why people feel lonely...
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hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise...
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croco too
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come on... you are only 19... i got fren now at 29 still havn't got this first gf and you are complaining here....
look on the bright side... this is just one phase of yr life... carry on with it... and life fully... and one day you will find a girl that likes you... as well as you like her alot... cheers.... 
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are u going to define yourself and your life solely by this small aspect? i dont think so. and your current feeling is probably due to pressure from your peers and your environment, and of course, your priorities. nothing wrong with that. but rather than sulking, why not take a more positive approach. if this is indeed your current priority in life, go out to do all you can to achieve your goals - find out more about yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, your preferences in terms of partners. widen your social circle by whatever means you are comfortable with. get honest and useful opinions from others. and keep trying and not condemn yourself because of setbacks which ARE going to happen! rather, learn from them!Originally posted by skhoo:hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise...
realise that these steps can in fact be applied to whatever you wish to achieve in life at any point in time. and stay focused and dont be distracted and start to paint your entire life in negativity just because of a fall, or bring in factors that may not be in part of the circumstance, e.g. loneliness. you are definitely better and worth more than this. -
i'm 20 and dunhave bf before... wad you complaining about??
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no worries, ur turn haven come yet la. dun go looking for a r/s, let one come to you. btw, wad's wrong w/ being single?Originally posted by skhoo:hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise... -
maybe you chose the wrong girl.... or why not just say.... she's not meant for you?? someone else bound to pop by soon eh?
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People feel lonely becos they have too much free time.
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hey man same age dude...i think you are not thinking positively
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do pick up something tat u find u are good in and improve on tat...soon your mood will be on cloud nine and we'll be here discussing ways to pull u downOriginally posted by skhoo:hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise...
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u are not the only one that is facing this ah..I bet there are many people out there suffering from this too..I am one of them too..Turning 21 soon and it's been a long time since i got into a relationship..Like everyone say, just wait lah..If it is urs, it will be urs..Originally posted by skhoo:hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise...
Share this poem with u guys..
Love at First Sight
by Wislawa Szymborska
They both thought
that a sudden feeling had united them
This certainty is beautiful,
Even more beautiful than uncertainty.
They thought they didn't know each other,
nothing had ever happened between them,
These streets, these stairs, this corridors,
Where they could have met so long ago?
I would like to ask them,
if they can remember -
perhaps in a revolving door
face to face one day?
A "sorry" in the crowd?
"Wrong number" on the 'phone?
- but I know the answer.
No, they don't remember.
How surprised they would be
For such a long time already
Fate has been playing with them.
Not quite yet ready
to change into destiny,
which brings them nearer and yet further,
cutting their path
and stifling a laugh,
escaping ever further;
There were sings, indications,
undecipherable, what does in matter.
Three years ago, perhaps
or even last Tuesday,
this leaf flying
from one shoulder to another?
Something lost and gathered.
Who knows, perhaps a ball already
in the bushes, in childhood?
There were handles, door bells,
where, on the trace of a hand,
another hand was placed;
suitcases next to one another in the
left luggage.
And maybe one night the same dream
forgotten on walking;
But every beginning
is only a continuation
and the book of fate is
always open in the middle. -
Originally posted by Souledge:come on... you are only 19... i got fren now at 29 still havn't got this first gf and you are complaining here.... look on the bright side... this is just one phase of yr life... carry on with it... and life fully... and one day you will find a girl that likes you... as well as you like her alot... cheers....
I got a friend... have own business, own car... 30++ liao still single and clean history sheet. Now who's worse?
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U not farmer....not say U work hard in the field for ur crops U will get a good harvest...still got external factors to think about....so take it as a lesson learnt and go on from there.U are only 19...still got NS and a long time ahead of U to find someone that U like...Originally posted by skhoo:hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise... -
Yoz...Originally posted by skhoo:hi...i am a 19 yr old guy...anyone can tell me why i such a failure...still ddun have a girlfriend.... and whenever i worked hard to go after a girl... all my heartwork usually go down the drain...this is discouraging and i getting more lomely than ever...give advise...
Go n do something to occupy Urself...U wun tink so much...there will be sometin tt U r gd in...
I am 22 liao...also no gf...U only 19...U still gt a long way to go dude...maybe Ur 'one' haven appear yet...
Being hardworking in going after a gal doesnt equal to success with gals...U nd the skills...dun be discouraged by failures...always reflect on them n improve on Ur reasons for the failures...U will be better equipped with the necessary skills next time...
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PMs coming your way....Originally posted by starblue:i'm 20 and dunhave bf before... wad you complaining about?? 
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can i b ur 1st bf?Originally posted by starblue:i'm 20 and dunhave bf before... wad you complaining about?? 
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wahaha.. like tat also can ah? heard long Q le.. happy Q-ing RaTtY81!
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u heard of jumping Queue b4?Originally posted by Gwy85:wahaha.. like tat also can ah? heard long Q le.. happy Q-ing RaTtY81! -
lol.. hw many Q can u jump? any way.. good luck to u!!! Happy jumping/cutting Q~Originally posted by RaTtY81:u heard of jumping Queue b4? -
how many queues she had?Originally posted by Gwy85:lol.. hw many Q can u jump? any way.. good luck to u!!! Happy jumping/cutting Q~ -
RaTtY81.. Do i look like starblue? u gt to check it out urself..Originally posted by RaTtY81:how many queues she had? -
den u tell me how many queue can i jump? i tot u noe ma...btw r u in the queue aso?Originally posted by Gwy85:RaTtY81.. Do i look like starblue? u gt to check it out urself.. -
at least he got a business n carOriginally posted by Yunhaier: I got a friend... have own business, own car... 30++ liao still single and clean history sheet. Now who's worse?
Cheers -
hahahaOriginally posted by Devil1976:PMs coming your way....
I thought she already been on the receiving end liao -
What happened to The Buaya Club u had???Originally posted by sgboy2004:croco too