jus my stupid bf and me..
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How are you feeling now?Originally posted by potatostick:hi. uh ok. my bf and i are studyin in the same school but different class. we are geog students, and only that subject's period then we same class. and in my OWN form class (nt geog class), i've got a few close GUY friends.. i always hang around with them.. my bf doesnt like me to be with them.. but i don like to be alone, and im quite talkative too.. my best girl pal jus transferred sch becos of some reasons, then those guys in my class are the only ones i can get along well with..
sighs.. and one of the guys, IM REALLY REALLY close to him. i have never ever harboured any thoughts on him before. but everyone sees us as a couple i dunno why. my bf sometimes get pissed becos of this too. but the 2 of them are close frens. i dunno why he doesnt trust me with him.
jus yesterday, we had geog lesson.. my bf's class hasn't arrived yet, my class reached first. i was talkin to my closest guy fren.. then my bf came in, i swear i really didnt see him!! so i jus carried on chattin with that guy fren of mine. awhile later when i saw my bf, he gave me the "sighs-chatting-with-guys-again" look.
later that night, we smsed and quarreled bcos of this. he said i was unreasonable, cos whenever i see him with girls around, i would get pissed and stuffs. yea i admit im quite sensitive.. but the girls he always talk to.. one of them used to be his EX. im jus after her. how can i not worry?? somemore my bf got bad reputation one.. he's a well known flirt.. sighs. and when he sees me with guys around, its "only friends"..
then during our sms quarrel, he said he needed to cool down, and asked me not to contact him for the next few days, or even a whole week. i was really sad.. and angry.. perhaps both. i dunno how to describe.. sighs.. i really don get it.. whats there to cool?
i couldnt sleep.. jus kept cryin for the night.. i cant help but kept thinking that this r/s is really going to end.. he used to msg me every morning.. but i didnt receive his sms this morning.. sighs.. i wanted to msg him sayin how much i miss him, but he said not to contact him..
after school today, he msged me and said he couldnt take it anymore; he missed me alot and he apologised. i was so damn happy. i tot everything is startin to look good again, and we could be as loving as the past.. but now his smses seems to be so cold.. i was thinking if we couldnt be like the past.. whats the point of being together..
but.. after yesterday.. a whole night of quarrelling.. a whole day nvr receive his smses.. i felt really lost and sad.. i cried in class.. i cant lose him.. i don wanna lose him.. but i really dunno wat to do now.. i know i still do love him..
we're both very sensitive.. but i really really do get along well with guys much better.. the girls in my class are soooo bitchy. there's only a few girls whom i get better along with.. but we dont have so much to talk about.. sighs.. shld i really give up my frens becos of him?? or if he still cant accept it.. then.. i guess thats it?? sighs..
sighs, there's alot more to our r/s.. if i continue, it'll be so long.. lol. i'll stop here. sorry.. maybe my story quite boring or childish.. but.. i really dunno who else i can turn to.. but only to rant out everything here.. sorry..
No. It's often not worth to give up on friends for your partner unless there're very valid reasons. Especially now that your relationship is so unstable and you're still rather young.... Who knows you might really need your friends one day...? -
the problem is not with your boyfriend,
jealousy means he really loves you...
will you be ok if you saw him talking to girls... and will you accept it if he said like what you said? he only has girls to be his friends.. cause all the boys are %^**&^* ??
that's only about you not about him... if you don't want him to be like that just don't be like that.. it's time to tell your friends where they belong... , sometimes it would be wise to choose one thing -
guys.. girls.. everyone........ i've been taught a lesson.... a hard one......... my bf and i jus broke up...... he doesnt msg me or call me anymore since last night......... i was on the phone with him in the noon while i was playin my com... he asked what was i doing....... so i said "msn loh, chattin with Kel (his close fren also)..." my fren here, Kel (fake name).. he fallen for a girl.. its his first time.. and he ask me what shld he do and stuffs... den i advise him loh... thats all....
den my bf kinda show attitude... its like... he jus keep sayin dunno or onli answer back yes or no.......... im so pissed.. i told him if he's busy.. hang up and do ur stuffs.. he said don wan.... den theres this silence on the phone........ i couldnt stand it... so i told him the same thing and said bye.. he replied bye and jus hung up... that's his last call....
