Originally posted by foxwalk:
Let's say you just met a business associate. He seems to be hitting on you. Why?
He asked you to take a photo with you. And while posing for the photo, he put his arm around you, and grabbed your upper arm tightly, his other hand grabbing your hand for a "handshake".
What would you do if you were the girl?
What would you do or feel if you were the girl's bf and she didn't know what to do, so she let the guy do that, and you later came to know about this incident from your gf?
Lets put it tis way,... you are molested in a easiest-to-get-away format.
before he take photo w u,... he probably longed to touch u and hold u. tis is "test water" phase.
After tis if he see that you're ok with it,... other ideas will follow.
Tell him to stop that, and if you're afraid, nevermind. When there are people around, tell him that, without others able to overhear, and stare into his eyes.
Some guys are plain chicken when confronted with such things...
All da best!
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