How are guys realli like?
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I'm wondering which guy don't go for looks...apparently, if a girl's pretty, i'm damn sure that i'll like her....but if fat n ugly...will you like it???Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Straight Guys like girls , but most of them do not like
1) Girls who loves acting cute
2) tomboys
3) people with fake intentions
A guy will fall in love with any girl , be it lesbian or not , but he will feel safer ,
cause there's a lower tendency of "you" going into relationship with other guys.
Mostly middle-age men have mistresses , do not worry for now .
It tends to be a short term fling/one night stand , unless its a mistress from vietnam or china which requires him to give monthly "allowance" then it starts to become long term.
If that happens, bring him go for counselling , again , be careful , if he first started liking you because of "looks" , that means he's a person who goes for
"looks" , again , this increases the chances of having mistresses when he gets old. -
Hi I am new here also.Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
Go go ! complete with the girl. Guys dun really mind lesbian actually. -
Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks.
Sounds like a classic case. *Rub chin*
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Lesbian?
You might have discover... not entirely.
I do not know you; therefore I keep my own assumption. I have my own fair share of lesbian friends. And me being such a good jie mei (bleah), we end up being pretty good friends. As we spoke and I got to know them better, there could be thousand and one reasons why their free-will chose this path. However one trait never run away.
Astrologically speaking, whenever I scan a birth-chart check, the lesbian tendency is often demonstrated by a kind of love-deficiency shown by affliction in relationship/love-related areas of their life. In my studies, almost certain, such relationship have deep karmic roots hidden and to pursue them usually spell the same-effect as most other heavily afflicted relationship - unfulfilling, short-lived or worst, terrible emotional scars.
Although, a gay relationship is normal (A super long theory involving mascline and feminine energies), however, it's karmic by nature. Past cruelty in love brought about this present reflection: everything that happens on earth is part of nature and is in fact, normal. (Of course, not everyone would agree with me, especially if you are religious by personality. New-age idealogy are so often deemed as unorthodox) You are confused because the idea of loving a man is a complete new realm to you. This confusion is a battle of the soul and the body - you are a biologically-born female and your physical gender automatically attracts a biologically-born male. Your soul could be somewhat opposite of this flow, thus the lesbian tendency. However, the man you fell for is a mixture of what heng said 'feminine yet gentlemanly...' and because he exude energies of both yin and yang, this magnetic attraction fits your special lock.
You may have been with your steady for years, but ultimately if that what you are looking for? A companion-ship? There may be 'deeper' feelings involved, but eventually you can only revolve around this keyword. Economics speaks about price-ceiling - there is a ceiling to how far you could grow in this relationship.
He is attached currently and now the mixed feelings. So how? What to do?
Have you ever wondered... if you realise that his appearence could be a message/hint for you to attempt a BGR (namely boy-girl relationship)? You may or may not end up with him in a BGR, but if a man like him, could make a lesbian like you, fall in love - your previous lifestyle, mindset and attachment could probably evolve from this day onwards.
Allow me to enlighten you: you will likely to be hurt from trying out a BGR. But do not feel the pinch, retreat and give up trying for one. Alot of lesbians tried out a BGR, felt the cut, lost the relationship and ended back where they stopped and carried on previously.
It's silly.
When you are ready to love, Love will give you that chance.
You probably need sometime to research upon yourself. To see if you really fell in love with him or if your heart has a void and he merely fits in nicely.
P.S: Are you a Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces?
Cheers -
hey Elastigal!!Originally posted by Elastigal:thanks, but in kind of troubled state. you see, i've been with my gf for 4 years... and suddenly this year seem to be a 'tao hua' year... apart from having a liking for this guy, another guy seems to be after me.
I try to brush off the feeling for that guy, but when he's not around, i'll think of him.. and when he's around, i just wana look at him
really hope it's just a passing cloud... since i'll not get to see him for a week.
you know what? you seem to be speaking like my ex girlfriend. shes also like you, a les. until she met me, she was sharing her life with this girl. just like you, after she met me, more guys start to take fancy of her.
you know, she was fr a girl's sch and all she had met then were all ladies.den we got together. maybe the next part will interest you more- after we got together.
we were loving, and giving our love endlessly. it was inevitable that her x knew about us and she took it very very badly. we were usually in turmoil because of her. for her, cuz her x spent almost everyday with her last time, she expected me too but not all guys are so free.
no doubt we had great times with each other but her past slowly crept up with us. we went to diff jc - she was with her x while i was alone. though they quarrelled, they somehow managed to do certain things. that pissed me off.
i still feel for her but maybe its jus not her.
my advice to you is:
1) tell ur x bout him first and see her reaction
2) distance yourself fr her
3) try ur best to hide the truth fr him
4) love him only
all the best -
He's attached. Get over it.Originally posted by Elastigal:Hi all,
In fact, i'm new here. 1st time posting as well. Hope to have some really good response.
