Why am I feeling this way?
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As for this? I don't think it would be so fast as she would be leaving for Australia end of this month for her internship.Originally posted by nightzip:ohh...from my experience...if you like her..better tell her fast..or at least hint..
else who knows she may get herself a bf and marry off..then you will be too late!
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Hey there,
this is my view on your situation.
You guys have affinity man. Love and its sparks happens in the most unlikely places and situations!
So, what are you waiting for? Seize The Day!
I understand your concern in being cautious about this. Look at it this way:
If you win: You'll be happy
If you lose: You'll be wise
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Don't let this opportunity fade away! The kind of situation that you had doesn't come all the time. In fact, it's a rarity!
God has already shown you the path. It's up to you now to walk it.
Cheers.
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This could be a one sided affair. Its my feelings for her and I am not sure does she has the kind of feeling too? Its not easy as it we all think. She is not in Singapore and it really make things more difficult. And she doesn't come online when she is in Sabah..so I would have to wait till she is back in Australia at the end of this month.
Originally posted by Enigmatic1:
Hey there,
this is my view on your situation.
[b]You guys have affinity man. Love and its sparks happens in the most unlikely places and situations!
So, what are you waiting for? Seize The Day!
I understand your concern in being cautious about this. Look at it this way:
If you win: You'll be happy
If you lose: You'll be wise
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Don't let this opportunity fade away! The kind of situation that you had doesn't come all the time. In fact, it's a rarity!
God has already shown you the path. It's up to you now to walk it.
Cheers. [/b] -
Since you've put it that way.....?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Actions....what kind of actions can I have?
It will most probably scare the hell out of her.
Its not like I have nothing here to settle and other stuffs.
I wish I could go but I can't...
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Yup, but how would you know unless you dip your toe into the water?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:This could be a one sided affair. Its my feelings for her and I am not sure does she has the kind of feeling too? Its not easy as it we all think. She is not in Singapore and it really make things more difficult. And she doesn't come online when she is in Sabah..so I would have to wait till she is back in Australia at the end of this month.
The things we treasure are those that came by the hard road.
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id!ot.... u still got time to post here? u shud get on the next plane to meet her..tell her how u feel for her b4 its too late...after all, all u need is love n it makes ur world dosent it?
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Hahaha....like I said..its easy to say.Originally posted by alexkusu:id!ot.... u still got time to post here? u shud get on the next plane to meet her..tell her how u feel for her b4 its too late...after all, all u need is love n it makes ur world dosent it?
But for the action part? Its not easy.
Maybe you be in my shoes.
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be realistic. the last thing you want in your life is to be delusional. if you can afford it, fly over to meet her. tell her the three words. wadever. if you can't and you know u've got committments over here, forget the whole thing. talk to her over msn whenever u can and that's it. just forget the entire long distance r/s thing. no point oogling at things you know you cannot get. you will only strain your eyes.
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Originally posted by Seventh_Son:This could be a one sided affair. Its my feelings for her and I am not sure does she has the kind of feeling too? Its not easy as it we all think. She is not in Singapore and it really make things more difficult. And she doesn't come online when she is in Sabah..so I would have to wait till she is back in Australia at the end of this month.
Are you seriously waiting for her to tell you that she likes you too?
I can tell you, you are gonna wait long long for that to happen.
The thoughts anc concerns going through your mind right now could be exactly what she is having in her very own mind. So if none of you going to make a step forward, who's going to do it for you?
In fact, it would take more and greater courage for a girl to come up and tell you that she likes you. So for you as a guy, you must take the first step forward. You want to love her legally, but you do not have the courage to declare it...how sad it is...
If you are sure that she's the one you want right now, go for it and seized the opportunity before it is too late. What have you got to lose anyway? You only lived once remember??? At the most, you will be terribly embarressed when she rejects you...but at the end of your forsaken life, nobody will ever remembers what happened to you and nobody will even remember you as a person. So if you can meet that special someone and fall in love with her, have a great relationship and future...at least there is one person in this world who will miss you when you are gone eventually.
If she likes you, she will still like you even if you gave her the lamest crappiest excuse in the world to see her again. If she doesn't, she wouldn't blink an eyelid even if you hand-carved a statue of her and gave it to her.
An average person waits for good things to come to them, but an extraordinary person create good things for themselves and for the people around them.
Well, eventually it is all up to you to make up your mind and take some actions. Afterall, you are the one with the balls and I hope that those sacs are still attached to you. (*Joking!!!)
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If u got time to post,why dont u give her a call? 1min is enough....so u can find out if ur were meant to be..... how much 1min to Aust? $3? Go ahead n call...n wen u guys get married, u can tell ur kids how u follow a guy called Alexkusu's advice n how u spent $3 n meet ur wife ok?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Hahaha....like I said..its easy to say.
But for the action part? Its not easy.
Maybe you be in my shoes.