Love before first sight?

• icyprincess

  23 Apr 05, 04:23

  Originally posted by CenturionMBT:

  aiyoh it already hard for me to believe in love at first sight. Now you are telling me about love before first sight . . . .
  pne fine day somebody will tell me that he found his partner through telekinesis

  Isn't life always about expecting the unexpected? If everything is so predictable, wun life be such a boring affair?
  
  There are things which can happen beyond our control at times. But I firmly believe that everything does happen for a reason. And as long as it is something that makes us happy, why not give it a chance instead of worrying nonstop and ruining the possibility of it blossoming into something beautiful even before it can begin?
  
  People have different faith about different things. Some people believe in love at the first sight. Some don't. Some believe in meeting their soulmates thru the Net, some are sceptical about it. But everyone who believes in a certain something must have had a reason for believing, and maybe it is because they are going through (or have gone thru) it themselves. So it is sometimes difficult for someone who has not gone through this experience to know what we are talking about.
  
  i.c.y
• Xcert

  23 Apr 05, 06:48

  Originally posted by grief00:

  Hi pple.
  
  Well, couldn't believe I've fallen into such a situation. I've never believed that a person could take on a special liking towards someone even before meeting up with her face to face, until it happened to me.
  
  Got to know this girl through friendster through a very unexpected manner, and became friends with her, frequently chatting with her on msn and sms, and occasionally on phone. It came to a certain stage where I realised that I've got a crush on her.
  
  Yea, seems naive, absurd, and whatever you want to call. Guess such feeling is uncontrollable. I really need to hear you people's views on this issue. Anyone had a similar experience before? Care to share how did you deal with such a problem?
  
  Getting real bothered by this man..
  
  Thanks guys.

  U are in danger of falling prey to online predators.
• M©+square

  24 Apr 05, 12:50

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  Isn't life always about expecting the unexpected? If everything is so predictable, wun life be such a boring affair?
  
  There are things which can happen beyond our control at times. But I firmly believe that everything does happen for a reason. And as long as it is something that makes us happy, why not give it a chance instead of worrying nonstop and ruining the possibility of it blossoming into something beautiful even before it can begin?
  
  People have different faith about different things. Some people believe in love at the first sight. Some don't. Some believe in meeting their soulmates thru the Net, some are sceptical about it. But everyone who believes in a certain something must have had a reason for believing, and maybe it is because they are going through (or have gone thru) it themselves. So it is sometimes difficult for someone who has not gone through this experience to know what we are talking about.
  
  i.c.y

  Very very familiar.
  
  Anyway, well done.
• ILPSY

  25 Apr 05, 10:42

  Everything is virtual until you meet her, face to face...
• frank_person

  28 Apr 05, 13:37

  Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:

  Disappointments and heartbreaks, that's what I could conclude when they are facing each other.

  If you really like the person even before seeing him/her, and expect him/her to be some hunk/babe... then that is liking only on the surface only. True love, including loving his/her inner self, doesn't require extremely good looks and such love is more endearing than the usual superficial kind of love.
  
  So... if u love a person you got to noe through the net, both parties if really love each other, shouldn't build such high hopes on the other party's looks lah... Just lower your expectations and both can be happier.