Any Chances of Getting him ?
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Got a feeling that you shall let go. Either he's being in a nice way to ask you not to advance or he's really like wat he said.
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I'll say... Chances are, he's either not ready for a relationship or not suitable for it.... Mentality in a relationship start up can be rather crucial from time to time... You don't wanna step onto a boat only to find that it's already sinking...Originally posted by subarugal:i am interested in this guy..
very decent but i dnt really know him well..
he is very shy..
humh... tried chatting with him, and this was found out during the chat..
we are chatting on other topic , out of no where this came out...
i was told by him...
he wasn't ready for relationship given reason of he too long time nv had gf / had no gf b4.. scare dnt noe how to or what to do as couple..
and he say he luv himself too much.. so guess in this mayb after few yrs den think loh ??
what is this suppose to mean ? am i too sensative or wat ?
is he trying to say he not interested in me ?
he is very shy guy.. dnt even dare look in my eyes..
some say if a guy dnt dare look into ur eyes means he had something for u..
is it true ?
tks -
i like the advise of stormax..
Give up.. if he is ready he will come to me rite ?
if not i would rather give up this broken ship... den to find out in the end that the ship is sinking.. and i am drowning 
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shy guy do not mean decent okaay. shy guys have a tendency to be jackell and hyde type. you will never know what he does outside from public eyes
by the way, my friends tell me my character is the shy guai boyish type. i wonder what to do man?
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agree ! some shy guys are abit revengeful, scary indeedOriginally posted by boyish love:shy guy do not mean decent okaay. shy guys have a tendency to be jackell and hyde type. you will never know what he does outside from public eyes
by the way, my friends tell me my character is the shy guai boyish type. i wonder what to do man?
but no one noe wat is infront ?
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Love is a gamble. If U like him enough, I think U could go forth be his 'friend' and chase him.
If u win, good la
If u lose.. at least u gain experience chasing shy guys
Jia YOu! -
chase him..Originally posted by odi-o:Love is a gamble. If U like him enough, I think U could go forth be his 'friend' and chase him.
If u win, good la
If u lose.. at least u gain experience chasing shy guys Jia YOu!
mayb shld give both of us some time anyway he juz came back last Aug, now juz got his 2nd job. now juz started his new job, mayb lots of things waiting for him to do.. same time now he is looking for hse to move..
mayb he is scare mayb .. dnt noe.. haaa !!!
mayb i think too much ? mayb he character is those caring n gentlemen type who will buy drinks n food for gals ? mayb juz pure gentlemen act ?
Is there such really gentleman guy ?
but at times he is abit lazy.. humh... puzzel -
he never had gf before or too long din have gf? there is a diff.
1. has emotional baggage - from past relationship/s and wants to take time to sort out his issues before he commits into a new relationship.
2. doesnt know how - never had gf before is shy and dont know what to do or handle you
3. is not into you - at least not that much and doesnt want to have any relationship with you
4. giving excuses - not interested in you at all so this is an excuse
5. HE JUST ISNT READY AS HE TOLD YOU - AND THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU !!! hard to believe but it can be true.
morale of the story : MOVE ON. -
[quote]Originally posted by nuchio:
he never had gf before or too long din have gf? there is a diff.
1. has emotional baggage - from past relationship/s and wants to take time to sort out his issues before he commits into a new relationship.
2. doesnt know how - never had gf before is shy and dont know what to do or handle you
He never had a gf b4 for his 27 years
3. is not into you - at least not that much and doesnt want to have any relationship with you
4. giving excuses - not interested in you at all so this is an excuse
Never give excuses at all. except those he say loh..
5. HE JUST ISNT READY AS HE TOLD YOU - AND THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU !!! hard to believe but it can be true.
morale of the story : MOVE ON.
but we went only thrice ktv for chill out, and happen he can memories those few songs which i will pick or know how to sing (fav). wat does this mean ?
if u r not interested in someone will u notice these small details, like whether this gal is singing these songs during every ktv session ?
me juz plain curious. if he isn't really its ok, at least if i noe he has feel for me still ok loh.. that mean i still have chance isn't it ? -
[quote]Originally posted by nuchio:
he never had gf before or too long din have gf? there is a diff.
