Is it true that a 16 year old...
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Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
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definately.
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Errrrr, true.
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Most likely.. unless that 16 year old has an IQ of 180+ .. then maturity occurs earlier than others -
Why so, is there so many couples aged 16 or so walking down the streets?
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because both the guy and girl are equally immature.
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nwadays,i tink ppl r jus some "followers"..hahas..no offense thou..i mean they follow more on books,thus,using more of their IQ then EQ..so maybe when they see ppl around 16-18 go stead,they oso follow..
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unless the 16 yr old is 16 yrs old 16 yrs ago!!!
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dun talk about 16 lah.. even most 26 also dunno what is true love.... only when u are 36 then u will start to treasure love...Originally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
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Well you will mature together with experience.So go into a relationship and come out of it more maturely.
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wat is love har??
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I think many of us at the age of 20+, 30+ are still learning to love. Who can be confident enough to say that he fully understands and know how to love?Originally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
Not to mention a 16 yr old..Commitment is already one big issue to them I think. -
16 is not old enough to understand love.Originally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
somehow when you are 16, you will think different.
u only live once......
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Not true to a certain extent. you see some of the divorce rates occurring in different age groups and you'll know that not only the 16 yr olds are the ones that don't know the true and deep meaning about love.
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To a large extent, 16-yr-olds wouldnt understand wat love is. But den again.. maturity is not based on age but rather experience.
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u notice har being 16 can have sex right? but RA(21) leh. i mean if u can have sex at 16 ra shld be at 16 also la.
but neway tt's off topic
coming back to the topic
True love is when u just want ur partner to be
ppl at 16 most probly not ready for a relationship. coz relationshops at 16 are most prolly just crushes which will fade away in a while.
unless both partners really treasure each other concerned for each other's schoolwork and stuff ya i say both parties are mature and ready for a relationship -
yeah...
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What exactly is love anyway? What would you do when you really love someone? What is the difference between having a crush and loving someone?
Now I know why I being a 16-year old won't understand what is love and what does it do to a person.
Can a person love two at a time? Or can a person have two true loves in a lifetime? If a person thinks he loves two, it isn't love that he's experiencing right? And, what is the difference between an infatuation and a crush?
Is it possible to love someone at my age?
And then again, what is love? -
how old are u
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oops ur 16 didn't see the forum heading lol >.>
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you joined in oct but only 9 postings!!!Originally posted by iwillsurvive:oops ur 16 didn't see the forum heading lol >.> -
marrying someone is based on love. that is true.Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:Not true to a certain extent. you see some of the divorce rates occurring in different age groups and you'll know that not only the 16 yr olds are the ones that don't know the true and deep meaning about love.
but after marriage, you have to live with someone... his friends, family etc. then there are alot of responsibilities like children, sickness, financial commitments etc. this takes more than love in marriage.
not quite right to say that divorce rate occuring due to not knowing true and deep meaning of love.
love is one thing. having to live with the person may be another. -
love is EQ - emotional quotientOriginally posted by DriftingGuy:Most likely.. unless that 16 year old has an IQ of 180+ .. then maturity occurs earlier than others
alot people IQ very high but EQ is zero. -
Originally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
A 16 years old may know nuts about love, what makes you think a 24, 30, 44 or even older understand it? Your maturity and wisdom in love doesn't neccessary equate to your chronological age. Why? A 16 years old is more prone to deceptive relationship? Esp girl? Cheated of money and virginity? I am so sure you people have friends suffering from the above causes who are 20, 30 or even older; it's the individual's life, not exactly the age.
Seriously speaking, I suppose contrary to most people, I believe that 16 - 19 years old is a good time to explore the issue of love. The time to experience the reality of love and hurt cycle. Please note that likely, relationship at those age may not last, a fringing` big however is that we all have to begin from somewhere and who says anything about BGR-to-a-marriage-a-must in the first place?
Singaporeans have this tendency to think too far into a relationship when they ought to learn to LOVE first and before the big M could be considered later. Generally, we have this similar-mindset of people entering into a relationship, thinking of marriage as some kind of main objective. Then when the BGR obviously show much stress and tension (e.g. heavy character conflicts/external factors and AIN'T solved within the framework of BGR) marriage still take place because 'it's to achieve that objective'. What grave mistakes... which contributed much to the current rate of divorce. If the Lego bricks you are using can't finish your final product: either you change different tiles or change your final product. Don't FORCE these sets of different tiles in trying to build your original final product; you will never be able to create that foundation and outlook. It will fail outrageously.
Ok, pressure from your biological clock AND parents/relatives/friends are influncing you into this thinking greatly: Love will ultimately lead to marriage which will produce happiness in the process. Yes, this IS the ideal love, but are we living in an ideal world? Can love be that simple? Embrace the new-age theory: Love is Love; marriage is the emotional & spirtual evolvement of love. If you can't even handle your basis cell block of marriage - namely the spirit of love in your relationship, there is simply no way you could talk about marriage.
P.S: To your question: yes, I doubt they are matured yet, but everyone is learning, at all age. Whether you think you are suitable for a relationship at 16, it's up to YOU as an individual, not exactly your age. if you think you are not, then you are not. Many a times, love's lessons is absolute, regardless of age, it just come and thrown right into your face.
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i think at the age of 16 is the time for studies and not about all these stuffs about loveOriginally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
cheers
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