Originally posted by man4nth:
hmm...she was the one who court mi in the 1st place before we really went into a relationship........later on i find out that she n i hv a lot of things in-common..............she started to kick a fuss.....asking for break up.......sometime i really do not undrestand her at all...
I getting very sick in this kind of r/s....
i think i know what to do next....
if she ever want a break up, i will say YES..............
How long have this relationship been around for?
Thru out these times you didn't realise and understand her minor things you do that will trigger her unreasonable reactions?
Tried hard to understand her???
You think that her friends comments meant more to her compared to yours. She could have valued her friends more. But ever consider if it could be you didn't potray a independent figure and a someone she is able to look up to?
Ever considered that her pattern of break and patch-up is unknowingly brought up by you?
Food for thought: If she ever want a break up, you will say YES. But you never meant it.
The fact stated that you've sexual intimacy with her speaks of another level of relationship.
Possibly...
If you've the courage to break up. She wouldn't take it. Because all the while you're the one who's giving in, why the sudden change in you?
Conclusion: The both of you should learn find what is really lacking in your lives. What you've commented here is very superfical. If there's still any help needed, pls give more inputs.
You stilll can learn from this relationship and grow out of this.
Cheers
good for u! WOOHPEEE!