what if Girls tell you that you are not my Cup of tea?
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what if Girls tell you that you are not my Cup of tea? There is really no chance at all to change their mind in future? what makes them say that? looks?
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Ask yourself what do you mean if you tell a girl that...
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lol...tell them you like drinking coffee too...
most of the time they tell you that both of you just don't have the sparks...all the time they meant to say you are ugly and they don't wanna be caught dead with u -
hmm once they say that means forever wun change its mind even thought your charactor is gd... how to change image of myself to attract it..Originally posted by bratpig:lol...tell them you like drinking coffee too...
most of the time they tell you that both of you just don't have the sparks...all the time they meant to say you are ugly and they don't wanna be caught dead with u -
Reason may not be due to looks.
Could be she doesn't like your behaviour - childish? wish-washy? -
Then I'm not their cup of tea.
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I guess they're just not worth your time then.
Remember......Consider it their loss, not yours. -
Go find others...don't waste your time on them anymore...orelse you will only irritate them~
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turn into coffee lah, maybe they just don't like to drink tea
just kidding!!
if she doesn't like u, just forget about it, no use to be persistent, not all girls will give in to sincerity!!
even if they will, after sometime, they tend to change their mind n u will be hurt even more.
To love doesn't meant to be with the one u love, it meant to let the one u love be happy!! -
Can. But often, no point trying too hard.Originally posted by Guaiboy:hmm once they say that means forever wun change its mind even thought your charactor is gd... how to change image of myself to attract it.. -
Sometimes also have to depend on the way you behave..Originally posted by Guaiboy:what if Girls tell you that you are not my Cup of tea? There is really no chance at all to change their mind in future? what makes them say that? looks?
do you behave like an uncle or are you very out-dated and have no sense of identity (you know,always trying to fake your body language) ???
Hmm..you can consider the above points besides looks and money that is. -
do some self-reflection... ask some close frens... and if after all that... nothing seems to be wrong with urself... then probably just means that u ain't her type loh... nothing to do with drastic looks or character bah...
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There is only this many times you want to walk into a wall.
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Originally posted by Estee:do some self-reflection... ask some close frens... and if after all that... nothing seems to be wrong with urself... then probably just means that u ain't her type loh... nothing to do with drastic looks or character bah...
Agree. I was too lazy to type... 
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You no chance liao la... Seriously when approach must also look at timing surroundings activity etc...
If not then look for another one lor, many trees in the forest remember that -
Originally posted by mistyblue: Agree. I was too lazy to type...
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Itz not always looks.
If tat gal is just an acquintance, she just dun wan u to bother her, telling u to buzz off, give her some space, leave her alone.
If tat gal is a friend/known her for quite some time, u are not watz she's looking for. My brudda, everyone have a so-called "dream gal/guy" tat come riding in with his/her horse/WRX/EVO/u name it to fetch him/her. So they can be using it as a guide-line to wat they are looking for. Maybe u r not "The One", so I suggest either u can continue to be her friend, or remove her from ur life (hey, I dun mean killing her).
Since she make it so clear and sweet to u, I believe she have enuff experience to know wat she wans, unlike some women I know who likes to play merry-go-round, ouch.
As for "changing their minds in the future", I think there's always a chance. U'll never know. But for now, itz best for u if u lay low and forget about having a relationship with her, instead, leave room for her, just in case she change her mind. But then again, highly unlikely.
So dun brood over it, life still have to go on. Remember, u r not alone.
Cheerz to u brudda.Originally posted by Guaiboy:what if Girls tell you that you are not my Cup of tea? There is really no chance at all to change their mind in future? what makes them say that? looks? -
Yoz...Originally posted by Boo777:Itz not always looks.
If tat gal is just an acquintance, she just dun wan u to bother her, telling u to buzz off, give her some space, leave her alone.
If tat gal is a friend/known her for quite some time, u are not watz she's looking for. My brudda, everyone have a so-called "dream gal/guy" tat come riding in with his/her horse/WRX/EVO/u name it to fetch him/her. So they can be using it as a guide-line to wat they are looking for. Maybe u r not "The One", so I suggest either u can continue to be her friend, or remove her from ur life (hey, I dun mean killing her).
