which one....?
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You still don't get it. You're missing a very important lesson in Love and Life.Originally posted by dirge:mm..lets just say.. both dated.. in each of their country, like normal boy ger go out...dinner... shoping..etc
gone thru e process but both no intimate stuffs n also e thai one has strong culture..so e most is a peck on e check+hold hand
Enlightenment still not time yet. I shan't force it onto you to understand.
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FireIce is a negative influence.Originally posted by FireIce:sg gal be da de
thai gal be xiao de
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Originally posted by M©+square:You still don't get it. You're missing a very important lesson in Love and Life.
Enlightenment still not time yet. I shan't force it onto you to understand.
Cheers
Love cosmic lesson is different.
Our level of Love spirituality differs.
Even in the Age of Aquarian, Love to many are merely about marriage-kids relationship. This biological channel imbue into our psyche produce such mindsets - we can't shake it off. Probably self-discovery about themselves and their relationship could rediscover this aspect.
P.S: Not everyone needs higher learning in love. Some reject it... but many doesn't even know wtf is that.
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There is actually no need to know so much about love. Self knowing will develop a changed man hence evolves 'positive' changes to a relationship/marriage.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Love cosmic lesson is different.
Our level of Love spirituality differs.
Even in the Age of Aquarian, Love to many are merely about marriage-kids relationship. This biological channel imbue into our psyche produce such mindsets - we can't shake it off. Probably self-discovery about themselves and their relationship could rediscover this aspect.
P.S: [b]Not everyone needs higher learning in love. Some reject it... but many doesn't even know wtf is that.
Cheers
Many times Men corrupts the meaning and lost the essence of what the heart feels.
Those who don't know what it is may be considered blessed, for they will live life as it is. Ignorance is bliss.
p.s: What is Age of Aquarian? I'm a Aquariaus, anything concerning me? -
No worries; it simply meant the astrological era we are living now - the Aquarian Age. No, it doesn't affects you personally... I think.Originally posted by M©+square:There is actually no need to know so much about love. Self knowing will develop a changed man hence evolves 'positive' changes to a relationship/marriage.
Many times Men corrupts the meaning and lost the essence of what the heart feels.
Those who don't know what it is may be considered blessed, for they will live life as it is. Ignorance is bliss.
p.s: What is Age of Aquarian? I'm a Aquariaus, anything concerning me?
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huh... i mean why do you have to state their family background... who do you like in the first place... shouldn't you be thinking who will make a better wife.. or who you like more... instead of this... come on.... correct the thai one might seems better on paper as well as family background... then who are you... what do you have? you know how to chose ppl... ppl also know how to chose you... come on get a life... sorry if i sound too harsh...Originally posted by dirge:Hi guys.. which would u guys choose... base on e info given below
SG Gal: 1 yr younger, Poly Grad, Working nw,1 younger brother 1 younger sister, stays in 3 room, sweet and faithful girl.
Thai Gal: 2 yr younger, Master Degree Student, Only Child, parents well to do (both teacher), 2 car, lives in 2 story house, Sweet and caring,fair lookin and pretty for a thai, says don't like thai guys, like sg guy
Both wifey material..which would u consider?
If marry thai, can get their citizenship as well? Have a very sweet loving gal,get what a guy deserves for a wife but.. if bring back sg..
have to work hard for her.. as see can't really speak english well (eg pay for HDB alone), bored for her..etc
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Its bit harsh though but aniway...tats ur viewOriginally posted by Souledge:huh... i mean why do you have to state their family background... who do you like in the first place... shouldn't you be thinking who will make a better wife.. or who you like more... instead of this... come on.... correct the thai one might seems better on paper as well as family background... then who are you... what do you have? you know how to chose ppl... ppl also know how to chose you... come on get a life... sorry if i sound too harsh...
But then.... u tot of anything as to why I state their family backgnd? Both are of wifey material and I know that.. tat's y its a choice now..
Seriously, I have tot of meself too... don't think can bring much to them in material very comfortably but emotional wise yes.. both express positive interest towards me so I guess they are not really choosing bout me rite? If were to choose.. they wouldn't even have express interest rite -
would like to hear views from yunhaier though..
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hmm..seriously...stay single for the time beingOriginally posted by dirge:Its bit harsh though but aniway...tats ur view
But then.... u tot of anything as to why I state their family backgnd? Both are of wifey material and I know that.. tat's y its a choice now..
