Why am I feeling this way?
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Just a few days ago, A friend of mine came from Malaysia Sabah State to Singapore for a short Visit. She is no stranger here as she had studied over here from Secondary to Poly and she left Australia for further studies. It was recently that she went back to Malaysia for a short break and dropped over Singapore.
How do I get to know her? I knew her through a friend of mine. Which is to mean I never get to see her for more than 2 years until few days back. All we did was chat on MSN and voice chat all these time. She had told me that she would look up for me when she is here from the days we started chatting untill now.
On Sunday, I finally got to see her in real person. It was amazing feeling. I could instantly recognized her and we are talking like old time friends. I had advised her on relationship and other stuffs when she was in Australia because she did not really have someone to turn to and confide herself. And this went on for like more than 2 years.
There was a time, she made pineapple tart and mailed it over to Singapore for me and also sending things like dried apple chips and walnuts and other stuffs. I was really kinda touched because of the things she did. Not that because I got special feelings for her or what.
We went from places to places to do shoppings and eating from places to places. On Monday night both of us was tired after walking around so we sat at Singapore River just opposite the Asian Civilazation Museum. The time was 130am in the morning. The whole ambience was really wonderful. We talked about tons of things and I took out my IPOD and both of us listen to Andy Lau's song.
It was then I got this feeling that....she could be just the one I have always been searching for.....but how can I be sure? How can I based on just pure intuition? Or should I used logic thinking on this rather than intuition?
Time flies pretty fast and it was already 430am in the morning. I told her its too late and she gotta get up early to leave soon. So I send her back to her hotel. Words from her "I am really happy to see you and know you" before she got off the taxi.
Next morning around 12pm. She gave me a called...but damn! I turned my mobile to silent mode so never get to talk to her before she leave.
I do not know why? I got this funny feeling in me? I constantly looked at the photos that we had taken together. And I can't help myself not to think of her and I do missed her!....
But I guess this feeling would just go away any time from now.
Or maybe not??? -
nice story. why dont u try telling her how much u miss her the nxt time u guys chat up
all the best -
It will be another one to two years to see here again. Mean time all I can do is to chat with her or voice chat. but don't think so as she seldom goes online in sabah.Originally posted by dibilo:nice story. why dont u try telling her how much u miss her the nxt time u guys chat up all the best -
well, you can save up and visit her when you can..Originally posted by Seventh_Son:It will be another one to two years to see here again. Mean time all I can do is to chat with her or voice chat. but don't think so as she seldom goes online in sabah. -
communicate to her ur feelings subtly.
maybe she is feeling the same way too.
if she does, then u two can try to work out something together. u noe, like she travels here and u go visit her.
if u can bring this rship to a higher level, then one of u have to make a decision to stay in the same country. but of cos u should be sure first.
dun tink long distance rship works in the long run.
chances could be, it is juz a crush now. after a while, this feeling will subside.
How old are both of u? -
Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Just a few days ago, A friend of mine came from Malaysia Sabah State to Singapore for a short Visit. She is no stranger here as she had studied over here from Secondary to Poly and she left Australia for further studies. It was recently that she went back to Malaysia for a short break and dropped over Singapore.
How do I get to know her? I knew her through a friend of mine. Which is to mean I never get to see her for more than 2 years until few days back. All we did was chat on MSN and voice chat all these time. She had told me that she would look up for me when she is here from the days we started chatting untill now.
On Sunday, I finally got to see her in real person. It was amazing feeling. I could instantly recognized her and we are talking like old time friends. I had advised her on relationship and other stuffs when she was in Australia because she did not really have someone to turn to and confide herself. And this went on for like more than 2 years.
There was a time, she made pineapple tart and mailed it over to Singapore for me and also sending things like dried apple chips and walnuts and other stuffs. I was really kinda touched because of the things she did. Not that because I got special feelings for her or what.
We went from places to places to do shoppings and eating from places to places. On Monday night both of us was tired after walking around so we sat at Singapore River just opposite the Asian Civilazation Museum. The time was 130am in the morning. The whole ambience was really wonderful. We talked about tons of things and I took out my IPOD and both of us listen to Andy Lau's song.
It was then I got this feeling that....she could be just the one I have always been searching for.....but how can I be sure? How can I based on just pure intuition? Or should I used logic thinking on this rather than intuition?
Time flies pretty fast and it was already 430am in the morning. I told her its too late and she gotta get up early to leave soon. So I send her back to her hotel. Words from her "I am really happy to see you and know you" before she got off the taxi.
Next morning around 12pm. She gave me a called...but damn! I turned my mobile to silent mode so never get to talk to her before she leave.
