initiating conversation with gals

• CoolMyth

  8 Apr 05, 20:07

  a few questions here hor:
  
  i)what kind of situation will the gal feel "not shocked" if suddenly someone she don't know of go up to her and talk to her?
  
  ii)does location affects?
  
  iii)does it matter she got friends around her at that time?
  
  if i think of anymore i post again.
• dzylim

  8 Apr 05, 20:13

  thicken ur skin and walk to her and just say "hi, i am so and so. can i get to know u?"
• CoolMyth

  8 Apr 05, 20:16

  got think of that, but i'm only average looking, average height, scarly bad impression of me and run away how....?
• CoolMyth

  8 Apr 05, 20:17

  anyone got any "success" stories so that i can learn a bit?
• vito_corleone

  8 Apr 05, 20:18

  donald trump?
• CoolMyth

  8 Apr 05, 20:19

  please lah, i'm serious, okay lah maybe not so serious, but i swear i'm not some clone of some loser.
• vito_corleone

  8 Apr 05, 20:21

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  please lah, i'm serious, okay lah maybe not so serious, but i swear i'm not some clone of some loser.

  i mean THE REAL mr trump not the sgforums loser clone.
• smoke

  8 Apr 05, 21:05

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  a few questions here hor:
  
  i)what kind of situation will the gal feel "not shocked" if suddenly someone she don't know of go up to her and talk to her?
  
  ii)does location affects?
  
  iii)does it matter she got friends around her at that time?
  
  if i think of anymore i post again.

  Hi CoolMyth,
  
  Few things to take note, location does matter. Best is that you have to catch her without her friends around. Sometimes, you may not know if her friends have some other intentions (for guys) and it may backfire on you.
  
  You just need to walk right up to her and say, "Hi, I feel you've got a great smile and you seem like an interesting person. My name's ****** and I would like to have your number to know you better."
  
  Sounds simple right? The trick is to make it sound as if you couldn't care less if she rejected you or not. Whether you are of average height or average looks is insignificant. If you can be confident when you talk, you have already won half the battle.
  
  If she gives you some funny reason like she's attached, she don't give her number to strangers, gently bow out of the situation and don't pester. It shows that she isn't interested in you so just move on. Good luck!
  
  SMokE
  
  P.S. Oh, if she asks for your number instead of giving you hers, prepare for nights of misery, guessing when she's going to call. If she refuses to give you her number but asks for your number instead, ask her for her e-mail add or MSN. At least you'd be in control of the situation.
• color ghost

  8 Apr 05, 22:34

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  a few questions here hor:
  
  i)what kind of situation will the gal feel "not shocked" if suddenly someone she don't know of go up to her and talk to her?
  
  ii)does location affects?
  
  iii)does it matter she got friends around her at that time?
  
  if i think of anymore i post again.

  hmmmm
  
  i) like wat someo ne else said la...u talk like very li suo dang ran they might be spell bound by ur initial friendliness (i one time got one person i talk to hor even ask....where do i noe u from ah?)
  
  me: u dunno me...i just talking to u cos u look like da type ver approachable and firendly.
  
  her: oh? o.O! [she give me her number..real one..i call to check.. ]
  
  ii) location dun affect. i had asked numbers from all sort of places. got one is becos she sit beside me on bus.
  
  but i got kena dua before la....so far i ask 10 times 9 will give number...and then 2 of them are fake numbers...so i still get 7 numbers.
  
  iii) yes...please la..approach a lone girl leh. her fren around mafan.
• color ghost

  8 Apr 05, 22:35

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  got think of that, but i'm only average looking, average height, scarly bad impression of me and run away how....?

  most ppl also average average wat. unless u look hideous...then dun spoil da gal appetite la.. tell me where she is i ask for u.
• SinGaporGuy

  8 Apr 05, 23:25

  I also wan to ask.. hw.. always saw her on bus onli.... never exactly seat beside her b4..sometimes seat infront or behind her.... okie I am looking fr the ger who took bus 960 from BP CC busstop ard 830-840 everyday......and i thin took till suntec or marine there.....Saw heronce at bp plaza... she was waiting fr 920 bus hm.. carrying ta bata plastic bag.. so if u r that ger.. msg me.. i wan to noe UUUUUUU
• SGpork

  8 Apr 05, 23:26

  hmm dontknow..
  
  cos i dont talk..
  