Since she make it so clear and sweet to u, I believe she have enuff experience to know wat she wans, unlike some women I know who likes to play merry-go-round, ouch.
As for "changing their minds in the future", I think there's always a chance. U'll never know. But for now, itz best for u if u lay low and forget about having a relationship with her, instead, leave room for her, just in case she change her mind. But then again, highly unlikely.
So dun brood over it, life still have to go on. Remember, u r not alone.
Cheerz to u brudda.
Without her...U still nd to breath oxygen n do Ur stuff...Juz let it go...
Cheers... -
Originally posted by Estee: great minds think alike...
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Yoz...
Gt Urself back in the dating game again...there are lots of gals ard...the most impt tin is to haf confidence in Urself...
Cheers... -
vOriginally posted by mistyblue: great minds think alike... 
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hmmm ya mayb... she say tat to me b4...Originally posted by gerrykoh:Reason may not be due to looks.
Could be she doesn't like your behaviour - childish? wish-washy? -
Move on .....
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Tell her that she's not D cup anyway... Joking..
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hmm know this ger 4yrs... woo her after knowing her better for the 1yr or lesser... we used to go cycle from one place to another... we would go to shop for fish thingy... free we would meet and eat lunch n dinner wif her... the feeling very happy... sometimes we free would go for jog.play badminton..gym... every year during special occasion... we would exchange present like during Xmas or bday sometimes for no reason we would buy things for each other... she always feel touch wif my present cos i always buy the things she aim for or like... eg.perfumn MMC card dvd player wallet etc.. den during chi new year she would baked pineapple tart n gave it to me... hmm she so thoughtful... whenever her coms are down her uncles.. i always help her fix it and she feel really touch n happy for my great work...whenever she needs help or wat she would call me up and i always solve for her.. as time goes she got herself a licence n bike.. she always busy wif her bike thing or out wif other friends to know more abt bikes things.. mths later.. she work in an office which needs lots of computer knowledge.. she keep look me up wanted me to help her wif it... during my BMT, her office coms always have problem she ask me to help her fix.. she would pillion me to her office to help her fix com every of my bk out day n she got really happy and touch...when free she would pillion me go to some restaurant to have dinner at nite time or sent me back to camp.. i express to her my feeling 3yrs+ which is also during my BMT.. I drove her out.. she didnt know i like her at all...she reject mi as dun wan to go steady now as she prefer the feeling of being woo.. n say that as friends can b forever..but if steady she break she will nv ever contact again and its gone... she also wan mi to keep my promise that when ever she hav problem i be there for her... well so far she always need help i didnt reject any task she gave.... wonder she dislike mi or jus an excuse.. hmm? well as times goes by.. i met some problem in camp.. she ask keep ask me to change my charactor as not so gd... i keep promise her.but my mind keep slip away... as no one ever told me to change... well she say that she treat mi as friends that y tell me to change if others she wouldnt even care.. few mths later i got impatient express my feeling again.. she told mi once again...friend better. and can last forever... i ask her did she like mi... she tell mi tat she like mi but not as lover now... she say that if steady wif her 1wks later cfm break which she is so confident...wonder i think is my charactor... she also state that my char not really gd... keep ask her why why or fan her... and she have friend who is much better than me...hai... mths later i getting possessive which i didnt know... and she begins to find me more n more fan.. keep ask her out or fan her something... but really miss her tat time.. hmm till 1 day she got fedup she told me off that she dun like mi at all.. now and in future also wun... cos your not my cup of tea!! even i change into a better person also dun like at all... well heart got shattered...i ask her y again... n saying my thinking like a 3yrs old kid.. keep ask her y yy y... fan her...naggy at times.. saying last time i not like tat... hai... duno wat got into me.. she hav a sis... and her sis used to encourage me of chasing her... now she allied wif her and tell me to stop my wishful thinking... i nv b wif her and 4ever... hai.. wonder i used help them up.. y they are so mean... saying i will nv hav the chance... she given me a route... is either friends or enermy.. what can i do.... i still like her alot... i hav to choose to b friend...but we are so close yet so far apart... feel so hurt at times...keep telling me we are friend for ever... ask mi dun anyhow think.. haii...well i dun hav e looks and ht... she looks quite pretty....mayb im not suitable to match wif her... TO be continue....
