How are guys realli like?
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Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks. -
wow honey, u're in luck. and then out of it again. straight guys tend to like girls, whatever their orientation may be. so u don't have to worry about yr sexuality as far as he is concerned. Also this might mean u're bi, not les. OF course, if he's attached, then your chances of getting him is smaller. Could this be a phase because he is a "forbidden fruit"? In any case, go with the flow for now, and maybe be friends. Perhaps u just like him as a very good friend and not more.
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Ehm...well, if he IS attached, then may be it would boil down to a friendship instead of a relationship
Then again, I think guys are okay with gers, whether they are bi or les.
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oh dear. having guys after u should be nothing new 'hun. That happens to us lesbians all the time. I just tell 'em to Fuck off.Originally posted by Elastigal:thanks, but in kind of troubled state. you see, i've been with my gf for 4 years... and suddenly this year seem to be a 'tao hua' year... apart from having a liking for this guy, another guy seems to be after me.
I try to brush off the feeling for that guy, but when he's not around, i'll think of him.. and when he's around, i just wana look at him
really hope it's just a passing cloud... since i'll not get to see him for a week.
the problem u should be thinking about now is, do u still love your gal, and what she's gonna think about it, especially if u dump her to go after an attached guy. I say, don't screw things up for yourself, and ruin a happy thing. Push the guy out of your thoughts for now, at least until he is single and available. Like I said, this could be just a passing phase.
By the way, can u describe the guy a bit? -
the only thing that we can confirm now is that....u r no longer a lesbian
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well, he is sorta... a nice gentleman. I rem the first time i saw him, i was blown away by his gentle-ness. When he saw me, he told me to stay put and he went to push a chair for me, and arranged everything on the desk properly so i could put down my stuffs.
i didn't think i like him that time, it was after i got to know him better. he's a really good man... brings his mum out, listens to his gf.... although his gf can be kinda demanding and fierce. he can joke and can talk serious...
he looks cute and most of all, he is gentle and soft spoken when talking to me... haha
but of course, i'll not let him ruin my life. but well, due to my work, i get to see my gf only once a week.... sigh... and i see this guy almost everyday! -
hmm, he sounds like my defination of a perfect guy. feminine yet gentlemanly. guys like that can be more attractive to even gay girls. its no wonder u have some feelings for him. I did think that he's probably the way u've described him already, when I saw your 1st post.Originally posted by Elastigal:well, he is sorta... a nice gentleman. I rem the first time i saw him, i was blown away by his gentle-ness. When he saw me, he told me to stay put and he went to push a chair for me, and arranged everything on the desk properly so i could put down my stuffs.
i didn't think i like him that time, it was after i got to know him better. he's a really good man... brings his mum out, listens to his gf.... although his gf can be kinda demanding and fierce. he can joke and can talk serious...
he looks cute and most of all, he is gentle and soft spoken when talking to me... haha
but of course, i'll not let him ruin my life. but well, due to my work, i get to see my gf only once a week.... sigh... and i see this guy almost everyday! -
he's so funny when he tries to sing to me at times... haha... but he might be just playing and cheering me up. but well... i'm not gona see him until saturday. so, hopefully things will get into the right places.
seems like you are PLU as well. so, u attached?
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PLU? um, whats that?Originally posted by Elastigal:he's so funny when he tries to sing to me at times... haha... but he might be just playing and cheering me up. but well... i'm not gona see him until saturday. so, hopefully things will get into the right places.
seems like you are PLU as well. so, u attached?
and no. unfortunately, im not attached. but that kinda gives me the freedom to pull in clubs so im not complainin' -
PLU = People Like Us
yeah, envy you for that kind of freedom, but of course being attached has its merits too. =) -
oh. heh. yea im in a way PLU, but much more complicated.Originally posted by Elastigal:PLU = People Like Us
yeah, envy you for that kind of freedom, but of course being attached has its merits too. =)
and honestly but sadly, i think i wouldn't really fit into the les scene in singapore. im in London by the way. -
Jus do wat u tink heart tell u to do...Go wid ur heart...It will be more comfortable for you..Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
Some guys like les...cos from a guy's mind is having more thrill/exicted.
