Any Chances of Getting him ?
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i am interested in this guy..
very decent but i dnt really know him well..
he is very shy..
humh... tried chatting with him, and this was found out during the chat..
we are chatting on other topic , out of no where this came out...
i was told by him...
he wasn't ready for relationship given reason of he too long time nv had gf / had no gf b4.. scare dnt noe how to or what to do as couple..
and he say he luv himself too much..
so guess in this mayb after few yrs den think loh ??
what is this suppose to mean ? am i too sensative or wat ?
is he trying to say he not interested in me ?
he is very shy guy.. dnt even dare look in my eyes..
some say if a guy dnt dare look into ur eyes means he had something for u..
is it true ?
tks -
see his mood lor
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Ain't you suppose to be attached already or something....?Originally posted by subarugal:i am interested in this guy..
very decent but i dnt really know him well..
he is very shy..
humh... tried chatting with him, and this was found out during the chat..
we are chatting on other topic , out of no where this came out...
i was told by him...
he wasn't ready for relationship given reason of he too long time nv had gf / had no gf b4.. scare dnt noe how to or what to do as couple..
and he say he luv himself too much..
so guess in this mayb after few yrs den think loh ??
what is this suppose to mean ? am i too sensative or wat ?
is he trying to say he not interested in me ?
he is very shy guy.. dnt even dare look in my eyes..
some say if a guy dnt dare look into ur eyes means he had something for u..
is it true ?
tks
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supposedly with that 30 over year old guy ah?Originally posted by Devil1976:Ain't you suppose to be attached already or something....? -
Hmmz....Maybe he not ready?
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Mmm... I think so..? Or at least when I last heard she was willingly attached...?Originally posted by kopiosatu:supposedly with that 30 over year old guy ah? -
hahahahaha and they have all those male bashing topics...Originally posted by Devil1976:Mmm... I think so..? Or at least when I last heard she was willingly attached...? -
Haha... That one I'm not concerned with lah... It's always a personal preference....Originally posted by kopiosatu:hahahahaha and they have all those male bashing topics... 
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dont u wish she's fantasising about u? pervert...Originally posted by Devil1976:Haha... That one I'm not concerned with lah... It's always a personal preference.... 
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Originally posted by subarugal:
Yes, there are some shy guys (there are friends who call such guys "hum jee" ) who dare not look into a girl's eyes if they like her, because if they looked too long, they'd probably get too nervous and just lose control of their bladders. If you suspect this guy to be so, then you'd have to take the initiative (eg. hold his face with your hands, bore directly into his eyes, etc), but then there is also the risk of scaring the prey away back to his momma.
he wasn't ready for relationship given reason of he too long time nv had gf / had no gf b4.. scare dnt noe how to or what to do as couple..
and he say he luv himself too much..
so guess in this mayb after few yrs den think loh ??
what is this suppose to mean ? am i too sensative or wat ?
is he trying to say he not interested in me ?
he is very shy guy.. dnt even dare look in my eyes..
some say if a guy dnt dare look into ur eyes means he had something for u..
is it true ?
However, when he said he "wasn't ready for [a] relationship" because he never had a girlfriend before and that he loved himself too much, then it does not seem to bode well. Unless in a twisted sense he wanted to appear so very "hum jee" that your interest would be piqued, it does not make sense for a guy to tell a girl he is interested in that he loves himself too much (also hinting that he does not have any love left for anybody else, including her).
A suggestion would be to continue being normal friends with him, chat nonchalantly on MSN, and let things go on their natural course. Perhaps when you get to know him more, you'd have a better idea where you stand in his eyes. Don't rush him -- if you make him wet his pants in front of you, he's never coming back. -
Never, never pressure a guy! Especially the shy type!..........The more you chase...The more he will run away. Instead get to know him better as frens, show him your character and personality. Once he's comfortable with you...he wonÂ’t act strange when heÂ’s with you. Give him some timeÂ…..if he likes you he will make his moveÂ…if not then just be good frens.
Your guy is exactly like me
Â…Â….itÂ’s ok for us to chase after girlsÂ…..but if itÂ’s the other around!!!!!Â…..Scared, no confidentÂ…..Run away lah!!!!!! 