Does guys like lesbian girls? If a guy is attahed, wat are the chances that he will have a 'mistress'?
I like a guy who's attached, and i'm a lesbian... i'm in a state of confusion and alot of mix feelings. Hope to hear really good advise.... thanks. -
HAHA...short and sharpOriginally posted by Devil1976:He's attached. Get over it.
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the poor gal needs advice here, lets not hijack this thread n speculate about me.Originally posted by bladez87:shhh Heng@ is undercover sgforumite . he sometimes M sometimes F...this is confidential info. now tat u noe i gotta kill u
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Thanks SMAPLionHeart.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:I suggest you clarify it with your lesbian friends , lesbian and gay relationship ends up nowhere.
Straight Guys are ALL perverted and 50% are mentally unsound , but going steady with a girl you wouldn't have financial and physical security.
Got pros and cons , i suggest you go for a guy though.
However, i dun really agree with you on the financial and physical security part. my current gf is financially stable and is already planning OUR future together. and instead, it's me who keeps quiet when this subject is brought up. -
Yunhaier:
You are really a good analyser in astrology studies.
But I'm a capricorn. my gf also reads into astrology alot. she says that i'm not the least close to any typical capricorn. -giggles-
but nonetheless, you are very right about this part
"You are confused because the idea of loving a man is a complete new realm to you. This confusion is a battle of the soul and the body - you are a biologically-born female and your physical gender automatically attracts a biologically-born male. Your soul could be somewhat opposite of this flow, thus the lesbian tendency. However, the man you fell for is a mixture of what heng said 'feminine yet gentlemanly...' and because he exude energies of both yin and yang, this magnetic attraction fits your special lock. "
this special guy seem to be a gift sent from heaven... and know what? he's a capricorn as well.
My gf is a scorpio. care to study more on this and tell me more about your analysis? -
hi there, u are a guy yah? hmm... finally a guy's view on his les gf. haha... firstly,Originally posted by junh:hey Elastigal!!
you know what? you seem to be speaking like my ex girlfriend. shes also like you, a les. until she met me, she was sharing her life with this girl. just like you, after she met me, more guys start to take fancy of her.
you know, she was fr a girl's sch and all she had met then were all ladies.den we got together. maybe the next part will interest you more- after we got together.
we were loving, and giving our love endlessly. it was inevitable that her x knew about us and she took it very very badly. we were usually in turmoil because of her. for her, cuz her x spent almost everyday with her last time, she expected me too but not all guys are so free.
no doubt we had great times with each other but her past slowly crept up with us. we went to diff jc - she was with her x while i was alone. though they quarrelled, they somehow managed to do certain things. that pissed me off.
i still feel for her but maybe its jus not her.
my advice to you is:
1) tell ur x bout him first and see her reaction
2) distance yourself fr her
3) try ur best to hide the truth fr him
4) love him only
all the best
1) i'll not tell my gf about this guy, 'cos she'll over-react and prolly tie me up in the houes and forbid me to go work. LOL.
but i did sound her out before that there's another guy coming after me. she just laffed over it... well.. -shrug-
2) i cldn't distance myself from her more... i see her prolly once a week these days. and spend less tham 5 mins on the phone everyday...
3) will definitely not tell him that i'm gay... wouldn't know how they will take it. seems like he's quite ... hmm... uneasy with lesbians....
4) love him only? well, prolly not at this stage yet. just find a special feeling developing, tt's all... -
to the rest of the fellow pals,
really thanks much for the contribution. some of your comments will be 'sharp' , or discouraging, but that's what i need. true opinions... no worries, i'm always open to criticisms and comments... -
jus one question elastigal, is ur birthday in june?Originally posted by Elastigal:hi there, u are a guy yah? hmm... finally a guy's view on his les gf. haha... firstly,
1) i'll not tell my gf about this guy, 'cos she'll over-react and prolly tie me up in the houes and forbid me to go work. LOL.
but i did sound her out before that there's another guy coming after me. she just laffed over it... well.. -shrug-
2) i cldn't distance myself from her more... i see her prolly once a week these days. and spend less tham 5 mins on the phone everyday...
