I'm In Love with My Best Friend's Girl
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peng you qi, bu ke qi!
A man shall nt take his best fran's wife!
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in short, dun do anything 'dirty' to make them break up or snatch her over... it spoil ur name n if she willing 2 gif up ur best frd 4 u, nxt time she will do the same 2 u 4 other4 guys... when tt happen u not onli heart break u oso haf lost a best frd liao... juz look 4 other gers... theres more than 1 tree in the jungle
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It's better to error on the side of caution and not go for the girl. Like the others said, it's not like she's the only girl in this world.
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Stay clear of her.
In the first place, she should not be flirting with u when she is attached.
She may be seeking attention cos your best friend is not free.
If they are having problems, let them settle it first before u make a move for her.
This way, your best friend will not be angry with u cos they have already broken up. -
reminds me of a song- zhuo you wei nan.
zhou shou xie ta, you shou xie zhe ai~ -
Stop deluding yourself.Originally posted by Mervic:It was my happiest day, We spent Valentine's day together as my best friend was having guard duty on that night. She made chocolates for me, we went for a movie, dinner and I bought her flowers. I felt we were like a real couple. How i wish! I am so touched that she's willing to spend with me although it seems like I am a "spare" tyre. that night I sent her home, she slept on my shoulder in the bus and also during the movie show. I even lent her my hands as she complained it was cold in the cinema. Am I wrong ? I try to treat her as a normal friend celebrating Valentine's day together. My best friend knew about it but he react normal and thanked me for accompany his girl.
The only one you could kid is your own mind.
*** There is simply NO WAY you can treat her as a causal friend. You got to face it someday. Your feelings will gradually crystalise and harden, by then, you would probably reach a stage where you would openly declare a chase.
To leave things as it is, is to fulfill what I have said in the prior paragraph.
You make your decision now.
To ATTEMPT or DROP.
If you don't want to affect your friendship with your guy friend and chose to drop the decision to chase his gf, then do WHAT IS NECCESSARY to critically sever emotions you have for her. Cease SMS, phonecalls, MSN, meet-ups, etc.
If your heart rules over your mind, then forget about anything else.
P.S: From the day you fell in love with her, you will bound to lose something. Make that lost minimal, decisive and quick.
Cheers -
Thanks pal, let time tells it all.
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Hmm..all i can say is that u should never have flirted with her knowing that she is your BEST FRIENDS gf..ffs...! But..as some say..all is fair in love and war so are u ready to face the consequences... i have a few outcomes that i can forsee in this matter.
1) If you want to reall fall in love with her..you gotta just be hell brutal.. win her forcefully.. then take down your best friend once and for all..like kinda make him bleed in the gutter so he wont come back for your @$$. I mean..who in thier right mind say U..having a bestest good friend to steal ur gf ? i mean..u are gonna be pretty pissed..so i suppose u will do the same to him. Besides..i doubt u guys gonna be friends again. So might as well end it fast n brutal. i know.. girls can make buddies become enemies.But are u gonna be the one in the gutter ..or ur 'best' friend... U got girl.. got no friend. WIN LOSE situation.
2)Find another girl .... so u still got ur best friend ..u got a girl..he got a girl.. U guys can go prawn fishing together ,double date in movies ..no blood no gore.. no enemies.
WIN WIN situation. Well its up to u..i am pretty sure u will make the right decision.. i hope 
3)Tell girl stuffs about him , win her over..manipulate the situation so in a way she leaves him...u comfort ur best friend, comfort him.. lie to him saying u will 'sacrifice' ur time to take care of her.. besides, who to take care of his lost love then ur 'best' friend rite ? heh..heh..heh... VARYING sitatuion. 'Caution' -
basically, it depends on whether the girl is more important to you or you yourself is more important.
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yes, u are right. Perhaps I should find another girl to love.