First date with someone.
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Any idea from anyone the stuff to say and not to say as well as the things to do in a first date with someone?
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Hi....?
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u like hotel 81?
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Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):u like hotel 81?
hey, pleaseeee........it's lunch time. I almost choked!!! What a good laugh that was. Oh, come on, this guy seriously asking for some first date advice.
Well, how come you have to plan? It's a date and not a business meeting or an interview......or is it an "interview"?? Why don't just behaving naturally?? -
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Don't mention abt ex gf/bf stuff unless u 2 are comfortable with doing so without arousing jealousy from either parties... also dun keep on babbling how good ur ex gf is, comparing this gal and tt gal..Originally posted by eurofighter:Any idea from anyone the stuff to say and not to say as well as the things to do in a first date with someone? -
If you`re a guy,Originally posted by eurofighter:Any idea from anyone the stuff to say and not to say as well as the things to do in a first date with someone?
I`ll say
Always ask for her opinions before any actions
cuz u will not know her habits or anything
ask for her preference and rem it
make sure u know it on ur fingertips and reproduce them at ur 2nd date
keke
btw gd luck to ur 1st date
it`s precious
anyway jus be natural
you look and feel best when u`re natural
Cheers,
BaByBoY -
Its hard to fathom what 'act natural' really means, so let me try a bit.
1: Hold the door for her, (yea, hold it, don't slam it infront of her, not a pretty sight)
2: If you like, you could pay for her stuff, but make sure its a "First date only" kind of thing. Paying subsequently could bankrupt you(and also make you fall out of love pretty quick heh)
3: Memorise a few jokes to make her laugh if needed. (Don't overdo it, she might mistake you for a clown)
4: Remember her hobbies? Take or do or bring her there if you think she's feeling uncomfortable in her current situation, or refer to #3
5: Look at her eyes when she talk, not anywhere else... (and listen. Remember to listen)
6: Dress appropriately, don't wear long sleeved formal and all when she's dressed casually. (Take some time to let her know where you're going in advance as well)
7: Oh yea, this is a big one. Unless she sincerely asks about your history, Don't.. i mean DON"T start telling her about your grandma, your grandpa, your achivements without asking. Girls don't really like to hear guys brag. Ask about her if you like, and perhaps she will ask about you. (But look at her expression, if she's bored when you're telling your NS stories... better do something about it dude).
That's pretty much advice i can give you, so take care~ -
Buy her flowers and pay for everything.
Ask her where to go for date.
Ask her what she want to eat for the date.
In no time, she fall in love with you after you do all these consistently. -
Some girls don't like guys who ask too much about opinions along the whole date... Makes her feel that he can't make up his own mind and make simple decisions....Originally posted by Oyathatsme:Buy her flowers and pay for everything.
Ask her where to go for date.
Ask her what she want to eat for the date.
In no time, she fall in love with you after you do all these consistently. -
Just be yourself la.
If you are not a gentleman and try to be one of the first date just to impress, then very soon you will be back to your normal self. If it disappoints her, in time to come, she will feel cheated nia. -
just be yourself..be sincere...Originally posted by eurofighter:Any idea from anyone the stuff to say and not to say as well as the things to do in a first date with someone? -
be very observant ... noe her pattern like drink drinks with 2 straw for example.. next time u buy her a drink take two straws for her...
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Buy her an ice-cream and say
"I'll savour this pleasure before our love gets melts away" -
Never mind. Forget what I've said
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first date say tat...Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:Buy her an ice-cream and say
"I'll savour this pleasure before our love gets melts away"
scare her away ar... -
first date as in first date with this "new" girl? or first date as in first date of your life??
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Bring her to expensive restaurant and get her flowers.
She will be impressed..
Confirm..
Best you better not touch her or kiss her.
And tell her u like her first date
Your chances of getting her is good. -
As mentioned, listen. Don't need a expensive restaurant, nice decent place should be good enough. Best advice is go somewhere you know well enough that you can suggest what is good. Don't order for the person unless she asks you to. Make sure she approves though.
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buy her flowers or gifts
show ur interest in her....
than like that she can give u chance for 2nd date
confirm! -
Originally posted by eurofighter:Any idea from anyone the stuff to say and not to say as well as the things to do in a first date with someone?
Seriously, learn to do this: don't see your date as a DATE - learn to see her/him as friend. This may sound simple, but it actually helps to handle your whole preception and mental stress during your so-called date. Too much stress during date creates a kind of energy that is easily picked up by your date - especially if her womanly instinct is radar-like.
Be comfortable with yourself, then conversation will flow comfortably.
Cheers -
haha, that's why I said to forget what I've saidOriginally posted by hyuuga neji:first date say tat...
scare her away ar... -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:
not ALWAYS ask for opinion la...
If you`re a guy,
I`ll say
[b]Always ask for her opinions before any actions
cuz u will not know her habits or anything
ask for her preference and rem it
make sure u know it on ur fingertips and reproduce them at ur 2nd date
keke
btw gd luck to ur 1st date
it`s precious
anyway jus be natural
you look and feel best when u`re natural
Cheers,
BaByBoY[/b]
sometimes its better to keep ur eye open and observe
she will be pleasantly surprised when u can tell some of the stuff she likes, dislikes...
this proves that u are attentive and sensitive to her and her needs
always asking, on the other hand, only shows that u got no mind of ur own -
Be yourself.
Open your eyes wide to pick up all sorts of signals, especially the non-verbal ones and adjust accordingly.
Good luck. -
Just be yourself,most importantly is to be comfortable.I will share a little experience here:
I had a date with this girl.At first,we both thought we are some kind of very 'high class' people,food must be expensive(not good nvm,must be X),must have $$$,must eat at classy places......etc.Hence,we generally feel a little uncomfortable not able to be ourselves.
Turns out that we both are just regular visitors of market food,love simple things and most importantly,easy going and love to have fun.We had a great time,we ate lots at the market,played arcade games and.......Heh,better stop here,dont wish to bring up stupid things.
Anyway,good luck and have fun on that day.