1. has emotional baggage - from past relationship/s and wants to take time to sort out his issues before he commits into a new relationship.
2. doesnt know how - never had gf before is shy and dont know what to do or handle you
He never had a gf b4 for his 27 years
3. is not into you - at least not that much and doesnt want to have any relationship with you
4. giving excuses - not interested in you at all so this is an excuse
Never give excuses at all. except those he say loh..
5. HE JUST ISNT READY AS HE TOLD YOU - AND THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU !!! hard to believe but it can be true.
morale of the story : MOVE ON.
but we went only thrice ktv for chill out, and happen he can memories those few songs which i will pick or know how to sing (fav). wat does this mean ?
if u r not interested in someone will u notice these small details, like whether this gal is singing these songs during every ktv session ?
me juz plain curious. if he isn't really its ok, at least if i noe he has feel for me still ok loh.. that mean i still have chance isn't it ? -
Sad to say... this doesnt really say much... I also can memorize songs that gals and guys sing durign a ktv session...Originally posted by subarugal:[quote]Originally posted by nuchio:
he never had gf before or too long din have gf? there is a diff.
1. has emotional baggage - from past relationship/s and wants to take time to sort out his issues before he commits into a new relationship.
2. doesnt know how - never had gf before is shy and dont know what to do or handle you
He never had a gf b4 for his 27 years
3. is not into you - at least not that much and doesnt want to have any relationship with you
4. giving excuses - not interested in you at all so this is an excuse
Never give excuses at all. except those he say loh..
5. HE JUST ISNT READY AS HE TOLD YOU - AND THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU !!! hard to believe but it can be true.
morale of the story : MOVE ON.
but we went only thrice ktv for chill out, and happen he can memories those few songs which i will pick or know how to sing (fav). wat does this mean ?
if u r not interested in someone will u notice these small details, like whether this gal is singing these songs during every ktv session ?
me juz plain curious. if he isn't really its ok, at least if i noe he has feel for me still ok loh.. that mean i still have chance isn't it ?
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ok what u say also true.. humh..
haiz.. so far no further respond
mayb he really not interested or dnt noe what he want..
someone advise me that maybe this guy really like wat he say dnt noe what he want.. or mayb other guys in the group commented interested in me so he is keeping a distance from me..
but dnt tink so more on the he isn't dat interested i guess..
mayb just be friend first and see how..
anyway i only noe him for few mths only..
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Yup... that's a good indset to take. By knowing him as a frd, u can actually know more and u wont want too engrossed in trying to impress him or trying to get the answer to ur question. So let nature takes it course and it will be revealedOriginally posted by subarugal:ok what u say also true.. humh..
haiz.. so far no further respond
mayb he really not interested or dnt noe what he want..
someone advise me that maybe this guy really like wat he say dnt noe what he want.. or mayb other guys in the group commented interested in me so he is keeping a distance from me..
but dnt tink so more on the he isn't dat interested i guess..
mayb just be friend first and see how..
anyway i only noe him for few mths only.. -
just curious hor
Want to ask why you like he so much?
In what way does he attract you?
Is he handsome?
To help you, I hope that You can answer this few points.
Want to make a few points clear here.
Sms and ktv are wrong ways to see whether a guy or a gal loves you or not .
Cos it can means lots of things not only love.
When you are in love even the smallest things he or she does is of great deal to you. Try not to let this small things misled you and take a step back to look at things, as these actions may not be actions of love but only friends way of showing corcern to you. -
Originally posted by drx:just curious hor
Want to ask why you like he so much?
i like him for what he is, his contradic character jovial / quiet.
Caring and of all i like Mr Ok guy lor.. everything also chin chye coz i am like dat also.. Most important i dnt noe y i am juz attracted to him, there is a kind of feel.
