Which is better? Single or Attached?

• SMAPLionHeart

  23 Mar 05, 15:50

  Whenever im single , i feel that i have more money for myself , more time to spend , can go whereever i want to without having any control , need not mind about any table manners , or about being gentlemanly
  
  Whenever im attached , i feel that there's someone there for me , i don't mind having a companion who feels the same as me , and having the special feeling , i love treating her well and she loves treating me well..
  
  I still don't know whether should i start or stay single.
• InnoHippo

  23 Mar 05, 15:54

  If in doubt, stay single
• poon cho tang

  23 Mar 05, 15:57

  the single wants to be attached
  
  the attached wants to be single
  
  the married wants to be divorced
  
  conundrums
  
• fabiaN__

  23 Mar 05, 16:38

  I also think you should stay single. You aren't sure of yourself!
  
  So if you head for a BGR soon, I think... it might be just for the sake of being attached. Then you'd be digging your own grave.
• commonsense

  23 Mar 05, 16:48

  cohabit lor
• edi_77777

  23 Mar 05, 16:55

  haiz... when u single u wanna be attached... but when u haf a partner u wanna freedom... u nvr noe wot u wan
• fabiaN__

  23 Mar 05, 17:10

  Originally posted by edi_77777:

  haiz... when u single u wanna be attached... but when u haf a partner u wanna freedom... u nvr noe wot u wan

  This is very true. But I always think it's also true that when you're unsure of what you want, you should always remain single.
  
  Going into a r/s when you're unsure, is being unfair to the other party. Very unfair. Heh heh.
• keuriseudo

  23 Mar 05, 17:13

  Dun stay single.
  Dun stay attached.
  
  Stay Attingle.
• edi_77777

  23 Mar 05, 17:20

  y not haf tons of female frds n flings so u can enjoy n stay single at the same time??
• edi_77777

  23 Mar 05, 17:23

  y not haf tons of female frds n flings so u can enjoy n stay single at the same time??
• edi_77777

  23 Mar 05, 17:23

  y not haf tons of female frds n flings so u can enjoy n stay single at the same time??
• SMAPLionHeart

  23 Mar 05, 17:29

  Originally posted by edi_77777:

  y not haf tons of female frds n flings so u can enjoy n stay single at the same time??

  Im not that kind of person
• edi_77777

  23 Mar 05, 17:45

  then keep looking n tink wot u wan loh... sometimes the harder u wanna get attached the more unlikely u find the one... but when u gif up hope liao ur love will come juz when u least expect it
• Devil1976

  23 Mar 05, 18:20

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Whenever im single , i feel that i have more money for myself , more time to spend , can go whereever i want to without having any control , need not mind about any table manners , or about being gentlemanly
  
  Whenever im attached , i feel that there's someone there for me , i don't mind having a companion who feels the same as me , and having the special feeling , i love treating her well and she loves treating me well..
  
  I still don't know whether should i start or stay single.

  If ya don't know, what makes you think we'll know any better?
• technoboy

  23 Mar 05, 21:26

  Hmm... Both got their advantages and disadvantages....
  
  As long as you've found the right one... Just go fr it
• the_don

  23 Mar 05, 22:35

  for some, it's better to be single.
  for others, it's better to be attached.
  
  know wat u really want and go for it ya?
• starblue

  24 Mar 05, 09:55

  if you're single, enjoy your singlehood.
  if you're attached, enjoy your attachment.
  
  don't keep looking for greener grass. you might end up gobbling that piece of sh/t if you're not looking where you're eating.
• tan_william

  24 Mar 05, 11:06

  Can choose to remain single or attached one??
  you mean that even if you are attached this girl that you know will be the love of your life..but at that point of time in your life you decided staying single is good then you will let her go??
  or if you feel being attached is good then you will just find any girl that comes along in your life??and when you feel its better to remain single then you breakup with her??
  
  sighz..
• jusgal

  24 Mar 05, 11:14

  Originally posted by starblue:

  if you're single, enjoy your singlehood.
  if you're attached, enjoy your attachment.
  
  don't keep looking for greener grass. you might end up gobbling that piece of sh/t if you're not looking where you're eating.

  maybe ...
• gerrykoh

  24 Mar 05, 11:16

  If u find the right one, then it is wonderful to be attached.
• M©+square

  24 Mar 05, 11:35

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Whenever im single , i feel that i have more money for myself , more time to spend , can go whereever i want to without having any control , need not mind about any table manners , or about being gentlemanly
  
  Whenever im attached , i feel that there's someone there for me , i don't mind having a companion who feels the same as me , and having the special feeling , i love treating her well and she loves treating me well..
  
  I still don't know whether should i start or stay single.

  When you have it. The yearning to be silent and be at peace will be in your thoughts.
  When you're alone. There will be a strong desire to have a companion to listen and laugh and cry with you. To share a common identity.
  
  You're feeling lonely at this moment. Therefore this thought hovers.
  My guess is you should be quite young. Nothing wrong with this feeling because all of us have been thru it at least once in our lifetime.
  
  Human live with this contridiction because they could never be satisfied.
  They will constantly think of greener pastures look there.
  
  Interestingly....very interestingly, you seemed to miss those activities you missed doing and those feelings that made you feel good;
  Instead of truly realising at what really matters in your life.
  
  Maybe i'm wrong. I'm eager to hear from you again before i'll go any further?
  
  Cheers
• starblue

  24 Mar 05, 22:59

  on the contrary, i think Smaplion's rather old, maybe in his late 20s or early thirties... the pangs of loneliness setting in as the biological clock ticks away blissfully. Smap, clarify with us.
• foxwalk

  25 Mar 05, 19:12

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Whenever im single , i feel that i have more money for myself , more time to spend , can go whereever i want to without having any control , need not mind about any table manners , or about being gentlemanly
  
  Whenever im attached , i feel that there's someone there for me , i don't mind having a companion who feels the same as me , and having the special feeling , i love treating her well and she loves treating me well..
  
  I still don't know whether should i start or stay single.

  How happy when you're with the person, the feeling of valididation, the feeling of being accepted for who you are, appreciated for who you are... that will make the difference. Of oucrse, in some relationships, we're better off being single.
• mach10

  25 Mar 05, 22:02

  zhuo ren zhen mao dun . . .
  
  its more impt to know where u going first, den trying to get there fast...
  
  when u got no gf now... stay single til u ready lor. so simple.
  
  otherwise u be like someone who complain tt their woman climbing on top of their head, can't control relationship... blah blah blah! den come flood the forum...
  
  
• louis_aloysius

  27 Mar 05, 22:01

  Originally posted by fabiaN__:

  I also think you should stay single. You aren't sure of yourself!
  
  So if you head for a BGR soon, I think... it might be just for the sake of being attached. Then you'd be digging your own grave.

  same sentiments here.. unless you are sure of yourself!