I do not know why? I got this funny feeling in me? I constantly looked at the photos that we had taken together. And I can't help myself not to think of her and I do missed her!....
But I guess this feeling would just go away any time from now.
Or maybe not???
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Can only procceed to visit here when she is in Sabah.Originally posted by icepole:well, you can save up and visit her when you can..
And at the moment I can go any where as I am still left with
6 more months of degree course to complete -
Just got a SMS from her. She just reached her home town in Sabah ( near to Philiipines) Cos she left her spec on the bus back to KL and aksed me if there is any news on the spec.. So i checked with the bus company and yes they did find a spec on the mentioned bus.Originally posted by sweetie05:communicate to her ur feelings subtly.
maybe she is feeling the same way too.
if she does, then u two can try to work out something together. u noe, like she travels here and u go visit her.
if u can bring this rship to a higher level, then one of u have to make a decision to stay in the same country. but of cos u should be sure first.
dun tink long distance rship works in the long run.
chances could be, it is juz a crush now. after a while, this feeling will subside.
How old are both of u?
At the moment I am not thinking about anything about long distance or any kind of relationship. Unless when she grad and decided to work in Singapore as it was one of her choice.
You are right, it could be crush at the moment. And its is when we are not able to think rationally.
She is 25 and I am 2 years older than her which means 27
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All I can say is that it was really a wonderful night at the river....
Sweet sweet memories... -
Whats with the smile?Originally posted by Devil1976: 
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You silly fool, idiot, pig-head...go and find her immediately. I believe she likes you too, else who will be so free to stay with you till so early in the mornings.
And don't you steal her specs ok? Hurry up and buy a bus ticket from Golden Mile Complex and return her the specs plus some interests please.
Do something that a good and close friend would do but not something that a boyfriend should do.
Well, if you like her...you should do something. Else if you are not sure, hang around until some pretty girl goes up to you and tells you she wants to have sex with you.
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Hahaha....And yes a Fool, an idiot and a pig head I amOriginally posted by parn:You silly fool, idiot, pig-head...go and find her immediately. I believe she likes you too, else who will be so free to stay with you till so early in the mornings.
And don't you steal her specs ok? Hurry up and buy a bus ticket from Golden Mile Complex and return her the specs plus some interests please.
Do something that a good and close friend would do but not something that a boyfriend should do.
Well, if you like her...you should do something. Else if you are not sure, hang around until some pretty girl goes up to you and tells you she wants to have sex with you.
Good luck.
And yes I am doing what a close friend should do and not what I bf should do.
Thats why I am going to Golden Mile to get the specs back from the Bus company.
And i will sent it as register mail to her. THat is all i could do for now, you cannot expect me to fly to sabah to look for her? I got way too many unsettle stuffs to handle in Singapore.
Meanwhile like I said, I can only sent the spec back to her with a note or something. Thats all.... -
Andy Lau's song made u feel love hor?
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Well you can said that! Its really nice...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Andy Lau's song made u feel love hor? -
wad are u waiting for???
Go! Go! Go! Go! Go!!!!!
Juz go to sabah and find her lah... Dont let this opportunity go to waste. I mean if u really like her... why still wait? Wanna wait till someone else gets her? -
Of course la, my lau gong sing wanOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:Well you can said that! Its really nice... -
D.P.
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So many thoughts... So little action...?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Whats with the smile?
Like you, I'm waiting for things to happen.... ...... -
Actions....what kind of actions can I have?Originally posted by Devil1976:So many thoughts... So little action...?
Like you, I'm waiting for things to happen.... ......
It will most probably scare the hell out of her.
Its not like I have nothing here to settle and other stuffs.
I wish I could go but I can't... -
Hahaha its easier said then done....Originally posted by RonaldMacDonalds:wad are u waiting for???
Go! Go! Go! Go! Go!!!!!
Juz go to sabah and find her lah... Dont let this opportunity go to waste. I mean if u really like her... why still wait? Wanna wait till someone else gets her?
Sometimes I think needs to be more rational -
Hahaha your laugong's songs?Originally posted by browniebaobao:Of course la, my lau gong sing wan 
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Let me introduce myself. I'm Lau Tai Tai.Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Hahaha your laugong's songs? -
Hahaha...the legendary Lau Tai Tai (Old Aunite)Originally posted by browniebaobao:Let me introduce myself. I'm Lau Tai Tai. 
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look carefully, it's LAU tai tai..not lao tai tai.Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Hahaha...the legendary Lau Tai Tai (Old Aunite) -
ohh...from my experience...if you like her..better tell her fast..or at least hint..
else who knows she may get herself a bf and marry off..then you will be too late!