Feel like killing my father
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From I see here, your father is asking for attention.. I do not know how close you people are but when is the last time your family sit down to talk... I mean really talk like how you feel for each other etc... have you and your mum shown some concern to him.. you know, the list go on .... killing him is not doing you and your mum any good .. before killing him, try killing a chicken, it is not so easy taking a live... So I suggest you try to arrange for a gathering and speak your heart out ... it is not going to be easy but you can surely try... you do sound like you still love your dad .....Originally posted by quacker:I am trying very hard to be a fillial son, but my father never fails to irritate me with his actions. He has a lot of bad habits...like wasting water, making loud sounds when he spits, produces the most noises when he eats (so much so that I avoid any chance to share the dining table with him).
My mother can't stand him too! She also admitted to having the idea of stabbing him to death. He is so IRRITATING! The noises he makes gives us constant headaches. We tried communicating with him, but he just smiles at us, do not take us seriously, and shrugs it off.
I wonder why he can continue with his acts when he sees us in so much pain. You might think the things he does are trivial and we are making a big fuss. Try enduring that everyday, and be woken up by his din every single day. He is so stubborn! AHHH!!! He is driving me insane!
He is a good man, he raised us up, and he IS my father. But sometimes i just feel like bludgeoning him to death! My mom and I even made a pact to commit suicide if either of us kills him one day.
HELP!
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I love my father of course, otherwise I won't feel remorse for actually having the thought of killing him. You know sometimes, when people get to your nerves, and you just feel like strangling him or her?
I know, and I shall repeat that I certainly NOT want him dead. It is just sometimes i HATE myself for having evil thoughts like that... I can't control what I think sometimes. Does anyone know wat I'm saying?
If lightning wants to strike my mom and I, so be it. We have those thoughts, and certain things have led to us having those undesirable thoughts. Of course we know it is not right...we are human after all.
Talking to my father will either end up in a heated argument or one of us "shutting off". Don't ask me why, it is just very difficult for people with different ideals and frequency to talk. I know...I will try, and try, and try to talk to him and accept him. Otherwise, i shall avoid walking under the sky at all costs.
Sigh....
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Take it easy.. these thing takes time to work out .. worst still you see each other everyday, but the appropiate timing never come... work on it ... best of luck... don't give up ..Originally posted by quacker:I love my father of course, otherwise I won't feel remorse for actually having the thought of killing him. You know sometimes, when people get to your nerves, and you just feel like strangling him or her?
I know, and I shall repeat that I certainly NOT want him dead. It is just sometimes i HATE myself for having evil thoughts like that... I can't control what I think sometimes. Does anyone know wat I'm saying?
If lightning wants to strike my mom and I, so be it. We have those thoughts, and certain things have led to us having those undesirable thoughts. Of course we know it is not right...we are human after all.
Talking to my father will either end up in a heated argument or one of us "shutting off". Don't ask me why, it is just very difficult for people with different ideals and frequency to talk. I know...I will try, and try, and try to talk to him and accept him. Otherwise, i shall avoid walking under the sky at all costs.
Sigh.... Let time do its stuff. -
Cant wait for this story to come out in the news. "Husband slaughtered by Family! Son: He waste our water."Originally posted by quacker:I love my father of course, otherwise I won't feel remorse for actually having the thought of killing him. You know sometimes, when people get to your nerves, and you just feel like strangling him or her?
I know, and I shall repeat that I certainly NOT want him dead. It is just sometimes i HATE myself for having evil thoughts like that... I can't control what I think sometimes. Does anyone know wat I'm saying?
If lightning wants to strike my mom and I, so be it. We have those thoughts, and certain things have led to us having those undesirable thoughts. Of course we know it is not right...we are human after all.
Talking to my father will either end up in a heated argument or one of us "shutting off". Don't ask me why, it is just very difficult for people with different ideals and frequency to talk. I know...I will try, and try, and try to talk to him and accept him. Otherwise, i shall avoid walking under the sky at all costs.
Sigh.... Let time do its stuff. -
there r more ppl worse off den u. think it tis way, u dun have the best dad, but u aso dun have the worst dad...
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Thanks for the encouragement, some of you
As for others who think it is entertainment, and hope to see any kinda news in the papers...sorry to disappoint y'all. I will make sure I kill myself before I kill my father. -
Just tolerate cos u will grow old one day
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Why don't you raise the issues you have to him? You and your mom. If he doesn't want to admit or do anything, then just have to tolerate. No point kiling your father just because he irritates you. I don't think that warrants murdering him right? Think about all the consequences you'll have to face cos' of that. I think you just said that in a fit of anger and frustration.. relax and try to think of an alternative solution..
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Aiyoh...
Have you ever wondered why he is making so much noises or, maybe, turning up the volume of TV/radio?
Well, i guess he is seeking your attention. Or, he may have hearing problems lah... When people grow older, most of their organs start to fail them, especially if they have been working in a noisy environment... Maybe, you shld juz try to talk nicely and find out wat the problem lies...
As for fogetting to turn off the tap, my mum is doing that everyday, and her explanation is: "I turn on the tap to fill up the pail. I dun know it got filled up so fast!" Wah... wat a GREAT answer even though I am yelling at her practically everytime when the water overflows...
Sigh... wat to do? Take it easy lah...
Can't stand it? Just moved out of your hse loh...