asking for too much?
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COOL.Originally posted by ~Lyn~:heeheee thanks... ur replies make lots of sense.. really thanks.. tmr is going to be my last paper.. den i'll be able to spend more time wif him and maybe can noe more abt wat's going on.. will keep u guys updated!
Btw, what caused the break up(s?) in between during your relationship...?
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Two thumbs up for you, girl!!!! Looks like you didn't allow what's bothering you to affect your studies/exams. Hope your last paper went well and you can concentrate on re-building your relationship, if indeed that's what it needed.
About men "play, play" and women don't, well I think it is a misconception. From what I have been hearing, women do, I'll use the phrase, "have fun" too. Maybe not the late teens or early 20s but the late 20s and 30s, 40s? A matter of who cares to admit. Besides, how else can the men "play, play" without the women?
Anyways, I am rooting for you. Discuss with him that it's not all about his needs, it's about yours too and how you both can come to a balance to have a satisfying relationship.....in every aspect of it. We tend to be guilty of thinking about what we want and what we like. I am sometimes guilty of that too but I try (this is work, okay) to look beyond my needs and pay attention to the needs of my family.
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gee thanks! so encouraging of u.. anyway my last paper is tmr.. still studying for it.. but i must admit this whole thing is affecting me my exams a bit.. dats why u still see me coming quite often to read all the posts.. hahaa but i still coping well.. thanks for the concern..Originally posted by littlestream:Two thumbs up for you, girl!!!! Looks like you didn't allow what's bothering you to affect your studies/exams. Hope your last paper went well and you can concentrate on re-building your relationship, if indeed that's what it needed.
About men "play, play" and women don't, well I think it is a misconception. From what I have been hearing, women do, I'll use the phrase, "have fun" too. Maybe not the late teens or early 20s but the late 20s and 30s, 40s? A matter of who cares to admit. Besides, how else can the men "play, play" without the women?
Anyways, I am rooting for you. Discuss with him that it's not all about his needs, it's about yours too and how you both can come to a balance to have a satisfying relationship.....in every aspect of it. We tend to be guilty of thinking about what we want and what we like. I am sometimes guilty of that too but I try (this is work, okay) to look beyond my needs and pay attention to the needs of my family.
All the very best, Lyn.
ya now i'll patiently wait for tmr.. free frm exams den put all my attention on him.. will see how it goes.. back to study liao.. thanks again! -
Wassssssaup?Originally posted by Devil1976:
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It depends on who r u dealing with.. if ur bf/gf is the trustworthy sort.. thru the years have shown u his loyalty.. why not give him more freedom n leeway. I trust my gf alot.. so i dun bar her from interacting with guys including her many suitors. She juz have to know when to draw the line.
Furthermore, would u like someone to restrict u. Prevent u from meeting pple. I dun think so. So why impose restrictions on others when u dun like it either.
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hi pple.. i met my bf yesterday after my paper.. we had a talk regarding this again but more of the trust portion . i told him my views..i told him i i decided not to restrict him liao.. i'll even just smile over watever stuff he told me.. as long as it's the truth.. itold him to haf some faith in me and some time to learn to accept things as they are..
heheee i'm glad it turned out rather well.. now i felt at least the tension between us are kind of relieved.. not asking for much, just praying that the moments he's spending wif me is enjoyable and sweet for him.. -
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Your post brought a smile to my face. I really hope that things will work out great for both of ya. Wish u two all the best.Originally posted by ~Lyn~:hi pple.. i met my bf yesterday after my paper.. we had a talk regarding this again but more of the trust portion . i told him my views..i told him i i decided not to restrict him liao.. i'll even just smile over watever stuff he told me.. as long as it's the truth.. itold him to haf some faith in me and some time to learn to accept things as they are..
heheee i'm glad it turned out rather well.. now i felt at least the tension between us are kind of relieved.. not asking for much, just praying that the moments he's spending wif me is enjoyable and sweet for him.. -
Thanks guys! so touched to see there's pple who caresOriginally posted by grief00:Your post brought a smile to my face. I really hope that things will work out great for both of ya. Wish u two all the best. .. today i'm very happy! we jus went for a show and a nice dinner.. the girl messaged him and he actually showed me heehee.. of cos i din forget the advice given: just gaf him my best smile and din ask anything abt it.. some improvements for me.. 
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Gd Luck Gal...
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I'm happy for u lyn..
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Thanks for the updates, Lyn. Glad "the sun is shining".
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if i am uncomfy with case 1, i would let my bf noe.. rather than keep it inside me all the timeOriginally posted by ~Lyn~:case 1: is it too much to request ur bf/gf to stop chat sms wif the opp sex whom ur bf/gf noe that party is interested in him/her? the thing is the other party knew ur bf/gf is attached le..
and case 2: is it too much to request ur bf/gf to refrain from sms the opp sex? knowing that the other party might develop feelings for ur bf/gf?(the other party dunno that ur bf/gf is attached)
guys do u feel irritated if ur gf requested for the above?
case 2 would be too much le..
anyway, couldn be bothered with the sms bah
if he's tat easily tempted... guess, better early than late
but i believe, that would not be the case