3) will definitely not tell him that i'm gay... wouldn't know how they will take it. seems like he's quite ... hmm... uneasy with lesbians....
4) love him only? well, prolly not at this stage yet. just find a special feeling developing, tt's all... -
If you are hotter than his current gf and can offer him better sex than I'm sure he'd go for you. I would go for you if i were him at least. I'll never stick to my gf if there are better girls out there that want me.
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I'm a lazy devil.Originally posted by M©+square:HAHA...short and sharp 
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Originally posted by Elastigal:Yunhaier:
You are really a good analyser in astrology studies.
But I'm a capricorn. my gf also reads into astrology alot. she says that i'm not the least close to any typical capricorn. -giggles-
but nonetheless, you are very right about this part
"You are confused because the idea of loving a man is a complete new realm to you. This confusion is a battle of the soul and the body - you are a biologically-born female and your physical gender automatically attracts a biologically-born male. Your soul could be somewhat opposite of this flow, thus the lesbian tendency. However, the man you fell for is a mixture of what heng said 'feminine yet gentlemanly...' and because he exude energies of both yin and yang, this magnetic attraction fits your special lock. "
this special guy seem to be a gift sent from heaven... and know what? he's a capricorn as well.
My gf is a scorpio. care to study more on this and tell me more about your analysis? -
A capricorn is not born in June...Originally posted by junh:jus one question elastigal, is ur birthday in june?
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u hvnt say u like guys or girls more
then i can tell u ans -
You are right about some things... It's idea that you not let your gf knows about anything before it even get anywhere near maturation... But if you don't tell her and let her find out, also equally bad (you should know her well enough by now...Originally posted by Elastigal:to the rest of the fellow pals,
really thanks much for the contribution. some of your comments will be 'sharp' , or discouraging, but that's what i need. true opinions... no worries, i'm always open to criticisms and comments... )... So 'die die' also probably no good end...
You have... A 'partial blindness' for power... Is that guy 'impressive' in certain aspects of life other than being a gentleman..?
More intimate question... Sex.. Is it a crucial thing to you? -
I also don't know why am I giving you the above reply...
SURFACE ANALYSIS says GIVE IT UP. It won't come to a good end. That's that. -
I'll be honest too. Based on the one fact that the guy is attached, I'd say, give up as well. Anyways I know PLU can be quite posessive. Can u imagine your gf going ape? esp when she finds out its a guy u're thinking about?
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Oic, lesbians getting married in singapore?Originally posted by Elastigal:Thanks SMAPLionHeart.
However, i dun really agree with you on the financial and physical security part. my current gf is financially stable and is already planning OUR future together. and instead, it's me who keeps quiet when this subject is brought up.
No wonder when i walk along the streets, i see gals holding hands -
Originally posted by Elastigal:Yunhaier:
You are really a good analyser in astrology studies.
But I'm a capricorn. my gf also reads into astrology alot. she says that i'm not the least close to any typical capricorn. -giggles-
but nonetheless, you are very right about this part
"You are confused because the idea of loving a man is a complete new realm to you. This confusion is a battle of the soul and the body - you are a biologically-born female and your physical gender automatically attracts a biologically-born male. Your soul could be somewhat opposite of this flow, thus the lesbian tendency. However, the man you fell for is a mixture of what heng said 'feminine yet gentlemanly...' and because he exude energies of both yin and yang, this magnetic attraction fits your special lock. "
this special guy seem to be a gift sent from heaven... and know what? he's a capricorn as well.
My gf is a scorpio. care to study more on this and tell me more about your analysis? Sigh, I lost my essay post when IE crashes.
Scorpio gf?
...possessive...sensitive...emotional...
P.S: Remember that time when she blew up due to that matter? (Whatever it means to you). The temper and violence that came along was almost lethal. You were gald that you survived it, din you? She is probably an extremist in love (Mars/Saturn in Scorpio), having to love and hate with equal intensity.
*** My advice is to avoid going for any relationship until your spiritual bondage is dissolved; namely lesbianism. You can opt to remain a lesbian (no issue about it), however the day when you have decide to sever your bonds thoroughly, is the day you could try for ordinary (lack of better term) relationship. I promise you it would be tough (especially if you have been steady with girls all these while) and the challenges that are thrown, will drown you.
Think about it, you could also chose a dual decision (trying to dissolve this bond, while having a BGR with another guy), however the high cost of this decision will likely to bleed ALL parties involved. Similar to victims unable to leave their past/ex/etc and accepting new relationship, end up having their emotional burden draining them further.
Cheers