Which is better? Single or Attached?
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Single and Attached... hard to define.....
new guy here... -
Welcome to AA and enjoy your stay here.Originally posted by SinGaporGuy:Single and Attached... hard to define..... new guy here...
Hope to see more post from you.
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would you be happier remain single as you grow older, lonelier and weaker each day, so as to have more money and time to yourself and the boundless freedom to do whatever you want?Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Whenever im single , i feel that i have more money for myself , more time to spend , can go whereever i want to without having any control , need not mind about any table manners , or about being gentlemanly
Whenever im attached , i feel that there's someone there for me , i don't mind having a companion who feels the same as me , and having the special feeling , i love treating her well and she loves treating me well..
I still don't know whether should i start or stay single.
is kicking your bad habit once and for all (whether you are attached or not) better than watching your behaviour or hiding your bad habits when you are attached, for they will be revealed after marriage?
love is not only about loving the person only but also the love of living with him/her.
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Dear SMAPLionHeart,
I agree wif u tt single days can be so much fun if u noe how to enjoy them (except the part abt No table manners)
I oso agree tt being in a r'ship & loving someone is an exceptionally wonderful feeling.
Whether u choose to stay single or enter into a r'ship depends on how ready u think u r. 2 pple may like each other enuff to date, but if u're Not ready for a r'ship, & u dun feel up to the effort of giving a r'ship a try, it's best to remain single.
Why Not? Since u noe how to enjoy it : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Whenever im single , i feel that i have more money for myself , more time to spend , can go whereever i want to without having any control , need not mind about any table manners , or about being gentlemanly
Whenever im attached , i feel that there's someone there for me , i don't mind having a companion who feels the same as me , and having the special feeling , i love treating her well and she loves treating me well..
I still don't know whether should i start or stay single. -
Aiyoyo, I wonder who tt SOMEBODY is
FeowFeowOriginally posted by mach10:zhuo ren zhen mao dun . . .
its more impt to know where u going first, den trying to get there fast...
when u got no gf now... stay single til u ready lor. so simple.
otherwise u be like someone who complain tt their woman climbing on top of their head, can't control relationship... blah blah blah! den come flood the forum... -
Yee?
When were u made moderator???
Congrats congrats *shakes MC's hand*
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:Welcome to AA and enjoy your stay here.
Hope to see more post from you.
Cheers -
Is this really within our control? :]Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:I still don't know whether should i start or stay single.
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*shake back* Thank you thank you. .... *scratch head*Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yee?
When were u made moderator???
Congrats congrats *shakes MC's hand*
FeowFeow
Actually when i got back on night. And just saw my nick was Modded. -
Grass is always greener.
hahaa.. attached but i still get to turn heads without feeling like he's gonna punch out everyone who looks at me. -
Waaah, got like tt meh???
I oso hope next time I log in, I become EXTRA HIGHLY PAID mod
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:*shake back* Thank you thank you. .... *scratch head*
Actually when i got back on night. And just saw my nick was Modded. -
FAT HOPE. If your career is to be a 'moderator', you can FORGET about that...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Waaah, got like tt meh???
I oso hope next time I log in, I become EXTRA HIGHLY PAID mod
FeowFeow
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Eh, ev. time I come up wif suitable advice, I think v. hard leh, surely there shd be compensation for my potential wrinkles & potential white hair???
Alternatively, a Kose facial package & Jean Yip Oxygen Hair treatment package per mth will do juz fine
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:FAT HOPE. If your career is to be a 'moderator', you can FORGET about that... -
Then you shouldn't be thinking too hard...?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Eh, ev. time I come up wif suitable advice, I think v. hard leh, surely there shd be compensation for my potential wrinkles & potential white hair???
Alternatively, a Kose facial package & Jean Yip Oxygen Hair treatment package per mth will do juz fine
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V. difficult for airhead Not to think hard before giving advice tt doesn't insult the intelligence of others wat
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:Then you shouldn't be thinking too hard...? -
Hi,
newby here :-)
interesting question....so i can't help to kapo kapo
there is always pros and cons to everything and the pros and cons can differ for every individual....so u just hv to weigh wat u deem pros and cons...
being attached (just courtship) is good...esp at the beginning....cos its all excitement knowing someone new....but as time pass...when u no longer can control not revealing too much of yr true (bad habits) self...that is the test....
and revealing the 'true' and maintening relationship is the more impt part to see if the 'two hands clapped' well.....
Like many mentioned here....if you can find the 'right' one then get attached is good.....then again.....u need the rite attitude towards a relationship in order
the rite one.
make sense??
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In my opinion, if you are attached and feel like being single again, or having the freedom you once had, then, it gives me a feeling that you are not happy with your relationship!
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at times when u do feel lonely.. u yearn to be attached..
at times when u gt tied down so much.. u wan to b freee
to b or not to B