If it doesn't work out, take it easy...Originally posted by Steph84:i am so shattered.. i think i really depend too much on my bf.. somehow my life revolve around him?
every little thing affects me so much.. i used to be non-chalent, guys only.. this one dun have got other guys... how can i go back to my past life?
I need a life man.
why is it that i allowed myself to totally absorb him into my life? i really regret it. i dunno why the hell are there BGR in this world.. love can be such a wonderful feeling.. it can sux big time too.
Reorganise your life?Originally posted by Steph84:i am so shattered.. i think i really depend too much on my bf.. somehow my life revolve around him?
every little thing affects me so much.. i used to be non-chalent, guys only.. this one dun have got other guys... how can i go back to my past life?
I need a life man.
why is it that i allowed myself to totally absorb him into my life? i really regret it. i dunno why the hell are there BGR in this world.. love can be such a wonderful feeling.. it can sux big time too.
Learn to let go and move on. Time will heal all wounds.Originally posted by Steph84:i am so shattered.. i think i really depend too much on my bf.. somehow my life revolve around him?
every little thing affects me so much.. i used to be non-chalent, guys only.. this one dun have got other guys... how can i go back to my past life?
I need a life man.
why is it that i allowed myself to totally absorb him into my life? i really regret it. i dunno why the hell are there BGR in this world.. love can be such a wonderful feeling.. it can sux big time too.
yah.. he also said i shouldnt rely on him so much from now on. i shall do just that.. will try to exercise my self control.Originally posted by ha8n:take a step at a time:
first day just try not calling him
second day,mayb sms him only..
the rest is easy
Think you're only 21...?Originally posted by Steph84:yah.. he also said i shouldnt rely on him so much from now on. i shall do just that.. will try to exercise my self control.
Anyway, frens all got own bfs, own life... contact msn n sms now... seems lk the older u become, the more frens drift apart..
also, the older i become, the less out-going n sociable i've become.![]()
i see ur posts.. dun worry..Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:most of the things that can be said have been said..
so i shall offer the most offered commodity here..
friendship.
Plenty of decent peeps around here that can be friends.. if u will u could look around... u should be able to find a few outings... its that first step to making friends.. and its urs to take
o...k...Originally posted by Steph84:i see ur posts.. dun worry..
You want to be acknowledged?Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:eh devil u put ur forum to perm ignore my posts is it... how come i post what.. it is NEVER seen nor heard nor acknowledged de
zzzzzzzzz
dun think i spout nonsense ALL the time oso mah...![]()
Troubled people sometimes don't reply to everything... It'll just confuse them further...Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:o...k...
Let's get the pieces together. You depend too much on your bf. But how are you relying too much on him? Financially? Or you're always spending time with him, day and night? You find that this relationship is changing you into something you do not desire? You want to love, yet you want to experience many other things. He has already mentioned that you should not rely too much on him. You want to get back to your friends, but they are busy with their relationships as well. So you find it difficult to resort to any other activities other than spending time with ur bf.Originally posted by Steph84:i am so shattered.. i think i really depend too much on my bf.. somehow my life revolve around him?
every little thing affects me so much.. i used to be non-chalent, guys only.. this one dun have got other guys... how can i go back to my past life?
I need a life man.
why is it that i allowed myself to totally absorb him into my life? i really regret it. i dunno why the hell are there BGR in this world.. love can be such a wonderful feeling.. it can sux big time too.
Since you mentioned that you really love him, it will be difficult on your part to leave him. Why don't you give the relationship more time, give your bf to prove his worth and that he can change for you. Let him know how you feel, talk alilttle about the future and hear what he says and comment on those as well. Do heed my suggestion. You do not have to leave him immediately, but at the same time, your options are open, and you can see what is it in other guys that is missing of him. Mayb a new guy will come along, and has better prospects and makes you feel just as comfortable with him, you'll never know.Originally posted by Steph84:hi all
I see too much traits in my ex in my current bf.. traits like not serious abt work, no aim no goals in life, disorganised.. not steadfast in achieving his goals... only empty talk...
all these traits were wad made me so resolute to leave my ex in the past.
I dunno whether to leave my bf or not. cos i love him.. but i do not want to be with such a guy for life.. no security at all.
I wished he'd change.. but i know its hard.. its just innate in him that his character is like that.
i guess i just need to courage to leave him... indeed, to seek greener pastures...
but really, i love him. feel comfortable with him n all.. but it is just so sickening to know that wad happened in the past is happening again now.![]()
If we love the way we always do, we will get the love we always get.Originally posted by Steph84:hi all
I see too much traits in my ex in my current bf.. traits like not serious abt work, no aim no goals in life, disorganised.. not steadfast in achieving his goals... only empty talk...
all these traits were wad made me so resolute to leave my ex in the past.
I dunno whether to leave my bf or not. cos i love him.. but i do not want to be with such a guy for life.. no security at all.
I wished he'd change.. but i know its hard.. its just innate in him that his character is like that.
i guess i just need to courage to leave him... indeed, to seek greener pastures...
but really, i love him. feel comfortable with him n all.. but it is just so sickening to know that wad happened in the past is happening again now.![]()
well.. this is not the first thread that it has happened..Originally posted by M©+square:You want to be acknowledged?
And may i ask. What's the point?
Not being acknowledged doesn't mean you're sprouting or posting nonsense.
Dev, answer our normalbOi please?![]()