rekindle the flame!! but... HELP sought!!
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hey ppl..
i'm a 19 yr old poly guy who got to know tis ger since SEC times.. we went into a relationship last yr. Start was GREAT! SWEET! LOVELY! but as time goes by.. as normal ... feelings not tt overwhelming.. slacking.. i started to neglect her over soccer & frenz.. she starts throwing tantrums at me... yea..
she's a really nice ger.. i love her.. but broke up last month due to some stupid thingy.. i got pissed tt day.. i 1st time really F up.. den i initiated breakup..
later the month.. i realised i need her.. yea.. she's my everything la..
that month was hell.. luckily... i managed to patch with her!! we wanna work things out .. yea... dun wanna fade and have those kinda sian sian relationship.rekindle the flame is wad we need... i believe
but i need ideas on how to make it a wonderful outing/date... yea.. any gd hangouts?? romantic or fun oso can... yea.. help la.. cos my knowlegde limited nia...
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as suggested by jay_rocks,lim chu kang cemetry seems to be a gd place to go...
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oh really thanks ar... if i scare the hell outta her.. wow.. i might get some ass whacking !! haha.. u'll nv know.. gers... POWER.. ha serious la bro
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especially at night with some white candles could make it more romantic
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haha i mean like any gd place for couple hangouts... yea... dinner... but of cos.. for a 19 yr old.. pls la.. budget abit la.. maybe 50>
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go on a trip or try to do things both of u can would like....
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go watch ASS-LEAGUE!!!!
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19 nia ... sigh!
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what's wrong with 19 huh.. too young meh? my teenage life ending liao leh!
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Originally posted by Whaleson:hey ppl..
i'm a 19 yr old poly guy who got to know tis ger since SEC times.. we went into a relationship last yr. Start was GREAT! SWEET! LOVELY! but as time goes by.. as normal ... feelings not tt overwhelming.. slacking.. i started to neglect her over soccer & frenz.. she starts throwing tantrums at me... yea..
she's a really nice ger.. i love her.. but broke up last month due to some stupid thingy.. i got pissed tt day.. i 1st time really F up.. den i initiated breakup..
later the month.. i realised i need her.. yea.. she's my everything la..
that month was hell.. luckily... i managed to patch with her!! we wanna work things out .. yea... dun wanna fade and have those kinda sian sian relationship.rekindle the flame is wad we need... i believe
but i need ideas on how to make it a wonderful outing/date... yea.. any gd hangouts?? romantic or fun oso can... yea.. help la.. cos my knowlegde limited nia...
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bring KY.
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ky??
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oei u pple like not helping the poor guy.
this is from a girl who's been going very steady with the same guy from jc till uni...
1. have romantic walks frequently at the beach... it's a great time to talk about each other's life and happenings.
2. Do things together. like maybe go rollerblading, cycling or swimming.
3. sentosa's a great place to chill and suntan
4. talk about the crazy things both of u have always wanted to do (erm going cycling at cemetary at midnight
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hahaha yea.. but maybe got time constraint la... shucks man.. haha u r the only one REPLYING ME! ha same boat la.. well.. any nice place to dine and chill together huh? i know holland V is a great place.. haha anywhere in the north? north shucks... far frm SENTOSA.. far frm EAST COAST
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north as in woodlands?Originally posted by Whaleson:hahaha yea.. but maybe got time constraint la... shucks man.. haha u r the only one REPLYING ME! ha same boat la.. well.. any nice place to dine and chill together huh? i know holland V is a great place.. haha anywhere in the north? north shucks... far frm SENTOSA.. far frm EAST COAST 
then can hop over to johor for seafood lor... -
ask ur gf go out with me, it will make a wonderful outing/dateOriginally posted by Whaleson:hey ppl..
i'm a 19 yr old poly guy who got to know tis ger since SEC times.. we went into a relationship last yr. Start was GREAT! SWEET! LOVELY! but as time goes by.. as normal ... feelings not tt overwhelming.. slacking.. i started to neglect her over soccer & frenz.. she starts throwing tantrums at me... yea..
she's a really nice ger.. i love her.. but broke up last month due to some stupid thingy.. i got pissed tt day.. i 1st time really F up.. den i initiated breakup..
later the month.. i realised i need her.. yea.. she's my everything la..
that month was hell.. luckily... i managed to patch with her!! we wanna work things out .. yea... dun wanna fade and have those kinda sian sian relationship.rekindle the flame is wad we need... i believe
but i need ideas on how to make it a wonderful outing/date... yea.. any gd hangouts?? romantic or fun oso can... yea.. help la.. cos my knowlegde limited nia... -
u are so g*d d&mn Smart la... thanks! so sweet of u... ha.. is the forum a talk crap forum? tok cock tok tock....
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talk cock?? den y ask.... -
i ask le den realised it's toking cock u see...
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remember the anniversaries.. slip notes to her telling her ur feelings towards her
tink of the activities u both did initially during the more happy moments of ur r/s..
all of us can only recommend to you nice places to go to but ultimately its who your girl is with and how you make her feel special that counts -
dude u just horny .. and lazy to get new gf ..... once u start to neglect her means u are bored of her and need someone new... move onOriginally posted by Whaleson:hey ppl..
i'm a 19 yr old poly guy who got to know tis ger since SEC times.. we went into a relationship last yr. Start was GREAT! SWEET! LOVELY! but as time goes by.. as normal ... feelings not tt overwhelming.. slacking.. i started to neglect her over soccer & frenz.. she starts throwing tantrums at me... yea..
she's a really nice ger.. i love her.. but broke up last month due to some stupid thingy.. i got pissed tt day.. i 1st time really F up.. den i initiated breakup..
later the month.. i realised i need her.. yea.. she's my everything la..
that month was hell.. luckily... i managed to patch with her!! we wanna work things out .. yea... dun wanna fade and have those kinda sian sian relationship.rekindle the flame is wad we need... i believe
but i need ideas on how to make it a wonderful outing/date... yea.. any gd hangouts?? romantic or fun oso can... yea.. help la.. cos my knowlegde limited nia... -
nah.. all guys are horny.. but i exert self control k.. she's special and conservative .. tt's y... no joke sia.. anyway.. thx yea.. i'll do my best den..
LOVE doesnt means mus have sex right?? maybe still too young for tt... i'll be waiting! it'll be long ... ha -
Yea.. thx i understand all these.. but jus wanna like know more places which i can go with her .. enjoy together yea... a lil new places spice up the night too ... any suggestions?Originally posted by agk_titan:remember the anniversaries.. slip notes to her telling her ur feelings towards her
tink of the activities u both did initially during the more happy moments of ur r/s..
all of us can only recommend to you nice places to go to but ultimately its who your girl is with and how you make her feel special that counts -
It is the little things u do eg
1) Reminices abt the past, how u met, what u like abt her
2) Calling/ SMS her daily to chat abt daily happenings, lending a listening ear when she is having a bad day
3) Giving her little gifts like chocolates, earrings to remind her that u are thinking of her. Don't wait for anniversary or V day
4) Cycle/ stroll East Coast/ Sentosa. Pack some food for picnic
5) Rent romantic movies to watch together. Provide pop corn & snacks.
6) Give her massage if she is tired or help her with her homework.
7) Hold her hand, give her lots of hugs & call her 'dear' often.
Remember: don't take her for granted & keep on doing these even if u are married! -
Yea .. thanks.. in fact .. ya we're going ECP next week.. which is on my Bday itself.. ha