I'm wondering which guy don't go for looks...apparently, if a girl's pretty, i'm damn sure that i'll like her....but if fat n ugly...will you like it???Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Straight Guys like girls , but most of them do not like
1) Girls who loves acting cute
2) tomboys
3) people with fake intentions
A guy will fall in love with any girl , be it lesbian or not , but he will feel safer ,
cause there's a lower tendency of "you" going into relationship with other guys.
Mostly middle-age men have mistresses , do not worry for now .
It tends to be a short term fling/one night stand , unless its a mistress from vietnam or china which requires him to give monthly "allowance" then it starts to become long term.
If that happens, bring him go for counselling , again , be careful , if he first started liking you because of "looks" , that means he's a person who goes for
"looks" , again , this increases the chances of having mistresses when he gets old.
Hi I am new here also.Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
hey Elastigal!!Originally posted by Elastigal:thanks, but in kind of troubled state. you see, i've been with my gf for 4 years... and suddenly this year seem to be a 'tao hua' year... apart from having a liking for this guy, another guy seems to be after me.
I try to brush off the feeling for that guy, but when he's not around, i'll think of him.. and when he's around, i just wana look at him
really hope it's just a passing cloud... since i'll not get to see him for a week.
He's attached. Get over it.Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
HAHA...short and sharpOriginally posted by Devil1976:He's attached. Get over it.
the poor gal needs advice here, lets not hijack this thread n speculate about me.Originally posted by bladez87:shhh Heng@ is undercover sgforumite . he sometimes M sometimes F...this is confidential info. now tat u noe i gotta kill u![]()
Thanks SMAPLionHeart.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:I suggest you clarify it with your lesbian friends , lesbian and gay relationship ends up nowhere.
Straight Guys are ALL perverted and 50% are mentally unsound , but going steady with a girl you wouldn't have financial and physical security.
Got pros and cons , i suggest you go for a guy though.
hi there, u are a guy yah? hmm... finally a guy's view on his les gf. haha... firstly,Originally posted by junh:hey Elastigal!!
you know what? you seem to be speaking like my ex girlfriend. shes also like you, a les. until she met me, she was sharing her life with this girl. just like you, after she met me, more guys start to take fancy of her.
you know, she was fr a girl's sch and all she had met then were all ladies.den we got together. maybe the next part will interest you more- after we got together.
we were loving, and giving our love endlessly. it was inevitable that her x knew about us and she took it very very badly. we were usually in turmoil because of her. for her, cuz her x spent almost everyday with her last time, she expected me too but not all guys are so free.
no doubt we had great times with each other but her past slowly crept up with us. we went to diff jc - she was with her x while i was alone. though they quarrelled, they somehow managed to do certain things. that pissed me off.
i still feel for her but maybe its jus not her.
my advice to you is:
1) tell ur x bout him first and see her reaction
2) distance yourself fr her
3) try ur best to hide the truth fr him
4) love him only
all the best
jus one question elastigal, is ur birthday in june?Originally posted by Elastigal:hi there, u are a guy yah? hmm... finally a guy's view on his les gf. haha... firstly,
1) i'll not tell my gf about this guy, 'cos she'll over-react and prolly tie me up in the houes and forbid me to go work. LOL.
but i did sound her out before that there's another guy coming after me. she just laffed over it... well.. -shrug-
2) i cldn't distance myself from her more... i see her prolly once a week these days. and spend less tham 5 mins on the phone everyday...
3) will definitely not tell him that i'm gay... wouldn't know how they will take it. seems like he's quite ... hmm... uneasy with lesbians....
4) love him only? well, prolly not at this stage yet. just find a special feeling developing, tt's all...![]()
I'm a lazy devil.Originally posted by M©+square:HAHA...short and sharp![]()
Originally posted by Elastigal:Yunhaier:
You are really a good analyser in astrology studies.
But I'm a capricorn. my gf also reads into astrology alot. she says that i'm not the least close to any typical capricorn. -giggles-
but nonetheless, you are very right about this part
"You are confused because the idea of loving a man is a complete new realm to you. This confusion is a battle of the soul and the body - you are a biologically-born female and your physical gender automatically attracts a biologically-born male. Your soul could be somewhat opposite of this flow, thus the lesbian tendency. However, the man you fell for is a mixture of what heng said 'feminine yet gentlemanly...' and because he exude energies of both yin and yang, this magnetic attraction fits your special lock. "
this special guy seem to be a gift sent from heaven... and know what? he's a capricorn as well.
My gf is a scorpio. care to study more on this and tell me more about your analysis?
A capricorn is not born in June...Originally posted by junh:jus one question elastigal, is ur birthday in june?
You are right about some things... It's idea that you not let your gf knows about anything before it even get anywhere near maturation... But if you don't tell her and let her find out, also equally bad (you should know her well enough by now...Originally posted by Elastigal:to the rest of the fellow pals,
really thanks much for the contribution. some of your comments will be 'sharp' , or discouraging, but that's what i need. true opinions... no worries, i'm always open to criticisms and comments...
Oic, lesbians getting married in singapore?Originally posted by Elastigal:Thanks SMAPLionHeart.
However, i dun really agree with you on the financial and physical security part. my current gf is financially stable and is already planning OUR future together. and instead, it's me who keeps quiet when this subject is brought up.
Originally posted by Elastigal:Yunhaier:
You are really a good analyser in astrology studies.
But I'm a capricorn. my gf also reads into astrology alot. she says that i'm not the least close to any typical capricorn. -giggles-
but nonetheless, you are very right about this part
"You are confused because the idea of loving a man is a complete new realm to you. This confusion is a battle of the soul and the body - you are a biologically-born female and your physical gender automatically attracts a biologically-born male. Your soul could be somewhat opposite of this flow, thus the lesbian tendency. However, the man you fell for is a mixture of what heng said 'feminine yet gentlemanly...' and because he exude energies of both yin and yang, this magnetic attraction fits your special lock. "
this special guy seem to be a gift sent from heaven... and know what? he's a capricorn as well.
My gf is a scorpio. care to study more on this and tell me more about your analysis?