If u wan to "ka-jiao" tat guy whose attach..well er...i dun encourage tat but if u really want to..mayb u "LANG"< hokkien) him to test..most guys cannot tahan lah...
Mayb u should really think if the guy willing to be wid you..how r u gonna tell ur other half...
Hmm...u'r a les(no offence)..scally i know you..cos i hv quite a few of les friends..all those crazy type...BTY, i'm not PLU, i'm a guy...
Jus do wat u think is right,the most comfortable way u will feel will do le. -
hey heng i thought u were a guy?
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heng is asexual, how can i be a guy?Originally posted by vito_corleone:hey heng i thought u were a guy? 
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this then is lao jiao experience .Originally posted by bo liao:Jus do wat u tink heart tell u to do...Go wid ur heart...It will be more comfortable for you..
Some guys like les...cos from a guy's mind is having more thrill/exicted.
If u wan to "ka-jiao" tat guy whose attach..well er...i dun encourage tat but if u really want to..mayb u "LANG"< hokkien) him to test..most guys cannot tahan lah...
Mayb u should really think if the guy willing to be wid you..how r u gonna tell ur other half...
Hmm...u'r a les(no offence)..scally i know you..cos i hv quite a few of les friends..all those crazy type...BTY, i'm not PLU, i'm a guy...
Jus do wat u think is right,the most comfortable way u will feel will do le. -
well. if u can still like a guy means u are not fully a les. maybe a bi. if he is already attached don go ka jiao his relationship else u will be branded as a slut by alot of people. weather he will have a relationship behind his gf or not depends on his upbringing and thinking.Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
ps: i m sure there is another guy out there for u. good luck -
if a guy's attached, hands off..
you won't like someone making a move on your partner, do you?
as for guys, we're not much different from ladies actually, except that there are some differences which are self-evident...
take a while to think about your own sexuality.. a long honest look at yourself..
if you come to figure out that your current partner will be good for you in the long run, and that you'll both be happy together, go with that..
if not, more soul-searching... and if you're attracted to a guy and he's not attached, be friends with him first..
as always, in a relationship, friendship is very important if it is to proceed.. -
shhh Heng@ is undercover sgforumite . he sometimes M sometimes F...this is confidential info. now tat u noe i gotta kill u
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I suggest you clarify it with your lesbian friends , lesbian and gay relationship ends up nowhere.
Straight Guys are ALL perverted and 50% are mentally unsound , but going steady with a girl you wouldn't have financial and physical security.
Got pros and cons , i suggest you go for a guy though. -
You all can't have kids, get weird stares , no point , trust me.
The best thing to do is to dump that lesbian partner , wait & see when it comes to that guy .
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She's bisexual...Originally posted by bratpig:the only thing that we can confirm now is that....u r no longer a lesbian -
Hi...answers to you questions...Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
1) Do guys like lesbian girls?
>> I do not know abt others..but there's no problem with me liking a lesbian girl...as a matter of fact, i would feel rather feel safe.
2) Chances of a guy (attached) to have mistress?
>> Chances are there...quite high...
Actually, my advice will be that try to be friends with him 1st...do not cut into their lovely relationship... -
Straight Guys like girls , but most of them do not likeOriginally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
1) Girls who loves acting cute
2) tomboys
3) people with fake intentions
A guy will fall in love with any girl , be it lesbian or not , but he will feel safer ,
cause there's a lower tendency of "you" going into relationship with other guys.
Mostly middle-age men have mistresses , do not worry for now .
It tends to be a short term fling/one night stand , unless its a mistress from vietnam or china which requires him to give monthly "allowance" then it starts to become long term.
If that happens, bring him go for counselling , again , be careful , if he first started liking you because of "looks" , that means he's a person who goes for
"looks" , again , this increases the chances of having mistresses when he gets old.