  
• SinGaporGuy

  8 Apr 05, 23:26

  I also wan to ask.. hw.. always saw her on bus onli.... never exactly seat beside her b4..sometimes seat infront or behind her.... okie I am looking fr the ger who took bus 960 from BP CC busstop ard 830-840 everyday......and i thin took till suntec or marine there.....Saw heronce at bp plaza... she was waiting fr 920 bus hm.. carrying ta bata plastic bag.. so if u r that ger.. msg me.. i wan to noe UUUUUUU
• SGpork

  8 Apr 05, 23:27

  Originally posted by SinGaporGuy:

  I also wan to ask.. hw.. always saw her on bus onli.... never exactly seat beside her b4..sometimes seat infront or behind her.... okie I am looking fr the ger who took bus 960 from BP CC busstop ard 830-840 everyday......and i thin took till suntec or marine there.....Saw heronce at bp plaza... she was waiting fr 920 bus hm.. carrying ta bata plastic bag.. so if u r that ger.. msg me.. i wan to noe UUUUUUU

  nice try..
  
  slowly wait..for ur msg..
• color ghost

  8 Apr 05, 23:40

  Originally posted by SinGaporGuy:

  I also wan to ask.. hw.. always saw her on bus onli.... never exactly seat beside her b4..sometimes seat infront or behind her.... okie I am looking fr the ger who took bus 960 from BP CC busstop ard 830-840 everyday......and i thin took till suntec or marine there.....Saw heronce at bp plaza... she was waiting fr 920 bus hm.. carrying ta bata plastic bag.. so if u r that ger.. msg me.. i wan to noe UUUUUUU

  next time u see her la....approach her liao.
  
  like..." u noe i always got see u around wor.....u also working at _____ or living at ________
  
  spastic right? deosnt matter. she dunno u dats y even veri spastic opener she will most likely HUH?! unless she run away from u u can talk more liao. if u can talk...she will forget what u say wan...always like dis.
• usck

  9 Apr 05, 14:09

  i like to share my experience. hehe..
  
  me get to know my present gf during ITP. it was a few days later after i work then i saw her..
  after which, when there is a break, i will go ard and walk walk to see her. this continues for a few weeks. haha
  then the day for me to leave the company is coming soon..i so kan cheong!! i thot to myself: ' Cb lah!, if i nvr get to know her then very regret wan.'
  
  then...during the last few days in my work, i stand outside where she work...she comes out! kan cheong again..then i pretend nth happened, go back to where i work.
  
  then really bth liao, the next 2 days, i wait again.. this time round, i pick up my courage!! and ask her whats her name.
  
  hehe..thats how i got my present gf
• CoolMyth

  9 Apr 05, 16:03

  so i must have "da" lar.....
  
  this is going to be hard
  
  
• color ghost

  9 Apr 05, 16:05

  Originally posted by usck:

  i like to share my experience. hehe..
  
  me get to know my present gf during ITP. it was a few days later after i work then i saw her..
  after which, when there is a break, i will go ard and walk walk to see her. this continues for a few weeks. haha
  then the day for me to leave the company is coming soon..i so kan cheong!! i thot to myself: ' Cb lah!, if i nvr get to know her then very regret wan.'
  
  then...during the last few days in my work, i stand outside where she work...she comes out! kan cheong again..then i pretend nth happened, go back to where i work.
  
  then really bth liao, the next 2 days, i wait again.. this time round, i pick up my courage!! and ask her whats her name.
  
  hehe..thats how i got my present gf

  wahaha...success story wor.
  
  i met my previous gal "thru a fren" wan.....my fren was performing in some concert meh...so die die wan me peng-chang la. so hor turn out da chiobu beside me also got a fren inside da performers wor...then got common topic meh...so wait until break time purposely talk to her.....then da rest u noe liao lor.
• SinGaporGuy

  9 Apr 05, 16:06

  Realli hope she surf this forum also. I nt sure if she notice my present in the bus a not.. she gt a pair of "Talking" small eyes..... veri nice... ANd If she here.. jsut wan to tell her that I realli wan to Know her.. and B her friend...U make my Heart Beat again.
  
