stuck between 2 women

• limahkow

  2 Apr 05, 19:26

  decide whether you want a happy family or betray your family for another woman wld the second woman believe you thorougly, she wld think "if you can do it to your ex wife and you have a kid, wld you do that to me also?"
  
  how come you slept with her? couldnt you control yourself
• limahkow

  2 Apr 05, 19:30

  i wonder how then you can consider betrayal in a marriage, sex is definitely a betrayal to the marriage but how about a kiss and a hug ? does it constitute a betrayal of the marriage
  
  can anyone help me with this question?
• kaobeikaobu

  2 Apr 05, 21:00

  i think you are just bluffing, shanben.
  you are just a sad soul...i pity u.
• Yunhaier

  3 Apr 05, 18:26

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Why esp me leh? *puzzled*
  
  Don't lie tat la...you want everybody to know is it.

  See you like super LL...
  
  Cheers
• tastybanana

  18 Apr 05, 15:22

  Originally posted by Ding Shanben:

  currently i'm married with a daughter less than 1 yr old and i had another gf outside whose name is Mona. my wife and i had been together for abt 18 yrs liao and kinda tired of her due to many factors. should i divorce my wife and be with Mona, or should i maintain my family and have a mistress outside? I know my wife kinda know i have another women outside cuz few night i did not come home liao, i was sleeping at Mona's house. she is keeping quiet i think i will tell her face to face later that i've another women outside.

  Do allow me to share my comment on ur story hope u dun mind for it's just 2 cent of my though..
  
  You are a selfish guy yeah.. 18 years.. she had been with u faithfully, taking care of u, being with u through thick and thin. Why did u marry her in the first place? did u put yourself in her shoe? what if she had another man outside, never come home and tell u one day "hey let's divorce coz I love ah meng alot and ah meng love me alot, thanks for the 18 years of being with me"
  
  I think feel that you should leave Mona and get back to ur wife.. who's know one fine day your Mona might love another guy(married) so much to leave u also.. coz I always believe in retriubtion(dunno how to spell)..
  
  Last but not least, how about ur daughter? have u spare a though for her? what will she feel? daddy got another lover and dun wan mummy already.. will she be able to grow up healthy(mentally)? I myself had grow up in such a family so I will understand how it look like...
  
  Last but not least do consider seriously.. dun b.coz Mona is young, had a sexy body etc...... all these consider factor will however be lost when he get older around your wife age though I assume she(Mona) is younger prettier than your present wife..
  
  Actually me personnel feel that marriage should be full of respect, responsible, mutaual trust and of course love.. Why make someone suffer at ur expense esp when she is someone who have stood by your side faithfully for 18 years taking care of daughter etc..
  
  anyway final decision is yours..