In what way does he attract you?
i guess i am attracted to his first impression he left for me, being so gentleman to help me and our group of fren (includ him abt 6pax) to buy food n when all guys are lazy to buy drinks and i volunteer to go he refuse to let me buy and comment his fren "u guys nt shame izzt ask gal to buy" n he left his seat and softly he say 'u sit down me go n buy'.
Is he handsome?
not abit handsome, abit plump. Just find him cute when he shy or blush..
To help you, I hope that You can answer this few points.
Want to make a few points clear here.
Sms and ktv are wrong ways to see whether a guy or a gal loves you or not .
Cos it can means lots of things not only love.
When you are in love even the smallest things he or she does is of great deal to you. Try not to let this small things misled you and take a step back to look at things, as these actions may not be actions of love but only friends way of showing corcern to you. -
if you really like him so much,
ask him out personally.
Send him a dozen roses,
go for dinner or supper.
have chocolates,ice-cream,oyster n wine.
boost his confident n ego.
make him hot n wet.
put him on de bed.
and make him sleep like a baby.
wake him up middle of de night and feed some milk.
pat his back and make him burp.
cuddle him sweetly and sing a song till he sleeps.
eh? think i in wrong post already...
paisey... -
from experience, shy guys make loyal friends and from feedback, are also commited and dependable boyfriendsOriginally posted by subarugal:i am interested in this guy..
very decent but i dnt really know him well..
he is very shy..
humh... tried chatting with him, and this was found out during the chat..
we are chatting on other topic , out of no where this came out...
i was told by him...
he wasn't ready for relationship given reason of he too long time nv had gf / had no gf b4.. scare dnt noe how to or what to do as couple..
and he say he luv himself too much..
so guess in this mayb after few yrs den think loh ??
what is this suppose to mean ? am i too sensative or wat ?
is he trying to say he not interested in me ?
he is very shy guy.. dnt even dare look in my eyes..
some say if a guy dnt dare look into ur eyes means he had something for u..
is it true ?
tks
they're a priceless catch because they're all but an extinct species
hurry while stocks last
but don't scare him away because once you lose him, you'll never get him back. they can't face you again. you need to use the soft approach. look vulnerable, and in need of his protection. even though they seem shy, they will defend the interests of people they love with passionate fervor. but don't get too "niarm pi pi" until he got no space to breath. they don't like to feel controlled -
Originally posted by boy in blues:from experience, shy guys make loyal friends and from feedback, are also commited and dependable boyfriends
they're a priceless catch because they're all but an extinct species
hurry while stocks last
but don't scare him away because once you lose him, you'll never get him back. they can't face you again. you need to use the soft approach. look vulnerable, and in need of his protection. even though they seem shy, they will defend the interests of people they love with passionate fervor. but don't get too "niarm pi pi" until he got no space to breath. they don't like to feel controlled -
Want to ask why you like he so much?
i like him for what he is, his contradic character jovial / quiet.
Caring and of all i like Mr Ok guy lor.. everything also chin chye coz i am like dat also.. Most important i dnt noe y i am juz attracted to him, there is a kind of feel.
I want to ask you this, if one day he changed suddenly and becomes bad and moody. He likes to scream at girls,stop caring for girls, becomes a miser and always ask you to pay for him and refuse to give up seats for girls will you still like him?
In what way does he attract you?
i guess i am attracted to his first impression he left for me, being so gentleman to help me and our group of fren (includ him abt 6pax) to buy food n when all guys are lazy to buy drinks and i volunteer to go he refuse to let me buy and comment his fren "u guys nt shame izzt ask gal to buy" n he left his seat and softly he say 'u sit down me go n buy'.
"The knight in shining armour" wow so you guys must learn from him hor haha just kidding. So if I were to say if he never did that for you will you notice him even at all?
Is he handsome?
not abit handsome, abit plump. Just find him cute when he shy or blush..
This question is to check whether you like him for his outer self only. ok you have pass for this part.
This one is a tough question. If one day he came up to you and he say he likes a girl and ask for your help in buying one present for his love one, will you?
1) help him choose the best present for his love one and wish them all the best from the bottom of your heart
2) decline to help him by saying you are busy.
