Any Chances of Getting him ?
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Whao... this is going really deep into a women's thoughts. I've never knew men and women r sooo alike in thinking. Pretty amazing.
Anyway, since he'd successfully got ur attention, now itz time to for u to get his. Show more concern, not to the point of trying too hard to impress, just be casual... well a little more concern for him, if u catch my drift. Then slowly open urself... please, not ur legs, yet.... I meant ur heart, to him. Tell him about ur troubles, ur inner thoughts, is a good way to let him know tat u have "opened up" to him. In another words, com-mu-ni-cat-ion, babe.
Since itz his first time, go slow, dun rush it. But not too slow until he lost interest though. Do wat u gals do best, those little little gestures loh, playing of ur hair, holding ur mouth at the transparent glass and looking at him with a sexy, sensal, seductive look which says,"I wan u tonite, baby" ... oooohhh damnn.... wat am I saying!?!? Just forget the last sentence. -
haa... problem is we dnt hav much chance to be alone together.
So far this shy guy only approach me during an outing when all guys are playing billard. i was at the game corner, he sat down and teaches me how to play the game
other den dat no chance at all.. now he juz found a new job, n i dnt see him online dat often and seldom see him in our group too.. only when there is KTV session.. coz that is his fav..
this coming weekend going on holiday with the group.. he will b there too.. lets see what will happen ?
i will update u guys.. tks a zillion for supporting
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LAMEOriginally posted by Boo777:.......... Do wat u gals do best, those little little gestures loh, playing of ur hair, holding ur mouth at the transparent glass and looking at him with a sexy, sensal, seductive look which says,"I wan u tonite, baby" ... oooohhh damnn.... wat am I saying!?!? Just forget the last sentence.......
dont u realise it will turn off some guys? -
When there are no chances, u can create them... then it all depends of what he make out of the chance u showered upon himOriginally posted by subarugal:haa... problem is we dnt hav much chance to be alone together.
So far this shy guy only approach me during an outing when all guys are playing billard. i was at the game corner, he sat down and teaches me how to play the game
other den dat no chance at all.. now he juz found a new job, n i dnt see him online dat often and seldom see him in our group too.. only when there is KTV session.. coz that is his fav..
this coming weekend going on holiday with the group.. he will b there too.. lets see what will happen ?
i will update u guys.. tks a zillion for supporting 
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create humh.. wat if create liao but he act like turtle, hiding in his shell. haaa...Originally posted by Imperfect:When there are no chances, u can create them... then it all depends of what he make out of the chance u showered upon him -
then its for u to decide if u still wnt to give him any chances lor...Originally posted by subarugal:create humh.. wat if create liao but he act like turtle, hiding in his shell. haaa... -
The methods are childish?Originally posted by drx:from what you say, I could say you really like him for who he is and is willing to let go when the time comes. You seems to be able to understand relationship very well, I just hope that two will have a chance to be together. Now is up to him to show whether he likes you or not.
how to find this out>? hehe here comes the fun part.
1) gift method
mention to him only that you like something very much and hopes he buys for you.
2) fall sick method.
well just say you are sick and see how he react.
3) fake love method
Just say you like someone and see how he reacts.
4) Direct method
Go up to him and say I love you and hopes he say so too.
5) friend method
Ask friend to help you ask whether you got chance or not.
These methods can only help you find out whether he like you or not. If he does not like you I believe that it is time to let go. But hey at least you try. -
humh, i think i receive some rather better respond from him. dnt noe ? mayb just elaborate more.
fyi i am a non drinker.
1. went on holiday in group, and during a drinking game session i was ask to play in the game but i rejected. coz i cnt hold my drinking too well.. so i decline. when the group ask me to play and the guy i am interested to drink on behalf (actually he sit at 1 corner to watch the game only). and when i look upon him, he readily given me his smile and nod in agree to drink for me.. end up he drink quite a lots ?? of coz he also help 1 of the guys to sip a little when requested. Actually how many guys in here will do so huh ? is it just a gentlemen act or wat ?
2. when i reach home, i sent sms to him. and he respond with nitez greeting. wic we nv did b4.
3. now he has more to chat wif me. seems to respond and chat to me now.. coz he is those type of guy who dnt talk much. i tink he is comfortable w me now.
4. initial stage frens disturb by intro to new fren saying i am his gf, he will fast reply "no lah.. joking dnt belief.." these season he nv deny, he keep silent and pretent not to hear ???
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Somehow things gets more interestingly obvious.
It's all up to you to bring it up. -
my methods are childish?
well.