den i sms ask him what happened.. why he liddat... he replied "aiya nothing lah.. ignore me k.... i busy so wont reply you liao... bye... haix.." i was so startled... i reali dunno what i do wrong again.... den i asked.. and he replied.. askin me don ever mention guys' names in front of him... sighs.... followed by alot of arguements.... im reali sad...... i reali did nothing.. hais... i know its my fault..... i hate it when he's with his ex... cos they two same class ma.. sighs... but its ok.. i already told him i trusted him....
i know im unreasonable.. ask him stay away from girls, yet im always seen with guys... hais.... den i couldnt sleep last night.... i sent him one LONG LONG SMS... consists of 6parts that kind.. i told him im really sorry... i said i know its my fault... i shouldnt get so sensitive.... hais.. and lots of miss ya and stuffs... but he didnt reply........ he everyday sure wake up at 6am one.. no matter holidays or sch days... den today i woke up at 7..... i hope to see "messages received" thing... but.....nothing was there............... i couldnt believe it... i don wan it to end jus like that.........
i sent him another 2 smses.... till now........ he hasnt reply........... i guess he wont reply forever le......... hais......... what should i do now.... i miss him so.............. i love him lots........................ i hate myself............. -
i really love him......... i miss him alot........ im sure he loves me tooo....... jus that the way i act or my character... is pissing him off... he always give in to me one.... each time i bad mood or wat.. i start an argument.... in the end, he's the one who apologise......... sighs........ i dunno what the fark is wrong with me......... im so pissed with myself now... i know im the cause of this.......... but i don wanna lose him...............
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Are you sure the relationship is confirmed over? Refusing to respond may not necessarily mean he wants to break up with you. He may just be angry and does not want to say anything he may regret later when he's still "hot" in the head.
Call him, meet him, talk to him. If he refuses, give him some time to cool down first and then try again. Sinking yourself into this state of self-pity is not going to solve any problems. -
so young thinking talk about relationship.
both u n yr bf are not mature enough to handle it.
study first lah.
relationship can come later when u r more mature in yr thinking n yr actions -
Study first!Originally posted by Kenashi:so young thinking talk about relationship.
both u n yr bf are not mature enough to handle it.
study first lah.
relationship can come later when u r more mature in yr thinking n yr actions -
exam coming liao...Originally posted by potatostick:i really love him......... i miss him alot........ im sure he loves me tooo....... jus that the way i act or my character... is pissing him off... he always give in to me one.... each time i bad mood or wat.. i start an argument.... in the end, he's the one who apologise......... sighs........ i dunno what the fark is wrong with me......... im so pissed with myself now... i know im the cause of this.......... but i don wanna lose him...............
you gotta put all this er nu si qing aside...
gotta try not to let it affect you ok...
you still young... got long way ahead of you...
perhaps the ONE has not appeared yet...
work hard for exams first ok...
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uh ok.. thanks for all the advices, pple.. really.. *hugx*
and yeah.. glad to say we're both back together again.. damn happy.. cant lose him le.. feel so lost already last night..
and uh.. again.. really a BIG THANK YOU to you all.. yes and i'll concentrate on my studies too.. -
Once my girlfriend gave me a poster. It read like this...
If you love something, set it free..
If it comes back, it's yours.
If it doesn't, it's never was....
take a cue here. All the best ...
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You are welcome...Originally posted by potatostick:uh ok.. thanks for all the advices, pple.. really.. *hugx*
and yeah.. glad to say we're both back together again.. damn happy.. cant lose him le.. feel so lost already last night..
and uh.. again.. really a BIG THANK YOU to you all.. yes and i'll concentrate on my studies too.. 
Originally posted by potatostick:i really love him......... i miss him alot........ im sure he loves me tooo....... jus that the way i act or my character... is pissing him off... he always give in to me one.... each time i bad mood or wat.. i start an argument.... in the end, he's the one who apologise......... sighs........ i dunno what the fark is wrong with me......... im so pissed with myself now... i know im the cause of this.......... but i don wanna lose him...............