometimes, we get a little lost sometimes...
sometimes when we do get lost, we get abandoned... and from here, we know where we stand in the hearts of those around us..
and for those who do not abandon us, we learn to love them even more... and cherish them..
for ultimately, love is love... and it is infinite
you have found someone good, love him and cherish him
as for other men, all they know is that they love their partners, are unable to articulate, and have not learnt the ways of love... like Buble sang.. they never knew the art of making love, but their hearts ached with love for their loved ones... afraid and shy, they let the chances go by...
gestures.. and all that.. strangely, some men do think they are frivolous and think that their love for their girl is enough.. however, i guess some, myself included, realise that we must show it...
however.. it is immaterial.. for each man is different, as is each woman.. sometimes, gestures are pointless for they already know the hearts of their menfolk and they are secure in it that their menfolk love them... mayhap, some women need to be reassured...
who knows? i guess no one will..
i prattle on...
i hope every lady out there had a good International Women's DayOriginally posted by FeowFeow:These little gestures do make a woman feel special. But wat use r these gestures if ultimately, when it comes to the crunch, the guy can't stand up for her?
Little gestures make her feel special.
Standing up for her is a big gesture, makes her feel extra special.
Oh well, it's been q. awhile wif my guy, & he makes me feel special ev. single day still.
There're lessons guys will still hafta learn.
FeowFeow