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Ehh... she is supposedly to be 30 and married to a 45 yrs old man, with a 2-yr old boy this yr?!Originally posted by kopiosatu:supposedly with that 30 over year old guy ah? -
So sweet, can I know him?
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quote:Originally posted by ILPSY:Ehh... she is supposedly to be 30 and married to a 45 yrs old man, with a 2-yr old boy this yr?!
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Originally posted by subarugal:
haa..
ok ok.. but i am one of those gal who attract to older man..
my man is 15yrs older but i still luv him.. and i dnt need him to married me.. just stay together is enough.. enjoy his company etc..
and we had been together 5yrs.. so wat is d problem man ?
love is blind... regret not unless u havt make up ur mind ..
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yah loh, subarugal supposed to have husband already leh, so subarugal make your stand, whether you married or not, really make us confused man
or else you are not married to your hubby and have a child with him??? -
Hmm... Are you a shared nick...?Originally posted by mahai102:dont u wish she's fantasising about u? pervert... -
yes its a share nick..
the one attach and married is my sis..
any problems ? heee...
she is too lazy to get an account.. haa...
mayb i sure get one for her huh ?? in order nt to confuse all haa...
humh.. dnt noe leh, dis guy i am interested doesn't seems to like me, but his close friend say no, he is like dat one..
so who to belief leh.. but dnt deny this guy is very gentleman, when we go out in group he is always the one to buy food and drinks for me.. where else other guys of our group just eat away or chat..
dats y i take a notice in him, even he is very shy n quiet
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Originally posted by subarugal:
If he is doing it only for you every time you go out in a group, isn't the answer pretty obvious?
so who to belief leh.. but dnt deny this guy is very gentleman, when we go out in group he is always the one to buy food and drinks for me.. where else other guys of our group just eat away or chat..
That he likes you? And that he's a "hum jee"?
It does look like you have to "wear the pants" if you want this relationship. -
shared nick? but typing pattern suspiciously similar? hmm..
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but .. but.. alot of buts..Originally posted by Tuatau:If he is doing it only for you every time you go out in a group, isn't the answer pretty obvious?
That he likes you? And that he's a "hum jee"?
It does look like you have to "wear the pants" if you want this relationship.
mayb he is just trying to be gentleman ? Cos he mention by scolding his friends "u all not shame meh ? for gals to order drinks ? no no.. u sit i go n buy."
His friend actually pay no attention to him cos all engross in chat, but somehow i notice..
mayb like what you all say, get to know him first.. but problem is he is too shy to talk to me.. even in msn, he talk very little esp with group chat..
in pvt 2 of us, like very shy n nt much to discuss, humh !!
headach. -
seduce him lor...
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He is not looking at your eyes while chatting can be due to one of the reasons,
1. he is hiding something.
2. he is not used to having eye contact.
3. his personality lack self confident.
4. he thinks that it's cool not to have eye contact.
5. The floor looks nicer than...
Anyhow, I think you are over sensitive about his statement. If he don't like you, he won't be sharing his problem. Just happened that his problem lies in not knowing how to handle a relationship doesn't mean he doesn't want a relationship. -
mayb true loh..Originally posted by aH_v:He is not looking at your eyes while chatting can be due to one of the reasons,
1. he is hiding something.
2. he is not used to having eye contact.
3. his personality lack self confident.
4. he thinks that it's cool not to have eye contact.
5. The floor looks nicer than...
Anyhow, I think you are over sensitive about his statement. If he don't like you, he won't be sharing his problem. Just happened that his problem lies in not knowing how to handle a relationship doesn't mean he doesn't want a relationship.
sigh... everytime group outing become so pai say.. cos either the rest disturb us or is both of us too shy to talk..
even simple chat lead to let other disturb.. sigh.. -
Mmm... Actually, I was talking about Mahai...?Originally posted by subarugal:yes its a share nick..
the one attach and married is my sis..
any problems ? heee...
she is too lazy to get an account.. haa...
mayb i sure get one for her huh ?? in order nt to confuse all haa... -
are you having an affair?
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i am single .. wat affair ? humh..Originally posted by newcomer:are you having an affair?