I agreed with you thats why i say is the fun part.
this methods are only gerenal methods lar
I am willing to hear more new suggestions.
subarugal I believe that you may have a chance there but i do not want to give you too much hope. Just try to act normal and talk to him more. Know more about the person first before making the decision. -
From what you said. He definitely was hurted by his ex girlfriend. he love himself more than anyone means he is a selfish person but who knows when you fall in love with someone because i know how strong the love can be. it can change a person and some people treat love is like everything *That was ME :-) * If you really interested in him, you must willing to love his weakness. Try to get more informations , do something to boost up his confidence. for example , hint him that you are waiting for him.. He don't dare to look at you maybe he think that he don't have much confidence. trust me, as long as there is love , miracle will happenOriginally posted by subarugal:i am interested in this guy..
very decent but i dnt really know him well..
he is very shy..
humh... tried chatting with him, and this was found out during the chat..
we are chatting on other topic , out of no where this came out...
i was told by him...
he wasn't ready for relationship given reason of he too long time nv had gf / had no gf b4.. scare dnt noe how to or what to do as couple..
and he say he luv himself too much..
so guess in this mayb after few yrs den think loh ??
what is this suppose to mean ? am i too sensative or wat ?
is he trying to say he not interested in me ?
he is very shy guy.. dnt even dare look in my eyes..
some say if a guy dnt dare look into ur eyes means he had something for u..
is it true ?
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1. I think i will also help if i am able to... but that's me lahOriginally posted by subarugal:humh, i think i receive some rather better respond from him. dnt noe ? mayb just elaborate more.
fyi i am a non drinker.
1. went on holiday in group, and during a drinking game session i was ask to play in the game but i rejected. coz i cnt hold my drinking too well.. so i decline. when the group ask me to play and the guy i am interested to drink on behalf (actually he sit at 1 corner to watch the game only). and when i look upon him, he readily given me his smile and nod in agree to drink for me.. end up he drink quite a lots ?? of coz he also help 1 of the guys to sip a little when requested. Actually how many guys in here will do so huh ? is it just a gentlemen act or wat ?
2. when i reach home, i sent sms to him. and he respond with nitez greeting. wic we nv did b4.
3. now he has more to chat wif me. seems to respond and chat to me now.. coz he is those type of guy who dnt talk much. i tink he is comfortable w me now.
4. initial stage frens disturb by intro to new fren saying i am his gf, he will fast reply "no lah.. joking dnt belief.." these season he nv deny, he keep silent and pretent not to hear ??? usually guys shld be more willing to help out the gal he is interested in. To impress mah. However, I dont think this can be of much use... in my opinion lah...
2. This is definitely a good sign. But I have one question, did any of u send a good night sms to the other b4? and what's the outcome?
3. U r right, he is more and more comfortable with u now... try to get him to talk as much as possible to u. Dont press too much with lots of questions, slowly lead him talk more...
4. Another possibility is that he may be numb to those jokes alr... coz in the past, i also react strongly to such jokes initially... but later numb liao also dont give a damn... However, the initial strong response may be a defense mechanism used by him to hide his liking for u coz he dont want u to be suspicious of anything yet, and since now things looks ok from his point of view, he dont see the need to fend of such attacks anymore... -
or mayb he is numb by all attacks so juz respond their joke wif smiles. he will smile usually now if they joke abt us loh..Originally posted by Imperfect:1. I think i will also help if i am able to... but that's me lah usually guys shld be more willing to help out the gal he is interested in. To impress mah. However, I dont think this can be of much use... in my opinion lah...
according to his frens he isn't a gd drinker, and true enuf after few drinks he high wif very redden face. but yet i am still hapi coz he help.
2. This is definitely a good sign. But I have one question, did any of u send a good night sms to the other b4? and what's the outcome?
no nv send gd 9 sms b4, but other sms yes but last x seems very cold to my sms. coz last x he will just read only lor. or other sms he will reply short n sharp. now sms him he tend to give details like : he is wif fren outside u go ahead or i am in a training.. is it gd sign, i juz hope its nt me tink 2 much.
3. U r right, he is more and more comfortable with u now... try to get him to talk as much as possible to u. Dont press too much with lots of questions, slowly lead him talk more...
4. Another possibility is that he may be numb to those jokes alr... coz in the past, i also react strongly to such jokes initially... but later numb liao also dont give a damn... However, the initial strong response may be a defense mechanism used by him to hide his liking for u coz he dont want u to be suspicious of anything yet, and since now things looks ok from his point of view, he dont see the need to fend of such attacks anymore... -
yah, tks.. i really think so too. i dnt like to make things become from his view that i am very desparate loh. not face concern but if this way maybe he will nt like me. some of my guys fren was saying that if gals show to guys too much, guy might feel there isn't much challenge as they will tink u can get this gal anytime. is dat true for guys to think dis way ? So fren was saying u can show fren concern but dnt show dat u like him alot.. or very hard up for him. True not ?Originally posted by drx:my methods are childish?
well.
I agreed with you thats why i say is the fun part.
this methods are only gerenal methods lar
I am willing to hear more new suggestions.
subarugal I believe that you may have a chance there but i do not want to give you too much hope. Just try to act normal and talk to him more. Know more about the person first before making the decision.