yea, this is the best thing. and i believe both of you are in Spore? Then shudnt be too hard to arrange a meet up if both of you are really serious about this?Originally posted by dragg:arrange to meet up with her![]()
dun judge pls, he doesn't have to be anti-social and lonely in nature to have this happening to him. Some times things happen beyond our control...Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:You must be quite anti-social and lonely in nature to have such a thing occurring to you, do go out more often with your friends
Haha, dats wat my sweetie thought before he let me know about it. Anyway, try to hint to her? or maybe just simply ask her to go out as friends? Nothing wrong with that right?Originally posted by grief00:I definitely can't let her know. She doesn't know that I think like that, and I don't think she's got any special feelings towards me. I'm sure she's just treating me as a friend. Haven't even got the opportunity to ask her out yet..
telling her about it will simply destroy any chances of even continuing being friends with her..
Oh well, sigh..
dont be so sure ok? at least give it a try then sigh in vain.Originally posted by grief00:I definitely can't let her know. She doesn't know that I think like that, and I don't think she's got any special feelings towards me. I'm sure she's just treating me as a friend. Haven't even got the opportunity to ask her out yet..
telling her about it will simply destroy any chances of even continuing being friends with her..
Oh well, sigh..
Thanks for your advice. I have to say that I'm not really how you describe. I do have close friends and buddies that I go out with often. I myself am feeling quite stupid that such incident could occur to me.Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:You must be quite anti-social and lonely in nature to have such a thing occurring to you, do go out more often with your friends
yah agree.. try asking her out n c how it goes....gd luck~Originally posted by icyprincess:dun judge pls, he doesn't have to be anti-social and lonely in nature to have this happening to him. Some times things happen beyond our control...
i.c.y
erm,icy, you are into internet romances too?Originally posted by icyprincess:Haha, dats wat my sweetie thought before he let me know about it. Anyway, try to hint to her? or maybe just simply ask her to go out as friends? Nothing wrong with that right?
i.c.y
I agree. And dun feel that you are stupid. Because like you said, sometimes feelings are very hard to control...Originally posted by grief00:Thanks for your advice. I have to say that I'm not really how you describe. I do have close friends and buddies that I go out with often. I myself am feeling quite stupid that such incident could occur to me.
I used to disagree with my friends who go for blind dates, net-meeting and stuffs, but now I understand that sometimes, when someone's captured ur feelings, you just can't control it.![]()
Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:You must be quite anti-social and lonely in nature to have such a thing occurring to you, do go out more often with your friends
Do you think it is wrong?Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:erm,icy, you are into internet romances too?![]()
haha then I am definitely..indulgingOriginally posted by choco B:Internet romance is so sweet and ... i dunno. Simple. Giddy.
Indulge, but always be realistic about it. Especially if you haven't met her yet.
u have been in it before?Originally posted by choco B:Online romances aren't THAT bad!
Nah, you don't have to feel stupid, I just thought that maybe if you could go out more often, you would not indulge in this kind of 'loner' activities. But of course, not saying 'loner' activities aren't good, just like some 'sociable' activities like too much clubbing and (drinking, smoking etc.) .Originally posted by grief00:Thanks for your advice. I have to say that I'm not really how you describe. I do have close friends and buddies that I go out with often. I myself am feeling quite stupid that such incident could occur to me.
I used to disagree with my friends who go for blind dates, net-meeting and stuffs, but now I understand that sometimes, when someone's captured ur feelings, you just can't control it.![]()
Nope, there is no wrong in loving someone if you know the person personally and well.(whether is it from the internet or real life)Originally posted by icyprincess:Do you think it is wrong?
Is there any wrong and right in loving someone?
i.c.y
it is not a loner activity. he is communicating with someone he can connect withOriginally posted by Oyster Omelette:Nah, you don't have to feel stupid, I just thought that maybe if you could go out more often, you would not indulge in this kind of 'loner' activities. But of course, not saying 'loner' activities aren't good, just like some 'sociable' activities like too much clubbing and (drinking, smoking etc.) .
Anyway, I could advice you to drop hints here and there and also, be patient as some people do find internet romances not real and fufiling. Advice can only be given, but the rest, it's still up to you.
PM me wif ur MSN add, we will talk thereOriginally posted by grief00:Hey, thanks for the encouragement guys. I'm new in this forum, and am really pleasantly surprised that there are so many responses in such a short while.
This problem is definitely making my mood fluctuate alot. Could be so happy at one moment, and very depressed at another. Having major exams soon certainly doesn't help.
Just wondering how you guys would cope if u're in the same situation?
Originally posted by icyprincess:u have been in it before?
i.c.y