3) Ask him why do you love the new girl
4) slap him and run away crying and leave him wondering what has he done wrong.
5) Stare hard at him in a shock state and wondering why he never tell you before about this girl.
You do not need to follow the above options and even can type your own answers. Just want to know truthfully what you will do.
I need to ask this questions to understand whether your feelings for him is a crush or do you really like him from the bottom of your heart, -
you laughOriginally posted by deathscythe99:
did that describe you too? -
nah he just laugh only like me
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[quote]Originally posted by drx:
I want to ask you this, if one day he changed suddenly and becomes bad and moody. He likes to scream at girls,stop caring for girls, becomes a miser and always ask you to pay for him and refuse to give up seats for girls will you still like him?
my character i would try to find out why he change, mayb from him or close friends.. i will stand by him as friend supporting him. Try to ease his furastration lor.. but of coz if he refuse to say anything i guess i only can be silent company lor.
In what way does he attract you?
i guess i am attracted to his first impression he left for me, being so gentleman to help me and our group of fren (includ him abt 6pax) to buy food n when all guys are lazy to buy drinks and i volunteer to go he refuse to let me buy and comment his fren "u guys nt shame izzt ask gal to buy" n he left his seat and softly he say 'u sit down me go n buy'.
"The knight in shining armour" wow so you guys must learn from him hor haha just kidding. So if I were to say if he never did that for you will you notice him even at all?
i guess i will still notice him, coz he is the kind of quiet shy guy who dnt talk too much.. i like quiet guys where else the rest is rowdy type.. so he still attract me.. hee..
Is he handsome?
not abit handsome, abit plump. Just find him cute when he shy or blush..
This question is to check whether you like him for his outer self only. ok you have pass for this part.
This one is a tough question. If one day he came up to you and he say he likes a girl and ask for your help in buying one present for his love one, will you?
1) help him choose the best present for his love one and wish them all the best from the bottom of your heart
My character i guess i will help him buy present. and keep my feeling buried lor.. Coz mayb at these point even i confess my feel also no pt. give blessing lor.. one word loh.. L L -
Originally posted by subarugal:
Maybe the gift will eventually fall into your hands?
This one is a tough question. If one day he came up to you and he say he likes a girl and ask for your help in buying one present for his love one, will you?
1) help him choose the best present for his love one and wish them all the best from the bottom of your heart
My character i guess i will help him buy present. and keep my feeling buried lor.. Coz mayb at these point even i confess my feel also no pt. give blessing lor.. one word loh.. L L
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from what you say, I could say you really like him for who he is and is willing to let go when the time comes. You seems to be able to understand relationship very well, I just hope that two will have a chance to be together. Now is up to him to show whether he likes you or not.
how to find this out>? hehe here comes the fun part.
1) gift method
mention to him only that you like something very much and hopes he buys for you.
2) fall sick method.
well just say you are sick and see how he react.
3) fake love method
Just say you like someone and see how he reacts.
4) Direct method
Go up to him and say I love you and hopes he say so too.
5) friend method
Ask friend to help you ask whether you got chance or not.
These methods can only help you find out whether he like you or not. If he does not like you I believe that it is time to let go. But hey at least you try. -
Not everybody shows it on the surface when you tell them such things...Originally posted by drx:from what you say, I could say you really like him for who he is and is willing to let go when the time comes. You seems to be able to understand relationship very well, I just hope that two will have a chance to be together. Now is up to him to show whether he likes you or not.
how to find this out>? hehe here comes the fun part.
1) gift method
mention to him only that you like something very much and hopes he buys for you.
2) fall sick method.
well just say you are sick and see how he react.
3) fake love method
Just say you like someone and see how he reacts.
4) Direct method
Go up to him and say I love you and hopes he say so too.
5) friend method
Ask friend to help you ask whether you got chance or not.
These methods can only help you find out whether he like you or not. If he does not like you I believe that it is time to let go. But hey at least you try.
And wait till if he finds out that you're just 'testing' him...?