girls, what will you do if?
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my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. although we do cuddled, kiss and the regular stuff, he had stayed away from sex. then only recently he told me he dont want to have sex - ever. he assure me he's not gay, but he really has no interest in sex, so if i want to be with him that means we will never have sex. i try to understand but...will i be too mean if i break up with him? now ok maybe but forever??
if you are me what will you do? -
break up with him now.
better sooner than later.
it's going to be much more difficult later on esp when u have commitments. -
stay with himOriginally posted by lost little gurl:my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. although we do cuddled, kiss and the regular stuff, he had stayed away from sex. then only recently he told me he dont want to have sex - ever. he assure me he's not gay, but he really has no interest in sex, so if i want to be with him that means we will never have sex. i try to understand but...will i be too mean if i break up with him? now ok maybe but forever??
if you are me what will you do?
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he cannot stand?Originally posted by lost little gurl:my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. although we do cuddled, kiss and the regular stuff, he had stayed away from sex. then only recently he told me he dont want to have sex - ever. he assure me he's not gay, but he really has no interest in sex, so if i want to be with him that means we will never have sex. i try to understand but...will i be too mean if i break up with him? now ok maybe but forever??
if you are me what will you do?
if u 2 dun have sex, u will never find out and u can never tell anyone else about it
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my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. although we do cuddled, kiss and the regular stuff, he had stayed away from sex. then only recently he told me he dont want to have sex - ever. he assure me he's not gay, but he really has no interest in sex, so if i want to be with him that means we will never have sex. i try to understand but...will i be too mean if i break up with him? now ok maybe but forever??
Sorry... I have to step in here. He sounds like a weird guy... stay clear.
if you are me what will you do? -
call him go buy viagra la...my email got a lot of ads selling...if interested i send uOriginally posted by Axelheat755:he cannot stand?
if u 2 dun have sex, u will never find out and u can never tell anyone else about it -
dunno....i dont want to be mean.Originally posted by sweetie05:break up with him now.
better sooner than later.
it's going to be much more difficult later on esp when u have commitments.
besides hes very nice. i dont know why but he said he dont want to have sex. -
ask him again.
perhaps he is saying he dun wanna have sex with u until u 2 are married.
He is showing u respect and being responsible too.
tt would be very noble and honourable of your bf and i would think he will make a great husband next time perhaps.
but if he really means forever.. dan pls... he is no man. leave him for your own good. -
A guy who doesnt haf sex....
Hmm....
Gd luck takkaire.....
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no sex means no man?Originally posted by vroomvroom:ask him again.
perhaps he is saying he dun wanna have sex with u until u 2 are married.
He is showing u respect and being responsible too.
tt would be very noble and honourable of your bf and i would think he will make a great husband next time perhaps.
but if he really means forever.. dan pls... he is no man. leave him for your own good. -
Are you serious?
Having problems here convincing myself that such an odd couple -- frigid boyfriend and frisky girlfriend -- exists. -
i dont knowOriginally posted by Axelheat755:he cannot stand?
if u 2 dun have sex, u will never find out and u can never tell anyone else about it
this might sound selfish but i do hope to get married and have children and all....and if he doesnt want to....:\ -
Originally posted by Tuatau:Are you serious?
Having problems here convincing myself that such an odd couple -- frigid boyfriend and frisky girlfriend -- exists.
well its part and parcel of dating..... but i don't mind not really doing it but he seemed to imply he don't want it ever. i tried to change his mind with stuff but that doesnt seemed to work. he wasnt angry but he said he wasnt interested. 
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strange...wasted...
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You got to seduce him then...Originally posted by lost little gurl: well its part and parcel of dating..... but i don't mind not really doing it but he seemed to imply he don't want it ever. i tried to change his mind with stuff but that doesnt seemed to work. he wasnt angry but he said he wasnt interested. 
Seriously, artificial insemination is so advanced nowadays.. no prob getting kids without sex... but a guy not interested in sex is really very rare -
1%.....?Originally posted by DriftingGuy:You got to seduce him then...
Seriously, artificial insemination is so advanced nowadays.. no prob getting kids without sex... but a guy not interested in sex is really very rare
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go seduce him lo.....
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Im finding it a little hard to believe..
normally its the guy tt wants and the girl dun want.
here, its role reversal.
cant believe it.....
so there are really cats in this world tt can say no to fish.
If thats the case, y in the first place he on u for the r/ship?
I think he action action only lar...pretend to be a good man say dun wan sex..so tt u will believe he is not one tt goes ard farking other girls.
eh be careful leh....this is the kind of man tt u got to beware...
knn ....an ultimate wolf in sheep clothing perhaps.
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true...but i still feel like missing out...Originally posted by DriftingGuy:You got to seduce him then...
Seriously, artificial insemination is so advanced nowadays.. no prob getting kids without sex... but a guy not interested in sex is really very rare tried liao...thats why he told me he not interested. -
Is he erectile dyfunctional?
Or really a girl who has gone through a sex op -
it just happened, he was a friend of a friend.Originally posted by vroomvroom:If thats the case, y in the first place he on u for the r/ship? he ok at first...until the sex part. 
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something is fishy. why dont you check if he can sustain an erection the next time you cuddle? you will have a clearer picture then.
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have you seen or touched his didi???
seems funny tat a guy is not interested in sex...
is he the very religious type?
maybe he wans you to wait until you are married...
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another thing..are u chiou or not?Originally posted by lost little gurl:true...but i still feel like missing out... tried liao...thats why he told me he not interested.
maybe u not chiou, dan now he even more sick of u....see u also cannot get it up..tts y hint to u say not gonna have sex forever????
its possible u know?
guys are visual creature...maybe he hiam u on something lor....maybe u airport? maybe u on the plum side, maybe u not pretty or whatever????....so finding excuse now to get out of the r/ship.
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i pity whoever is going to be your girlfriend.Originally posted by vroomvroom:another thing..are u chiou or not?
maybe u not chiou, dan now he even more sick of u....see u also cannot get it up..tts y hint to u say not gonna have sex forever????
its possible u know?
guys are visual creature...maybe he hiam u on something lor....maybe u airport? maybe u on the plum side, maybe u not pretty or whatever????....so finding excuse now to get out of the r/ship.
No harm intended....me just trying to guess whats up with ur BF's mind.
No harm intended....me just trying to guess whats up with ur mind.