I got a Nice guy friend.
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ho ho... dammmnn....
ok ok... my bad. My taste for fashion aint tat good. Will keep these brands in mind.
Yo... a nerd can also turn into a hunk, with brains. Just depends whether he wans to make the change anot.Originally posted by theTelepath:Ewwww! can recommend better clothes than that?
Depending on his personal style, you can choose brands from the mid-level brands.
He sounds a bit of a nerd...ok a total nerd.
Try TopMan/Moto, Tommy Hilfiger, Zara (but dont get too carried away), Levi's and DKNY. If he can afford it try Paul Smith, Yohji Yamamoto. Also get a good pair of shoes. Dont wear those horrible $50 shoes that I bet he wears. Get something like Allen Edmonds or even Johnston & Murphy. -
Yo.... any progress yet??
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What do you mean by steady???Originally posted by Boo777:You're a guy!?!? Ouch... sorry.... *salutes*
Hey... not say every lady judge by appearance, I meant "1st impression", my brudda. Appearance is PART of 1st impression, as it also made up of many things e.g. how one carries oneself, good personality... etc etc etc.
Not to discriminate fat guys but, I've seen these big bruddas getting model-like babes for gf. They dun look good, their figure is outta shape, they cant show off their bodies in SunSet Bay. But why they still got those babes into their arms? The answer lies not only in their appearance, but how they carry themselves, how they "present" themselves to the ladies, how they humour them, how they interest them. And yes, they are daring, and they are not afraid to fail.
For married men, "Nice" is not the word to use here, the word to use is "steady-ness". Nice, anyone can be nice, can pretend to be nice, can act nice, talk nice, feel nice, but not every guy can be "steady". "Steady-ness" takes time + cultivation, this watz makes them stand out from the competition.
You friend is nice, but "nice" is not enuff, my brudda. He has got to learn how to be "steady", like the unmoveable Mount Fuji. I'm too at the learning stage, itz not easy. I think itz time to wake ur friend up. And dun give me tat "the rest can't make it" bull-crap. There's no guy in the world who can't make it, it depends whether he wans to do it and make the change. If he doesn't wan to change, I'm sorry brudda, he dun deserve anyone. No such thing as free food free drinks in this world with no effort made.
Dunno whether you guys get where I'm going, but good luck to you singles out there!! Time to wake up and have confident to show ur sexy buttocks to the world, eehhh... but dun follow until like Steven Lim like tat lah... a little too extreme. Hee hee!!!
If I'm wrong in any-way, please correct me. I'm learning to be "steady" too.
Cheerz my bruddas!!
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I think he's too busy feeling sorry for himself to do anything constructive.Originally posted by Boo777:Yo.... any progress yet??
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Different pple may explain the meaning differently but, this is wat a "steady" man meant in my opinion.
A "steady" man is independent, he is resourceful, thoughful and earns enough to feed both himself and his family. He solves problems maturely and in a rational manner. And yes, he is committed... to his lover. Well, a good example, is ur dad. A good person to ask about him... is ur mum.
Mayb some of u pple have a better example... like friends getting engaged, u can ask them too.Originally posted by SeraphimX:What do you mean by steady??? -
I was beginning to think tat Caramon IS Peter. Although he gave us the benefit of the doubt.
No offence but.... can I ask u a question? For urself, do u have a gf currently?? Have u been in a relationship? Within ur group of friends with Peter, r there any female friends inside? Did they help him improve himself?Originally posted by choco B:I think he's too busy feeling sorry for himself to do anything constructive. -
I'm a girl
... so after some gender transposing of your question...
Yeah we help our guy friends by analysing the situation, objectively pointing out what's wrong and what can be improved upon.... maybe bring him out shopping, give some constructive suggestions. Or at least, I do... not all girls react the same.
To claim that looks are entirely not important is being dishonest and doing a disservice to a friend. Loyalty and empathy can only go so far, you have to help a friend move on. The point is to look presentable and yet still retaining a strong inner core of personality and character.Originally posted by Boo777:I was beginning to think tat Caramon IS Peter. Although he gave us the benefit of the doubt.
No offence but.... can I ask u a question? For urself, do u have a gf currently?? Have u been in a relationship? Within ur group of friends with Peter, r there any female friends inside? Did they help him improve himself? -
Actually tat question was directed to Caramon.... sorry if everyone misunderstood.
Yeap... tatz wat I said on my previous post choco. He has to be presentable. But like I said, if he doesnt bother to do anything, I dun think the ladies will even bother taking a look at him. I know itz a little crude, but nothing comes free with no effort put in, rite?Originally posted by choco B:I'm a girl... so after some gender transposing of your question...
Yeah we help our guy friends by analysing the situation, objectively pointing out what's wrong and what can be improved upon.... maybe bring him out shopping, give some constructive suggestions. Or at least, I do... not all girls react the same.
To claim that looks are entirely not important is being dishonest and doing a disservice to a friend. Loyalty and empathy can only go so far, you have to help a friend move on. The point is to look presentable and yet still retaining a strong inner core of personality and character. -
Being a shopaholic who believes in the power of makeup and clothes, I'd say hell yeah !
P.s. I think midrange brands are ok... no need to invest in expensive clothes if a guy's still looking for his sense of styleOriginally posted by Boo777:Yeap... tatz wat I said on my previous post choco. He has to be presentable. But like I said, if he doesnt bother to do anything, I dun think the ladies will even bother taking a look at him. I know itz a little crude, but nothing comes free with no effort put in, rite? -
There is a reason that my last GF refers to me as "the Diva."Originally posted by choco B:Being a shopaholic who believes in the power of makeup and clothes, I'd say hell yeah !
P.s. I think midrange brands are ok... no need to invest in expensive clothes if a guy's still looking for his sense of style