  Will approach her again when see her in plaza.. haha i go plaza to see if she ther also occassionally during weekend.. bt no fate to meet her leh... sianz.. Bt thinking of her.. realli makes me happi...
  
  So any gers advise on.... I scare I go up she reject... i nt ugly.. just a normal Sg guy lor.. hahaha
• color ghost

  9 Apr 05, 16:08

  Originally posted by SinGaporGuy:

  Realli hope she surf this forum also. I nt sure if she notice my present in the bus a not.. she gt a pair of "Talking" small eyes..... veri nice... ANd If she here.. jsut wan to tell her that I realli wan to Know her.. and B her friend...U make my Heart Beat again.
  
  Will approach her again when see her in plaza.. haha i go plaza to see if she ther also occassionally during weekend.. bt no fate to meet her leh... sianz.. Bt thinking of her.. realli makes me happi...
  
  So any gers advise on.... I scare I go up she reject... i nt ugly.. just a normal Sg guy lor.. hahaha

  reject at least u noe no need to try wor....save ur time u can move on catch other fish...but if u dun even ask...then u dunno whetehre got chance or not...like dis lagi worse.
• SinGaporGuy

  9 Apr 05, 16:09

  This time i see her.. i going to go up and ASK>>>>>>>>> Hello Remember me.. Can I noe U
  
  Hope its nt in a bus.. cos bus hard to ask.. so mani pple ard.. but no matter whr confirm go up and see.. unlesss she wif a guy..
  That time i "beo" her hands.. no ring.. so i think still gt hope she nt married or even attached.. haha
• haogege

  9 Apr 05, 23:02

  ask at least got hope dont ask no hope at all...haizzz..i nv ask for a ger number then regrett till now..
  1st thing u do is get number ...but v.quite paisei leh...so u jus tell her..
  
  u:ermmm..do u know the time now..?
  her:no..i no watch
  u:then use ur hp check lo..smile
  herh ok..now is 3pm
  u :thank u..sinces u take out liao might as well give me ur number...*smile*
  
  *if my english bad don blame me..*
• Devil1976

  10 Apr 05, 19:38

  Originally posted by smoke:

  Hi CoolMyth,
  
  Few things to take note, location does matter. Best is that you have to catch her without her friends around. Sometimes, you may not know if her friends have some other intentions (for guys) and it may backfire on you.
  
  You just need to walk right up to her and say, "Hi, I feel you've got a great smile and you seem like an interesting person. My name's ****** and I would like to have your number to know you better."
  
  Sounds simple right? The trick is to make it sound as if you couldn't care less if she rejected you or not. Whether you are of average height or average looks is insignificant. If you can be confident when you talk, you have already won half the battle.
  
  If she gives you some funny reason like she's attached, she don't give her number to strangers, gently bow out of the situation and don't pester. It shows that she isn't interested in you so just move on. Good luck!
  
  SMokE
  
  P.S. Oh, if she asks for your number instead of giving you hers, prepare for nights of misery, guessing when she's going to call. If she refuses to give you her number but asks for your number instead, ask her for her e-mail add or MSN. At least you'd be in control of the situation.

  Hi. How ya been?
• Exhibitionist

  10 Apr 05, 19:48

  Just go up to her and give her a sincere off-hand compliment spontaneously like, 'Hey, I like the colour of your dress' or 'You look great' or smth without sounding cheesy. Accompany all this with your most charming smile. Appear friendly and sincere in your compliments.
  
  
• FeowFeow

  11 Apr 05, 11:40

  Oh dear, I've actually been q. rude before when a guy was brave enuff to come up to me
  
  They start opening their mouths, & @ the 1st few words, I run off, leaving them mid-sentence
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  a few questions here hor:
  
  i)what kind of situation will the gal feel "not shocked" if suddenly someone she don't know of go up to her and talk to her?
  
  ii)does location affects?
  
  iii)does it matter she got friends around her at that time?
  
  if i think of anymore i post again.