look forward. no use thinking of what-might-have-been.Originally posted by mckenzy:There's so many problems in my life
my husband
my inlaw
my family
my parents
and myself
i wish i could turn back time and remain single or be single again, and why??
i cant stand my husband - because his ego is so high, he thought he can settle all his mother's problem and our problem but in the end all suffers
i cant stand my inlaw - because she always look for or depend on my husband but not her other son who is still single with no commitments and her husband who dont really bothers about her problems and our problems and she refused to listen to me at all
i cant stand my family - because most of them go on their separate ways after married and never visit my parents at all
i cant stand my parents - because they were too demanding
i cant stand myself i hate myself may be because i married the wrong man of my life, i wish i could turn back time and be single or become single again.............
NPNTOriginally posted by mckenzy:There's so many problems in my life
my husband
my inlaw
my family
my parents
and myself
i wish i could turn back time and remain single or be single again, and why??
i cant stand my husband - because his ego is so high, he thought he can settle all his mother's problem and our problem but in the end all suffers
i cant stand my inlaw - because she always look for or depend on my husband but not her other son who is still single with no commitments and her husband who dont really bothers about her problems and our problems and she refused to listen to me at all
i cant stand my family - because most of them go on their separate ways after married and never visit my parents at all
i cant stand my parents - because they were too demanding
i cant stand myself i hate myself may be because i married the wrong man of my life, i wish i could turn back time and be single or become single again.............
Yeah I'm new here and I dont know what to do, and I dont have a friend to talk to about my probs. I am a working housewife, problems around me changed me alot that I love to be alone all the time, I am not like I used to be cheerful and happy-go-lucky... I am sad all the time. So I'm here at least to tell somebody my little sadness of my married life...to release my stress...is not easyOriginally posted by Manager433:Both new members here. Registered just 2 days difference. SBSK's clone?![]()
Originally posted by mckenzy:There's so many problems in my life
i wish i could turn back time and remain single or be single again, and why??
i cant stand my husband - because his ego is so high, he thought he can settle all his mother's problem and our problem but in the end all suffersCan you elaborate this issue as it is the most important.
i cant stand my inlaw - because she always look for or depend on my husband but not her other son who is still single with no commitments and her husband who dont really bothers about her problems and our problems and she refused to listen to me at allElaborate...
i cant stand my family - because most of them go on their separate ways after married and never visit my parents at all
i cant stand my parents - because they were too demanding
i cant stand myself i hate myself may be because i married the wrong man of my life, i wish i could turn back time and be single or become single again.............Have you given yourself the same thought when you've made the decision to wear the ring? Could you remember why you chose this man?
Are you ranting because you're over stressed? Pressured during this period of time?
It's sometimes good to meet up with your friends and have a heart to heart sharing, they might be able to nurse your emotional load and ease it off from you.
If you've chosen this perspective in life. More likely it's because you failed yourself first.
It may not be too harsh, just enough. Think thru?
Hmmmz....Originally posted by mckenzy:Yeah I'm new here and I dont know what to do, and I dont have a friend to talk to about my probs. I am a working housewife, problems around me changed me alot that I love to be alone all the time, I am not like I used to be cheerful and happy-go-lucky... I am sad all the time. So I'm here at least to tell somebody my little sadness of my married life...to release my stress...is not easy![]()
Do you recall what incident or when you started changing?Originally posted by mckenzy:Yeah I'm new here and I dont know what to do, and I dont have a friend to talk to about my probs. I am a working housewife, problems around me changed me alot that I love to be alone all the time, I am not like I used to be cheerful and happy-go-lucky... I am sad all the time. So I'm here at least to tell somebody my little sadness of my married life...to release my stress...is not easy![]()
I think she didn't really mean the things she typed here. Just pressured?Originally posted by X-men:when you signed on the dotted line... you not only takes ownership of your spouse but anything and everything that comes with it... yes including the in-laws
Its a package for life....
Originally posted by LuNAtIcfArKeR:ok, rub me and i'll grant u s wishes....
