Height Difference in BGR???????????
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My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks. -
You can't really stop it. My hubby and I are of different race and we put up with our fair share of rude stares.
Anyway, I think if people are rude, you don't have to be nice either. What I do is to give them an equally rude stare and he likes to comment loudly, " Dear, why are they staring at us." and I will reply," I don't know, why don't you ask them."
You will see some rude people turning very red and uncomfortable.
Yes we can be real asses
but seriously if they want to be an ass, just treat them like one. -
how to curb? just ignore.
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ok mah, it's sexy to tok to a guy's chest
i draw the line at toking to belly hair though -
I think the guy 1.8 and the girl 1.5 is really a non-issue.... maybe you are being too sensitive........
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It's OK lah.. Not as if you're 1.5m and ur gf is 1.8m, nothing wrong, dun worry too muchOriginally posted by Guru78:My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks. -
dat's a good one.. heehee.. ya just simply ignore.. be confident of urself and u will put them to shame.. there's seriously nothing wrong wif that..Originally posted by elindra:You can't really stop it. My hubby and I are of different race and we put up with our fair share of rude stares.
Anyway, I think if people are rude, you don't have to be nice either. What I do is to give them an equally rude stare and he likes to comment loudly, " Dear, why are they staring at us." and I will reply," I don't know, why don't you ask them."
You will see some rude people turning very red and uncomfortable.
Yes we can be real asses but seriously if they want to be an ass, just treat them like one. -
Just ignore them!!
Why should u care about what they think, do they even know u!!
In the end, u are the one living yr life, why give a hoot of what a total stranger think?
They can point all they want, it is u who matter to yrself!!
Cheers
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sigh....really sian wif all these people...i do admit sometimes when i see couples having similar heights...i envy them slightly...then i woke up and told myself i must not be influenced by those superficial idiots...i love my gf for whom she is....
think just gotta ignore them...which i have been trying to do for the past 2 years!
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jus dun care wat the fark other ppl think/say. wat u 2 think is more impt. be confidence in urself...
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TCS got one married couple is like that... why dont you ask them?Originally posted by Guru78:My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks.
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you mean to say that your love is only that shallow that you are bothered by the difference in height?Originally posted by Guru78:My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks. -
lol my gal pal is 155cm, her bf 180cm. she just wears heels whenever they go out... a taller guy makes a girl feel safe and protected in a way.
read an article in newspaper where some govt scholar said looking at 2 pple of different races hold hands "makes his skin crawl". it's sad how racism is so rampant in our so-called modern and multi-racial society. -
Don't go out...??Originally posted by Guru78:My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks. "
Seriously... Such things happen, depending on individual country's culture and background.... Sometimes you'll just have to accept things as they are... -
I HATE YOU!!! it's becos of ppl like u that we, the short guys are running short
of short girls.. taken away by the tall guys.. =(
i wan tall girl oso cannot.. sian..
anyway dun take it to heart
ALL THE BEST TO YOU!!! -
got problems meh? hey at least u're not the 1.5 while your gf is the 1.8 one.Originally posted by Guru78:My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks.
besides, that bit of pointing is nothing. nothing compared to what i get all the time. -
I love you elindra,
You reply is even better than what I can come out with. I totally agree, if they want to be an ass treat them like one.
Anyway Guru78, let me ask you a few question, how you know they are talking about your height different? couldnt it be that they are admiring you and your gf?
I do know a few guys who like short gals, best around 1.5m, thinking such gals are cute. And they themself is about 1.7m tall. Of course they are no taller than you but guess what, sometime when they saw a couple like you and your gf they will just wonder how that guy over there can have such cute cute gf.
RegardsOriginally posted by elindra:You can't really stop it. My hubby and I are of different race and we put up with our fair share of rude stares.
Anyway, I think if people are rude, you don't have to be nice either. What I do is to give them an equally rude stare and he likes to comment loudly, " Dear, why are they staring at us." and I will reply," I don't know, why don't you ask them."
You will see some rude people turning very red and uncomfortable.
