seriously i dont think i understand their thinking
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wa lau!! to other people maybe if you dont mind appearing rude. but cannot teach him to treat his mother that way.Originally posted by parn:bismarck...you're going to thank me for this.
You know...I also used to be easily irritated by those nonsense people around me. Until I've came out with something to overcome all those nonsense people.
Well, when people around you give you nonsense remarks or accusations...ignore them (pretend you didn't hear it...and give them a faceless emotion
). If they ask you a question, you answer them...but with a close-end answer. Give a short and direct answer as in "Yes" "OK" "No" or other etc answers.
And don't be concern with what they think or might misunderstood. People always enjoys putting other people down...especially Singaporeans (True and a sad fact...don't know what's their problem anyway...don't care. :-P ). Let them think and misunderstood all they want...as long as you already tell them your side of the story once, your job is considered done. If they are too stupid to grasp your explaination, not your problem anyway...nobody is born the same and perfect. So maybe you may have problem expressing yourself or people may have problem understanding you...there's nothing you should do about it as long as you are accountable to what you have done and did and that's enough.
Once they realised that they can't mess with your emotions anymore, they'll stop trying or they might die of their own inner frustrations.
Just like a wall...imagine yourself going against a wall. You can hit/scold/kick it all you want and the wall does nothing. Who's going to feel worse? So get what I mean? :-P Be a wall...firm and guarded against nonsense invaders.
Try it and you'll know it works...cos it works perfectly for me.
Good luck, you won't need it...you just need to be firm with yourself.
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dun worry...i will modify it before use..Originally posted by dragg:wa lau!! to other people maybe if you dont mind appearing rude. but cannot teach him to treat his mother that way. -
My reply is to bismarck, not to you.Originally posted by dragg:wa lau!! to other people maybe if you dont mind appearing rude. but cannot teach him to treat his mother that way. 
I think he's old enough to do things based on his own discretion, you think he's stupid? :-P
By the way, I didn't ask him to behave badly towards his Mother in anyway. Just sharing with him some of my thoughts to ponder upon.
Didn't see anything that is considered rude...did you?
The advice is to help him to feel better, as for nonsense people...they can take their nonsense somewhere else.
"See...I told you Singaporeans enjoys putting other people down."
Help bismarck if you can, don't add salt to injury. -
because you are a bloody adult already and still having your computer as your girlfriend. get a job. meet some girls.Originally posted by bismarck:dun worry...i will modify it before use.. -
with girls like the 1 posted before in aa...Originally posted by Deportivo:because you are a bloody adult already and still having your computer as your girlfriend. get a job. meet some girls.
i rather be single -
You mean old already then don't need mey...?Originally posted by Axelheat755:btw, u sure she is paranoid or were u actually watching porn?
we understand... we are all young once...
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Originally posted by parn:My reply is to bismarck, not to you.
I think he's old enough to do things based on his own discretion, you think he's stupid? :-P
By the way, I didn't ask him to behave badly towards his Mother in anyway. Just sharing with him some of my thoughts to ponder upon.
Didn't see anything that is considered rude...did you?
The advice is to help him to feel better, as for nonsense people...they can take their nonsense somewhere else.
"See...I told you Singaporeans enjoys putting other people down."
Help bismarck if you can, don't add salt to injury.