I've tried talking to him but there was not much action from him, all the time he remain silence in his study room surfing the net and I was like left alone waiting for him to sit next to me and chat you see... I cannot talk this out with my friends because I don't trust them at all, you know these pple will spread rumours about you once they listen to your other side of the world stuff like that... and I can only talk to strangers about this about myself.. well it's a very long story, we were lovers in sec. school and we were not prepared to get married when our parents told us to get married in the first place ... we dont even have enough savings to support both our parents after married or when they're in trouble at this time...I dont know how to talk to him when he loves to be alone all the time in the study room...or am I the only one who is under pressure worrying about this whole thing?... I'll be out of job soon, and it's hard to find job nowadays.. and at the sametime all this problems is playing around in my head, I mean my parents, my inlaws, my husbands, my job....Originally posted by deathscythe99:Hmmmz....
There isn't much way to turn back time, no advances yet...so all you gotta do is to speak more with your husband, discuss on the issues affecting you and let him know your stand.
u sounds like ding's wife ? We have a member here who sounds like your hudbandOriginally posted by mckenzy:I've tried talking to him but there was not much action from him, all the time he remain silence in his study room surfing the net and I was like left alone waiting for him to sit next to me and chat you see... I cannot talk this out with my friends because I don't trust them at all, you know these pple will spread rumours about you once they listen to your other side of the world stuff like that... and I can only talk to strangers about this about myself.. well it's a very long story, we were lovers in sec. school and we were not prepared to get married when our parents told us to get married in the first place ... we dont even have enough savings to support both our parents after married or when they're in trouble at this time...I dont know how to talk to him when he loves to be alone all the time in the study room...or am I the only one who is under pressure worrying about this whole thing?... I'll be out of job soon, and it's hard to find job nowadays.. and at the sametime all this problems is playing around in my head, I mean my parents, my inlaws, my husbands, my job....![]()
Well who is "ding's wife"? .. the word D - divorce has been said twice to him after my marriage but there was no action taken from him and now a few years gone already I dont know how long can I stand this anymore ..Originally posted by Nolvadex:u sounds like ding's wife ? We have a member here who sounds like your hudband
may i know how old r u ?Originally posted by mckenzy:There's so many problems in my life
my husband
my inlaw
my family
my parents
and myself
i wish i could turn back time and remain single or be single again, and why??
It seems to be like you TRIED to talk to him. But it didn't succeed.Originally posted by mckenzy:I've tried talking to him but there was not much action from him, all the time he remain silence in his study room surfing the net and I was like left alone waiting for him to sit next to me and chat you see... I cannot talk this out with my friends because I don't trust them at all, you know these pple will spread rumours about you once they listen to your other side of the world stuff like that... and I can only talk to strangers about this about myself.. well it's a very long story, we were lovers in sec. school and we were not prepared to get married when our parents told us to get married in the first place ... we dont even have enough savings to support both our parents after married or when they're in trouble at this time...I dont know how to talk to him when he loves to be alone all the time in the study room...or am I the only one who is under pressure worrying about this whole thing?... I'll be out of job soon, and it's hard to find job nowadays.. and at the sametime all this problems is playing around in my head, I mean my parents, my inlaws, my husbands, my job....![]()
your username is very theOriginally posted by fuck fuck fuck:![]()
Hey! Method 1 sounds great !!Originally posted by drx:humm sounds as if this is a tough one to crack.
Here are some methods which I have thought of.
1) method 1
sounds crazy to me too. Apply leave and dump everything and disappear do not tell anyone. Switch off hp. Take a trip alone to find yourself again. Works for super stress people.
2) method 2
start helping others, like going to old folks home doing something useful.
At least it gives some purpose in life.
3) method 3
Super hack care, live for yourself why do you always worry about others when they never care about you?
4) method 4
The D word. Do not really want to use it as it is the last card to use. We are here to help not to break up.
I wouldn't encourage using this method.Originally posted by _Aaron_:It seems to be like you TRIED to talk to him. But it didn't succeed.
I Urge you to try again. This time with more conviction. Talk to him and express all your fears and concerns to him. Don't be the only one in the relationship to burden these.
Choose an appropriate time and mood too. This is very important.
Remember not to be too paranoid and try to talk sense..
Hope to hear good news from you soon~