Yes we can be real asses but seriously if they want to be an ass, just treat them like one. -
Originally posted by HENG@:got problems meh? hey at least u're not the 1.5 while your gf is the 1.8 one.
besides, that bit of pointing is nothing. nothing compared to what i get all the time. 
wad did u get when u go out wif your GF dude???care to elaborate???
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hmmm... with my girl friends u mean. LOLOriginally posted by Lance_han:
wad did u get when u go out wif your GF dude???care to elaborate???
lets put it this way. when people see a big bunch of lesbians, they will always point n stare. -
Originally posted by HENG@:hmmm... with my girl friends u mean. LOL
lets put it this way. when people see a big bunch of lesbians, they will always point n stare.
heng...i nv expected tat....you les??? -
there are a lot of things u never expect of heng@. lets not pry into it and leave it at that.Originally posted by Lance_han:
heng...i nv expected tat....you les??? -
Thanks friends! U see..I myself don't think much of height difference, but my love for my girl. That's why I initiated the relationship in the first place.
However, all those pointing just makes me boil most of the time. After two years, still have to encounter all these now and then. I once heard "Hey, look at the couple. One so tall and the other so short. Like giant and the dwarf!". I was so pissed that I stared hard at them but stopped short of giving them a piece of my mind.
Outwardly, I would say my gf is sweet-looking and petite for her height. But my love for her goes beyond looks. Instead, it's her character that makes my heart pounds with happiness whenever I'm with her. To think that some can just refer her as a 'dwarf' really hurts and infuriates me. Imagine she hears it?? I think she's not blind to all these pointing and jokes..but till now, she has not told me she's hurt..maybe it's inside her.
Anyway, hope all these won't affect our relationship. I'm not being sensitive here because I have seen and heard with my own eyes and ears.
I have thought it through. I won't let anyone hurt her in anyway. May all those who criticised us search their own conscience.
We will live through it! -
yes sir...or should it be yes ma'am???Originally posted by HENG@:there are a lot of things u never expect of heng@. lets not pry into it and leave it at that. -
one word:GANBETTEOriginally posted by Guru78:Thanks friends! U see..I myself don't think much of height difference, but my love for my girl. That's why I initiated the relationship in the first place.
However, all those pointing just makes me boil most of the time. After two years, still have to encounter all these now and then. I once heard "Hey, look at the couple. One so tall and the other so short. Like giant and the dwarf!". I was so pissed that I stared hard at them but stopped short of giving them a piece of my mind.
Outwardly, I would say my gf is sweet-looking and petite for her height. But my love for her goes beyond looks. Instead, it's her character that makes my heart pounds with happiness whenever I'm with her. To think that some can just refer her as a 'dwarf' really hurts and infuriates me. Imagine she hears it?? I think she's not blind to all these pointing and jokes..but till now, she has not told me she's hurt..maybe it's inside her.
Anyway, hope all these won't affect our relationship. I'm not being sensitive here because I have seen and heard with my own eyes and ears.
I have thought it through. I won't let anyone hurt her in anyway. May all those who criticised us search their own conscience. We will live through it!
one thot:good luck
one more thing:don take her for granted
and may God bless u -
good for u. simplest advice i can give is, ignore the idiots.Originally posted by Guru78:Thanks friends! U see..I myself don't think much of height difference, but my love for my girl. That's why I initiated the relationship in the first place.
However, all those pointing just makes me boil most of the time. After two years, still have to encounter all these now and then. I once heard "Hey, look at the couple. One so tall and the other so short. Like giant and the dwarf!". I was so pissed that I stared hard at them but stopped short of giving them a piece of my mind.
Outwardly, I would say my gf is sweet-looking and petite for her height. But my love for her goes beyond looks. Instead, it's her character that makes my heart pounds with happiness whenever I'm with her. To think that some can just refer her as a 'dwarf' really hurts and infuriates me. Imagine she hears it?? I think she's not blind to all these pointing and jokes..but till now, she has not told me she's hurt..maybe it's inside her.
Anyway, hope all these won't affect our relationship. I'm not being sensitive here because I have seen and heard with my own eyes and ears.
I have thought it through. I won't let anyone hurt her in anyway. May all those who criticised us search their own conscience. We will live through it!