initiating conversation with gals

• SinGaporGuy

  11 Apr 05, 20:58

  woowo so sad.. if i were that guy ....
• Oyathatsme

  12 Apr 05, 19:28

  It's every easy actually.
  It's your confidence and inner beliefs.
  Your body language and most important smile.
  Don't act nervous if not she will be too.
  And the tone of your voice.
  Eye contact important remember.
  
  The guy who gets rejected the most is the guy who will leave with the most numbers! Quit being scared or rejection and just get out there and do it. The trick is to not think about it, if you start thinking "Should I talk to her or not?" then you will talk yourself out of it. Think about it this way, if you talk to her you might have a 50% chance of being rejected and a 50% chance of success, but if you don't talk to her you have a 0% chance of success. If you don't initiate the conversation it will most likely never take place!
  
  Smile
  
  
• CoolMyth

  12 Apr 05, 21:31

  Originally posted by FeowFeow:

  Oh dear, I've actually been q. rude before when a guy was brave enuff to come up to me
  
  They start opening their mouths, & @ the 1st few words, I run off, leaving them mid-sentence
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Yep, me very scared become like this, how ar?
• color ghost

  13 Apr 05, 05:16

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Yep, me very scared become like this, how ar?

  then u no need to sian girls liao simple. kena whack left and right by girls who dun chup u wun remember u for ur silliness in approaching them...buti gal who like u wun whack u left and right.
  
  win win situation if u appraoch her.
• FeowFeow

  13 Apr 05, 10:59

  Not all girls r like me mah, I'm juz naturally reserved when it comes to total strangers. Oso, dunno wat to sez, so I juz walk off
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Yep, me very scared become like this, how ar?

• choco B

  13 Apr 05, 11:01

  Here's the truth about chatting up strangers:
  
  It's not what you say, it's how you look.
  
  

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  a few questions here hor:
  
  i)what kind of situation will the gal feel "not shocked" if suddenly someone she don't know of go up to her and talk to her?
  
  ii)does location affects?
  
  iii)does it matter she got friends around her at that time?
  
  if i think of anymore i post again.

• Devil1976

  13 Apr 05, 12:46

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Yep, me very scared become like this, how ar?

  Don't try.
• Kenashi

  13 Apr 05, 13:02

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Here's the truth about chatting up strangers:
  
  It's not what you say, it's how you look.
  
  

  then siao liao
  i look like this
  
• M©+square

  15 Apr 05, 03:41

  Originally posted by FeowFeow:

  Not all girls r like me mah, I'm juz naturally reserved when it comes to total strangers. Oso, dunno wat to sez, so I juz walk off
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  If you walk off....i'll pull you back. Wahahaha.
  
  Kidding.
• SinGaporGuy

  21 Apr 05, 23:15

  No luck.. have not seen her since then.. so Who stay bp?? and take 960..... to work in the morning??ard 830 from CC busstop??
• CoolMyth

  21 Apr 05, 23:18

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Don't try.

  Indeed....
  
  Cannot believe this thread is now back up....