Not completely correct.Originally posted by ChristinaTeh:As long as the sex is active...men will be happy!
Possbile conclusion? but again, not all men thinks the same. They evolve thru experience.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Sounds like men are from mars, women are from venus.
sex = love?
So can i conclude that men love with their lower body and not their heart?
Well, at least the men I met with tells me so. They're just neglected when sex is concerned and that is one of the main catalyst of straying.Originally posted by M©+square:Not completely correct.
yuck! no.Originally posted by SnowFlag:children?
That's how i feel abt men too.. Even for women.. But of cos, the love must exist. Otherwise, will just feel empty deep down.Originally posted by M©+square:When there's fufilment in all aspects in a r/s. They'll naturally feel loved, in a way or another.
Not true. If a guy marrried a gal who isn't the gal he love, the guy will be unhappy too.Originally posted by ChristinaTeh:As long as the sex is active...men will be happy!
You're partially right also...but y would one wanna marry someone he/she don't like? Unless it's arranged by parents....Originally posted by SnowFlag:Not true. If a guy marrried a gal who isn't the gal he love, the guy will be unhappy too.
Ah.. So you are into Oedipous Complex!Originally posted by gerrykoh:They want women to mother them![]()
Perhaps it has become a habit already. Since both are together for few years, eventually marriage falls into place. Isn't that quite commonly seen in S'pore context? Very sadly, divorce rate is increasing. And that probably explains the wrong decision made.Originally posted by dcx:You're partially right also...but y would one wanna marry someone he/she don't like? Unless it's arranged by parents....
But some ppl marry becoz at that time they're real good...but as time goes by, perphaps both are rather used to seeing each other everyday n has nothing to tok abt...no more excitements before...Originally posted by icepole:Perhaps it has become a habit already. Since both are together for few years, eventually marriage falls into place. Isn't that quite commonly seen in S'pore context? Very sadly, divorce rate is increasing. And that probably explains the wrong decision made.
Unless you know all the men in the world. Otherwise your statement wouldn't stand.Originally posted by ChristinaTeh:Well, at least the men I met with tells me so. They're just neglected when sex is concerned and that is one of the main catalyst of straying.
The topic is the answer.......in summerised form.Originally posted by icepole:That's how i feel abt men too.. Even for women.. But of cos, the love must exist. Otherwise, will just feel empty deep down.
In the path to fulfilling all aspects, it's no easy task. Compromise, communication and consideration.
For men in this forum, :::any comments on what men really want in a r'ship?:::
...MC2, you're indeed a wise one....Originally posted by M©+square:Unless you know all the men in the world. Otherwise your statement wouldn't stand.
Keep to the whole issue rather than hitting on sex.
Efforts are required from both parties. If r'ship gets stagnant, do something about it. Create the sparks again. If there is a conflict, resolve it. There's no perfect person or perfect love. However, perfect the imperfections.Originally posted by dcx:But some ppl marry becoz at that time they're real good...but as time goes by, perphaps both are rather used to seeing each other everyday n has nothing to tok abt...no more excitements before...
As a result, the guy might know a girl in a pub or elsewhere n everything's fresh again between the guy n the newly known girl..as for the wife, vice-versa...not apply to all cases, but some of them onli.
I do know that there're also cases whereby the couple onli got to know each other than less than a year n got married....better????