Is it true that a 16 year old...
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It's a nice age. But is it the right age and right time(?)
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The guys n gals r still trying to figure our wats is love...Originally posted by tiffanie:Why so, is there so many couples aged 16 or so walking down the streets?
Experiments...with all the emotions...happiness...pain...hate...
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Not necessarily. Though likelihood is that they would still have much more to learn? In fact, I believe most of us would...?Originally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
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Various reasons...?Originally posted by tiffanie:Why so, is there so many couples aged 16 or so walking down the streets?
Can be for experience...
Can be for love....
Can be for trend....
Can be for 'kick'...? -
Love is... All possibilities....Originally posted by tiffanie:What exactly is love anyway? What would you do when you really love someone? What is the difference between having a crush and loving someone?
Now I know why I being a 16-year old won't understand what is love and what does it do to a person.
Can a person love two at a time? Or can a person have two true loves in a lifetime? If a person thinks he loves two, it isn't love that he's experiencing right? And, what is the difference between an infatuation and a crush?
Is it possible to love someone at my age?
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They are just curious about r/s..so just get into one for da experience..Originally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy?
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Maybe u r referring this love as puppy love ....
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I copied from somewhere. To explain what does the word " love" really means.
A group of professional people posed this question to
a group of 4 to 8
year-olds, "What does love mean?"
The answers they got were broader and deeper than
anyone could have
imagined. See what you think:
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend
over and paint
her
toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even
when his hands got
arthritis too. That's love."
Rebecca- age 8
"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is
different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy - age 4
"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on
shaving cologne
and
they go out and smell each other."
Karl - age 5
"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most
of your French
fries
without making them give you any of theirs."
Chrissy - age 6
"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age 4
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and
she takes a sip
before
giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
Danny - age 7
"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get
tired of
kissing,
you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when
they kiss"
Emily - age 8
"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if
you stop opening
presents and listen."
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start
with a friend
who
you hate,"
Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then
he wears it
everyday."
Noelle - age 7
"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man
who are still
friends
even after they know each other so well."
Tommy - age 6
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was
scared. I looked
at
all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and
smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared
anymore."
Cindy - age 8
"My mommy loves me more than anybody .
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at
night."
Clare - age 6
"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of
chicken."
Elaine-age 5
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and
still says he is
handsomer than Robert Redford."
Chris - age 7
"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after
you left him alone
all
day."
Mary Ann - age 4
"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me
all her old
clothes
and has to go out and buy new ones."
Lauren - age 4
"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down
and little stars
come out of you." (what an image)
Karen - age 7
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she
doesn't think it's
gross."
Mark - age 6
"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean
it. But if you
mean
it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8
And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia
once talked
about a
contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring
child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door
neighbor was an
elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the
old gentleman's
yard,
climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the
neighbor, the little boy
said,
"Nothing, I just helped him cry" -
I think you are rightOriginally posted by I-like-flings(m):dun talk about 16 lah.. even most 26 also dunno what is true love.... only when u are 36 then u will start to treasure love...
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Dear Tiffanie,
It isn't necessarily true that a 16 yo doesn't understand love. Many still don't, even when they're much older. However, as a 16 yo, your definition of love, & what you want are still in its infantile stage.
The usual case is for a person to go through a few relationships, so as to understand what they truly want in a relationship, & how both parties can grow together. This is a difficult process, which involves many heartbreaks, but it'll also shape your view for future relationships.
You'll be surprised when you look back 10 years later, to see how your needs & wants have changed as you age. The experience in learning how to handle a relationship that's constantly evolving will come in useful later when you wish to settle down & commit to 1 lucky person.
Not everybody gets it right, & some still can't get the mix right today. It's Not necessarily their fault, but perhaps it might boil down to different circumstances...
In a nutshell, 16 isn't too young to know what true love is, because feelings are most pure when you're young. But what makes a relationship last isn't just about true feelings most times, it involves much more than that. Hence, the older you are, the more you'll understand & know how to cope & how to grow together with your partner in terms of what both of you want.
I hope this helps.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy? -
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To love someone u have to learn to give up.
To love someone u have to learnt to accept hate.
To love someone u have to commit.
To love someone u need responsiblilty.
To love someone u need to respect.
To love someone u need to appreciate.
To love someone u need alot of time.
True love is always busy.
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Hi tiffaine
What I feel is that it is not true. Mature has nothing much to do with love. Many mature people at the age of 20+, 30+ even 50+ dont even know what exactly is love.
RegardsOriginally posted by tiffanie:Is it true that a 16 year old is definitely not mature enough to understand what exactly is love between a girl and a guy? -
Are you the same 'Silver' that we used to know...?Originally posted by silv3rgal:They are just curious about r/s..so just get into one for da experience.. 