Seriously, I have tot of meself too... don't think can bring much to them in material very comfortably but emotional wise yes.. both express positive interest towards me so I guess they are not really choosing bout me rite? If were to choose.. they wouldn't even have express interest rite
because situations like tis...can sae will not realli bring a good ending
it's good to hear tat they have interest in u...but do ask yourself:can u sustain and return the interest back to them???
love is\has\and will always be two way..not one way...
and if worst come to worst..explain to them..i need not tell u wad to sae rite??
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
eh...care to elaborate on how tis affect a person of the sign Gemini??? Love cosmic lesson is different.
Our level of Love spirituality differs.
Even in the Age of Aquarian, Love to many are merely about marriage-kids relationship. This biological channel imbue into our psyche produce such mindsets - we can't shake it off. Probably self-discovery about themselves and their relationship could rediscover this aspect.
P.S: [b]Not everyone needs higher learning in love. Some reject it... but many doesn't even know wtf is that.
Cheers [/b]
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Originally posted by Lance_han:eh...care to elaborate on how tis affect a person of the sign Gemini??? Aiyo... said liao mah. It simply means the Era with are living in currently revolves around the sign of Aquarius, thus Aquarian Age... nothing to do with each individual.
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oppsOriginally posted by Yunhaier: Aiyo... said liao mah. It simply means the Era with are living in currently revolves around the sign of Aquarius, thus Aquarian Age... nothing to do with each individual.
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If u marry Thai girl u most probably have to follow her back to Thailand cos she is an only child- are u willing?Originally posted by dirge:Hi guys.. which would u guys choose... base on e info given below
SG Gal: 1 yr younger, Poly Grad, Working nw,1 younger brother 1 younger sister, stays in 3 room, sweet and faithful girl.
Thai Gal: 2 yr younger, Master Degree Student, Only Child, parents well to do (both teacher), 2 car, lives in 2 story house, Sweet and caring,fair lookin and pretty for a thai, says don't like thai guys, like sg guy
Both wifey material..which would u consider?
If marry thai, can get their citizenship as well? Have a very sweet loving gal,get what a guy deserves for a wife but.. if bring back sg..
have to work hard for her.. as see can't really speak english well (eg pay for HDB alone), bored for her..etc
If marry sg.. well... no need say much...
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Mmm...Originally posted by dirge:would like to hear views from yunhaier though..
I'm a libra... sg is sagi and thai is pisces -
THAI THAI THAI
not because she's thai
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I have tot of that already and I guess I'll just have to do that,it's something I have to give up over here.. and head out start anew..Originally posted by gerrykoh:If u marry Thai girl u most probably have to follow her back to Thailand cos she is an only child- are u willing?
Choose someone u are most comfortable with, communication is very impt.
Or probably stay for some time bet each country... can't really tell e fufure rite.. -
Umm,, if they both find out what you are doing here, i think you wouldnt even have the chance to choose between them. Frankly, if you really like one of em, you wouldnt hesitate in blocking other girls from making your decisions waver.. so i believe that you are confused and you dont really like em. And i think your just going for that Thai's pretty face and $$. Well if she has good looks and money i dont think she will stick to you
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well...i guess u cant say tat I'm going for looks and $$..
looks wise..both is fair.. and sweet looking.. $ wise..as its in thailand..i guess when coverted over to sg.. its bout the same.. however.. its more of the feelings towards a guy that makes u think that sg gals should learnt more from them... as in.. their behaviour and attitude towards guys in which they appreciate and respect more than sg ones -
Thai guys from what I read in a newspaper before (as you know news can be blown out of proportion so take it with a pinch of salt) is that they tend to be violent and unfaithful. The article said that Thai girls has the highest tendancy of giving their husbands the bobbit because Thai guys are huge MCPs and take their girls for granted, expecting them to work and look after all the housework and kids. And while they do that, they fool around with other girls outside.
Also, can you trust her totally. My hubby's friend was dating this Thai girl. He flew often to meet up with her but he dumped her because he didn't trust her not to meet other guys when he was not around. I would say she is very very beautiful. Big doe-like eyes, fair skin, soft voice. Very gentle and feminine, something which alot of SG girls are lacking.
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Hm..from what u read in newspaper..I gather that its quite true as I've spoke and asked bout why they do not prefer they own guys.. probably like some sg gers who prefer "ang mo" cox they think ang mo more loving huh..
As for trusting or not, its really up to individual to whether believe or not..as distance plays a part in whether knowing is she meeting or guys or not. Anyway, one never knows, even though she might be pretty, she could be faithful too.
However, I do believe that, her mindset might change once she finish her studies and starts working in the real world. She's still a student now, so naturally, most gers in their school days would choose love over bread, but as times goes by, bread will eventually weigh abit more than love, in which I personally encountered a sg ger who has this transition of love over bread to love n bread.