Height Difference in BGR???????????
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that is already speculation. just say yes. that will do.Originally posted by Lance_han:yes sir...or should it be yes ma'am???
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okie dude..got itOriginally posted by HENG@:that is already speculation. just say yes. that will do.
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Originally posted by Guru78:My gf is only 1.5m whereas my height is 1.8m. Whenever when we go out, i noticed that people will stare at us. It makes me feel so sad. Of course I know that I shouldn't bother what people think as long as we are in love. However, I hate those superficial idiots who can't see beyond outward appearances. I guess, I too, is one of those idiots since I am affected.
Sometimes, I noticed that people, when they walked past us, they will turn back and point at us. It just makes me so infuriated. Yes..yes..i can just ignore them..but how many can I ignore? How is it possible that I can ignore all these when I keep seeing those people staring at us?
It really pains me..to think that people are treating us as odd couples. My best friends told me this height difference is nothing. If the guy is shorter than the girl or both are 'short', then it would attract more attention.
I just wish I wasn't living in Singapore at times. I lived in Germany before and the people there are more liberal than pointing fingers at something that is just plain superficial.
Damnz.....anyone can suggest anyway to curb this kind of feelings? Thanks.
My jie mei is taller than her boyfriend. Isn't that worst?
And there are still happily together.
P.S: The minute when you start accounting for unneccessary thingy, you began to worry unneccessarily.
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Same scenerio here... I'm 158cm while my bf is 186cm. I have to admit that I have an inferior complex in height. But what can we (shorties) do? Still have to carry on with life right? Ask your gf to wear high heels if she can. Concluding, the most important thing is how she carry herself. That is what I've been reminding myself to boost my confidence.
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Hopefully your girlfriend likes to wear high heels.. will make her look taller.
And other than that, just stare back at people who stare at you. Do it shamelessly because you have nothing to hide and you have done nothing wrong. People will look away and feel embarrassed.
Celebrate the fact that your girlfriend does not mind you being that tall and that you don't mind her being short. Cheers! -
What others think of the two of you in terms of physical appearances, is irrelevant in my book.
What's far more important is; are the two of you comfortable with each other in all aspects. Not just height, weight, and looks.
What you feel in your heart, should supersede all other considerations.
Black or white, fat or skinny, tall or short, beauty or ugliness. TOTALLY IRRELEVANT, if love is true. -
Feel like slapping you.
You love your gf?
If yes
Do you thinking you should mind ?
Your gf look up to you in times for hardship but why are still here mopping about both your height.
please lar people look, let them look lor. SO wat ?
if you mind so much then you better change gf asap.
COs I believe you do not love her at all. -
haha my friend's 1.86, her best friend is about 1.5, hang around alot, like pinky and brain of somethin.
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hmm..then me and my gf are quite lucky. she is abt the same height as me.
me 1.76m+ so i think she abt 1.72m -
Guru78, did u get my PM?
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i dun thk is a problem unless she's 1.8 n u r 1.5
ppl jus curious..dun care abt them...