Originally posted by ivan-jz:
Let's get the pieces together. You depend too much on your bf. But how are you relying too much on him? Financially? Or you're always spending time with him, day and night? You find that this relationship is changing you into something you do not desire? You want to love, yet you want to experience many other things. He has already mentioned that you should not rely too much on him. You want to get back to your friends, but they are busy with their relationships as well. So you find it difficult to resort to any other activities other than spending time with ur bf.
[b]Moi Suggestion: I would suggest you call up your friends, and organise some activities with ur friends along with their partners. Going out in only a pair will restrict the level of activity and often than not, you'll end up in the same routine over and over again. Hence, by inviting your friends and their partners over lunch, dinner or a movie, it will allow all of you to have a more interesting and intelligence conversation and interaction. And in this way, you can get to meet the other guys(ur friends' partners).
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Actually, financial wise... he depends on me more...
I admit by nature i am rather anti social.. it takes long for me to open up n talk freely with someone.
I think time will be able to make me rely on him less... cos i've done it before..
